Started By
Message

Seeing an ex-hookup in public when you are with your S.O.

Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:15 am
Posted by Funky Tide 8
Tittleman's Crest
Member since Feb 2009
52607 posts
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:15 am
I went to a brewery last night with my gf, and a girl I used to hook up with in college was there. I chose not to say hello to her or anything. She was with her assumed bf, and she also chose not to say hello.

Good move? What do you do in this situation?

I mean, it wouldn't be a big deal if we had have made contact, I would've referred to her as someone I used to know in college to my gf, not someone that I'd had sex with obviously. I just didn't seen any point in saying hello. Its certainly not the first time its happened in my life, and its never been a big deal regardless if I talked to the person or not, but it just felt kind of weird ignoring someone that you know.
This post was edited on 11/17/22 at 10:16 am
Posted by blueridgeTiger
Granbury, TX
Member since Jun 2004
20192 posts
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:16 am to
Posted by cypresstiger
The South
Member since Aug 2008
10565 posts
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:17 am to
exactly
Posted by Loup
Ferriday
Member since Apr 2019
11138 posts
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:17 am to
Pretty much the same thing. I might smile and wave if eye contact is made but I'm not going out of my way to talk to them. There isn't any reason to.
Posted by Bubb
Member since Mar 2010
3877 posts
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:18 am to
She probably didn't even see you.
Posted by PrecedentedTimes
Member since Dec 2020
3087 posts
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:18 am to
If they smile first I’ll smile, depends on the situation (and the woman).

Posted by JiminyCricket
Member since Jun 2017
3462 posts
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:19 am to
quote:

I went to a brewery last night with my gf, and a girl I used to hook up with in college was there. I chose not to say hello to her or anything.


quote:

Alabama Fan


Kinda strange you and your sister wouldn't say hello to your cousin in a restaurant but hey, you do you.


quote:

Good move? What do you do in this situation?


Honest answer though, unless I ended up next to them in line or something, I wouldn't go out of my way across the resturant. Maybe just a smile and wave if our eyes met.
This post was edited on 11/17/22 at 10:21 am
Posted by sonoma8
Member since Oct 2006
7662 posts
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:19 am to
quote:

she also chose not to say hello.


You should frick her boyfriend… that will show her
Posted by Nonetheless
Luka doncic = goat
Member since Jan 2012
32990 posts
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:20 am to
Posted by Funky Tide 8
Tittleman's Crest
Member since Feb 2009
52607 posts
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:20 am to
quote:

She probably didn't even see you.




She definitely saw me. She was in the beer line right by our table and looked at me. I was looking in a different direction when she walked up and didn't notice her, but when I noticed her, she looked away.
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
66968 posts
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:21 am to
I’ll smile, and she’ll wave. We’ll pretend it’s okay. The charade, it won’t last. When he’s gone, I won’t come back.
Posted by rltiger
Metairie
Member since Oct 2004
826 posts
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:21 am to
With chicks, best to let ex come over and say hello. In that scenario, your present GF wouldn't have anything to bitch about.

Problem seems to be you are thinking about it.




Posted by Will Cover
St. Louis, MO
Member since Mar 2007
38498 posts
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:21 am to
quote:

girl I used to hook up with in college was there. I chose not to say hello to her or anything. She was with her assumed bf, and she also chose not to say hello.


The alpha thing to do here is to strike up a conversation with the boyfriend, get the boyfriend loosened up, and then proceed to have secks with him, while in the act telling him this is what I used to do to her regularly. While she watches.
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
166028 posts
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:23 am to
Posted by Funky Tide 8
Tittleman's Crest
Member since Feb 2009
52607 posts
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:24 am to
quote:

Problem seems to be you are thinking about it.



I'm only thinking about it because it just naturally feels wrong for me to ignore someone I know. But at the end of the day, who gives a shite.
This post was edited on 11/17/22 at 2:02 pm
Posted by SECSolomonGrundy
Slaughter Swamp
Member since Jun 2012
15811 posts
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:25 am to
You're not married, so it doesn't really married.

If married, don't make eye contact and act oblivious to the situation.
Posted by stelly1025
Lafayette
Member since May 2012
8476 posts
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:25 am to
Who is more attractive your SO or the ex?
This post was edited on 11/17/22 at 10:26 am
Posted by Funky Tide 8
Tittleman's Crest
Member since Feb 2009
52607 posts
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:25 am to
quote:

Who is more attractive your SO or the ex?



S.O.
Posted by sonoma8
Member since Oct 2006
7662 posts
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:27 am to
We need pics to compare
Posted by AllDayEveryDay
Nawf Tejas
Member since Jun 2015
6996 posts
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:29 am to
One night I was at the Houston livestock show with my then girlfriend, and ran into three ex-girlfriends. One is easy to pass off, but an entire history was a challenge.
first pageprev pagePage 1 of 5Next pagelast page

Back to top
logoFollow TigerDroppings for LSU Football News
Follow us on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram to get the latest updates on LSU Football and Recruiting.

FacebookTwitterInstagram