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Posted on 5/15/23 at 12:20 pm
Posted by tigger4ever
Member since Apr 2021
628 posts
Posted on 5/15/23 at 12:20 pm
When expressing your feelings turns into an argument but if you’re silent then you’re ‘mad for no reason’ so you’re always in a constant state of dissociation.

Girlfriend of son sent this to him.
Posted by JetsetNuggs
Member since Jun 2014
13866 posts
Posted on 5/15/23 at 12:21 pm to
Tell your son "welcome to women"
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
34857 posts
Posted on 5/15/23 at 12:21 pm to
Ask her if she drank the water at Camp Lejeune.
This post was edited on 5/15/23 at 12:22 pm
Posted by BregmansWheelbarrow
Member since Mar 2020
2594 posts
Posted on 5/15/23 at 12:22 pm to
It means he should dump her.
Posted by carhartt
Member since Feb 2013
7661 posts
Posted on 5/15/23 at 12:24 pm to
She’s pissed off that he doesn’t always agree with her feelings. It turns into an argument because he doesn’t support her and has differing opinions. She gets to where she doesn’t want to “share” her feelings with him because he doesn’t blindly nod and agree with her dumbass point of view.
Posted by efrad
Member since Nov 2007
18644 posts
Posted on 5/15/23 at 12:24 pm to
She's saying she has feelings that 1) if she discusses, turns into an argument, or 2) she doesn't discuss, she bottles up her frustration. So she mentally disconnects from the problem altogether to prevent conflict which is ultimately mentally uncomfortable.

Sounds like they aren't compatible and should break up.
Posted by Bullfrog
Institutionalized but Unevaluated
Member since Jul 2010
56086 posts
Posted on 5/15/23 at 12:24 pm to
It won’t get any better. He should definitely disassociate as she suggests.
Posted by SUB
Member since Jan 2001
Member since Jan 2009
20726 posts
Posted on 5/15/23 at 12:24 pm to
That sentence reads like a 10 year old wrote it.
Posted by 0x15E
Outer Space
Member since Sep 2020
12577 posts
Posted on 5/15/23 at 12:25 pm to
Just use the phrase “you need to calm down”

Works every time.
Posted by LSUcdro
Republic of West Florida
Member since Sep 2009
11126 posts
Posted on 5/15/23 at 12:25 pm to
Thats the only woman on earth like that.. Prayers sent
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
34857 posts
Posted on 5/15/23 at 12:26 pm to
If he marries this girl there is a 100% chance he ends up filming her having sex with a BBC.
Posted by StringedInstruments
Member since Oct 2013
18293 posts
Posted on 5/15/23 at 12:26 pm to
quote:

When expressing your feelings turns into an argument but if you’re silent then you’re ‘mad for no reason’ so you’re always in a constant state of dissociation.


She’s accusing him of doing those things?

Who cares what it means?

What I see is the same thing your son’s girlfriend feels when having a conversation with him. She expresses her feelings, and he reacts with a lack of emotional control. He is implying his weak frame that is shaken by her being in a state of disequilibrium. He should work on himself.

If she’s silent and being accused of “being mad for no reason,” then he is thinking like a woman by trying to make inferences that don’t matter. This is a major turnoff for her.

Come on, man. Be a good dad and teach your boy some masculinity.
This post was edited on 5/15/23 at 12:27 pm
Posted by castorinho
13623 posts
Member since Nov 2010
82010 posts
Posted on 5/15/23 at 12:28 pm to
quote:

Just use the phrase “you need to calm down”

Works every time.


and
"you need to stop yelling"
Posted by IAmNERD
Member since May 2017
19174 posts
Posted on 5/15/23 at 12:28 pm to
Means he needs to find another girlfriend because that one has a touch of the crazy.
Posted by carhartt
Member since Feb 2013
7661 posts
Posted on 5/15/23 at 12:29 pm to
quote:

Just use the phrase “you need to calm down”


Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
65425 posts
Posted on 5/15/23 at 12:29 pm to
quote:

Girlfriend of son sent this to him.
The rules exist here for a reason.....
Posted by tigergirl10
Member since Jul 2019
10299 posts
Posted on 5/15/23 at 12:30 pm to
Y’all already know I’m gonna say this, some of you pick some childish, bratty women or in his case girls to get involved with.

Some of us are low maintenance, feminine, and easy going.
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
28075 posts
Posted on 5/15/23 at 12:31 pm to
How the frick has the human species survived for so long?
Posted by LegendInMyMind
Member since Apr 2019
53434 posts
Posted on 5/15/23 at 12:31 pm to
He should just tell her to calm down and get over it.
Posted by LegendInMyMind
Member since Apr 2019
53434 posts
Posted on 5/15/23 at 12:32 pm to
quote:

tigergirl10

quote:

some of you pick some childish, bratty women or in his case girls to get involved with.

quote:

Some of us are....

Shut up, Walt.
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