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re: What to wear to a rehearsal dinner?

Posted on 11/15/17 at 2:45 pm to
Posted by Palmetto08
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Posted on 11/15/17 at 2:45 pm to
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My advice would be sports coat, button down collar, no tie, but f you're going to wear a suit, wear a tie.


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This post was edited on 11/15/17 at 2:47 pm
Posted by Law Baw
Albuquerque, NM
Member since Oct 2017
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Posted on 11/15/17 at 2:46 pm to
Business attire, suit maybe if you are party of the wedding party
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
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Posted on 11/15/17 at 2:46 pm to
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No one wears jeans to rehearsal dinners for people with money.



This is laughably false, but ok
Posted by Golfer
Member since Nov 2005
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Posted on 11/15/17 at 2:47 pm to
quote:

Agreed. My advice would be sports coat, button down collar, no tie, but if you're going to wear a tie, wear a suit. If you're going to wear a suit, wear a tie.



Eh. Generally, I agree. But there are plenty of sport coats that can be worn well with a tie and slacks.

I'm not talking about a brass buttoned, blue blazer here.
Posted by yellowfin
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Posted on 11/15/17 at 2:50 pm to
I've been to one that was a crawfish boil so it was casual but outside of something like that it's a suit.
Posted by slackster
Houston
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Posted on 11/15/17 at 2:50 pm to
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You guys are only saying this because of the type of event it is and because it's in the evening, yes?


I'm saying it because there is essentially no chance you'll be underdressed or overdressed with a sports coat, nice pants, and preferably a button down collar. Throw in a pocket square if you've got one that makes sense.
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
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Posted on 11/15/17 at 2:52 pm to
quote:

I'm saying it because there is essentially no chance you'll be underdressed or overdressed with a sports coat, nice pants, and preferably a button down collar. Throw in a pocket square if you've got one that makes sense.



I totally agree with that, but I'm commenting on the suit vs sport coat with tie question.

I wouldn't wear a sport coat with a tie to an evening event where I thought I needed a tie. But in general, there is absolutely nothing wrong with wearing a tie with a sport coat. That's what I was referencing.
Posted by slackster
Houston
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Posted on 11/15/17 at 2:53 pm to
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Eh. Generally, I agree. But there are plenty of sport coats that can be worn well with a tie and slacks.


No doubt, I'm just going off a generic sports coat someone may have.



Something like this is perfectly fine OP.
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Posted on 11/15/17 at 2:53 pm to
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I'm saying it because there is essentially no chance you'll be underdressed or overdressed with a sports coat, nice pants, and preferably a button down collar.


This is my go to if I'm not in the wedding. If I'm a groomsman, I'll wear a full suit.

Obviously I'll adjust my attire depending on the groom/bride's preferences, but those are my standard choices.
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Posted on 11/15/17 at 2:55 pm to
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Eh. Generally, I agree. But there are plenty of sport coats that can be worn well with a tie and slacks.

I'm not talking about a brass buttoned, blue blazer here.


Oh shite, someone should have told 8th grade me that I shouldn't have worn a tie with that blazer and khakis to the homecoming dance

ETA: But I agree, I have no problem wearing a tie with most of the sport coats I own. Not sure where the notions that ties are only for suits comes from.
This post was edited on 11/15/17 at 2:57 pm
Posted by X123F45
Member since Apr 2015
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Posted on 11/15/17 at 2:55 pm to
Casual suit with moccasins.

But you need some swag to pull that off.
Posted by PhilemonThomas
Member since Jan 2015
2980 posts
Posted on 11/15/17 at 2:55 pm to
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Increasingly, rehearsal dinners I've gone to recently, in cities and for people with money, tend to be jeans with sport coat affairs.


New money.

The designer jeans, sport coat, shirt with pattern in the collar/under the cuffs is new money af.
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
91300 posts
Posted on 11/15/17 at 2:56 pm to
quote:

I wouldn't wear a sport coat with a tie to an evening event where I thought I needed a tie. But in general, there is absolutely nothing wrong with wearing a tie with a sport coat. That's what I was referencing.



Yeah, no doubt.
Posted by biggsc
Member since Mar 2009
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Posted on 11/15/17 at 2:56 pm to
Are you a groomsmen?
Posted by Peazey
Metry
Member since Apr 2012
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Posted on 11/15/17 at 2:58 pm to
Slacks and button up is fine. Maybe a sports coat. A suit is fine if you are feeling it, but generally is not necessary. Will also kind of depend on the type of event the people hosting make it.
Posted by CP3forMVP
Member since Nov 2010
15768 posts
Posted on 11/15/17 at 2:58 pm to
Depends where the rehearsal is. I've been to two rehearsal dinners in the past month and a half. First one I wore a button down short sleeve shirt and the second I wore a sports coat.
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
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Posted on 11/15/17 at 2:59 pm to
If the OP wants to stand out a bit, go with a bow tie. Self tying of course. You can pull it off with the right sports coat and shirt.

Ditch the bow tie for a low key look though.
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
85799 posts
Posted on 11/15/17 at 2:59 pm to
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New money.

The designer jeans, sport coat, shirt with pattern in the collar/under the cuffs is new money af.



haha

you guys

wait until you go to an event only to see a family patriarch or some other old money person wearing jeans, a sport coat AND a tie, then your grip on reality will really get totally fricked
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
91300 posts
Posted on 11/15/17 at 3:02 pm to
quote:

wait until you go to an event only to see a family patriarch or some other old money person wearing jeans, a sport coat AND a tie, then your grip on reality will really get totally fricked



If you're the host or the family of the host, you can wear whatever you damn well please. If you're a guest, sticking to something more traditional won't steer you wrong.

Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
85799 posts
Posted on 11/15/17 at 3:07 pm to
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If you're the host or the family of the host, you can wear whatever you damn well please. If you're a guest, sticking to something more traditional won't steer you wrong.



I'm pretty traditional, I'm just pushing back on these staunch views that I don't think reflect east coast realities anymore. I'd play it safe too if in doubt.
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