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re: the dating apps aren't cutting it for me in terms of meeting women

Posted on 9/3/24 at 6:10 pm to
Posted by Reece Bobby
Member since Sep 2024
397 posts
Posted on 9/3/24 at 6:10 pm to
Honestly, you're probably better off without a woman. All they want to do is control men and brag on social media.
Posted by Saintsisit
Member since Jan 2013
5053 posts
Posted on 9/3/24 at 6:47 pm to
Gyms are weird places to start conversions when working out, but start going to Spin classes. Definitely an easy way to get to know chicks and go from there.
Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
69668 posts
Posted on 9/3/24 at 7:23 pm to
Go to the Philippines
Posted by joseywales1
Member since Apr 2021
103 posts
Posted on 9/3/24 at 7:25 pm to
there's some good apps out there for that!
Posted by HoustonTiger6955
Member since May 2024
115 posts
Posted on 9/3/24 at 7:41 pm to
Like many have said, girls get bombarded with likes & messages. It’s just like instagram but it gives guys hope for linking up.

And like others, been happily divorced for 3 years now. I personally am not looking for anything serious or long term.

If you’re somewhat financially well off and want to know how it feels to be Hott girl on dating apps, get on seeking.com. It’s $100 a month but you won’t be on there long. You’ll seriously get worn out and need a break.

It’s basically all girls dtf that want to go to Ruth’s Chris instead of Burger King. Is it shallow and meaningless? Yeah, but you’re basically just speeding up the process…. They get to take pictures of their food or vacation for instagram likes and you pound away until you get tired of her.

It’s like leasing a car. As soon as it acts up, take it back to the dealership and get another.
Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
69668 posts
Posted on 9/3/24 at 10:54 pm to
If you have no kids,

Fly to Asian and visit every massage place there
Posted by RedlandsTiger
Greenwell Springs, LA
Member since Jan 2008
3121 posts
Posted on 9/4/24 at 6:19 am to
Yeah, for bible study...
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
85204 posts
Posted on 9/4/24 at 6:40 am to
Ordered a GIANT print Bible off Amazon 30 seconds ago . Baptist ladies, here comes ya boi, lol.
Posted by touchdownjeebus
Member since Sep 2010
25998 posts
Posted on 9/4/24 at 6:45 am to
Dating apps are the DoorDash of pussy. It super easy to go from a match, to a quick line of banter, to a phone number, to a meeting. At that point, the ball is in your court.

If you are having that much of an issue, then maybe you need to work on your profile a bit.
Posted by OU812ME2
Earth
Member since Jun 2021
1329 posts
Posted on 9/4/24 at 7:25 am to
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What if you live 30 miles from BFE and have social anxiety?


I don't understand what it is about people now, but if you are having trouble just getting out and talking to people, then what in the hell do you think you're going to do with a wife? I mean you realize she's not the sexdoll 2000 right? You will have to talk to her and do stuff like go out. When you're single and your hand is your best friend it always seems like if you could just find some girl she would always be DTF. Sorry but that's not how it works. Hate to burst your fantasy.

Women are difficult and constantly trying to get you to do shite you don't want to do. They'll get dressed up 10 minutes late and right as you're going out the door decide they don't want to go anymore because 'I look fat in this'. It's a complete pain in the arse being married. I'm not saying I don't enjoy it. But damn is it hard work with loving but not liking your wife most of the time.

So if you can't get out and talk to people and have a huge problem, then don't put that on someone else. Go seek help and get over it before you ruin 2 people's lives.
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
85204 posts
Posted on 9/4/24 at 7:30 am to
FTR, that reads more as a cry for help/ plea to make it stop, than wise advice.
Posted by 053wab
Charlotte NC
Member since May 2023
269 posts
Posted on 9/4/24 at 8:50 am to
She wasn't on BC... I got clipped a few years ago.
Posted by OU812ME2
Earth
Member since Jun 2021
1329 posts
Posted on 9/4/24 at 8:57 am to
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FTR, that reads more as a cry for help/ plea to make it stop, than wise advice


No, it reads like a look back of over 25 yrs of family life and working through issues and real life. If you haven't been there then you wouldn't understand.

Dating and marriage don't solve the problem of loneliness or make life easier. Dealing with other people will always be harder than being alone. However I feel like life is much richer and ultimately enjoyable to marry and have kids and psycho friends and family. But if you can't talk to people, then seek help and start working on yourself.
Posted by terriblegreen
Souf Badden Rewage
Member since Aug 2011
11844 posts
Posted on 9/4/24 at 9:03 am to
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all the green flags a sexy 40something mom is looking for.


All the flags a blue haired freak is looking for.

FFY
Posted by Boudreauboudreaugoly
Land of the Rice n Son
Member since Oct 2017
2682 posts
Posted on 9/4/24 at 9:20 am to
Get some prison penpals…………or maybe penpalettes?
Posted by HattiesburgTiger5439
Hattiesburg ms
Member since Sep 2023
954 posts
Posted on 9/4/24 at 9:28 am to
Go get ya a fatty on POF!! Or go raw dog a dirt merchant! Come back and tell us about it!
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
85204 posts
Posted on 9/4/24 at 9:44 am to
I’ve been there , I was dating/married for 30 years and have three grown children.My comment is because you are telling a guy who finds dating sites a waste of time and has trouble figuring out how to approach women, a lament about not always liking your wife . I’m not slamming you or your loving marriage , just saying maybe offer something that might actually help him approach women. Not everyone is as suave as you, right?
Posted by Arkapigdiesel
Faulkner County
Member since Jun 2009
15397 posts
Posted on 9/4/24 at 9:46 am to
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the other one only likes black men, and she's white
Posted by dgnx6
Member since Feb 2006
85546 posts
Posted on 9/4/24 at 9:50 am to
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Dating apps are the DoorDash of pussy. It super easy to go from a match, to a quick line of banter, to a phone number, to a meeting. At that point, the ball is in your court.


Since covid ive had more bail on dates than ever.

So im getting to the phone number and asking them out part, its them showing up part that seems to be an issue.

Oh I have to watch my sister's kids I cant go anymore, sorry.
Posted by pelicansfan123
Member since Jan 2015
2344 posts
Posted on 9/4/24 at 10:19 am to
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Since covid ive had more bail on dates than ever.

So im getting to the phone number and asking them out part, its them showing up part that seems to be an issue.

Oh I have to watch my sister's kids I cant go anymore, sorry.


I had that happen recently. Long responses on Hinge, seemed super into me, I ask her out, get her number, continue just having normal conversation via text except now her responses are slowing. When I say the days of the week I'm available to meet up, she completely ghosts.

I get it, something must have come up, but it's really annoying you spend time with the small talk, you get their phone number, and then you can't even get a rejection when you say the days of the week you're available to meet.
This post was edited on 9/4/24 at 4:30 pm
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