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Quitting Drinking

Posted on 4/19/22 at 7:16 am
Posted by Doofus
Member since Apr 2022
181 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 7:16 am
To those of you have completely quit drinking how did you do it? How did you go about telling friends and family?

I decided yesterday that this is something that I need to do in my life. Nothing really bad or anything happened like that, but it was getting out of hand.

Simply saying the words "I have a problem, and I need to stop" out loud has really helped me a lot.

Any words of encouragement and suggestions are greatly appreciated.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
65395 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 7:17 am to
Happy for you.
Posted by Gugich22
Who Dat Nation
Member since Jan 2006
27709 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 7:20 am to
Congrats, man! As one of my good buddies says, sobriety is life's cheat code! I stopped drinking for 3 months only to have a few drinks on Easter Sunday and I think it's worth it to cut it out permanently just for the mental clarity, not feeling sluggish/hungover, etc.

If you need encouragement, check my out my guy's podcast - Recovery Road: The Intersection of Live & Sobriety

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Posted by theronswanson
House built with my hands
Member since Feb 2012
2976 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 7:21 am to
If it’s this bad i guarantee your family and friends already know you have a problem and they will be happy if you are just honest with them. We are on this planet once and you have to do what’s right for you and your loved ones.

You got this. You may hit some road blocks along the way but always keep working towards it. Channel your energy into something healthy like running or working out and you will see big improvements in your health.

Congratulations on taking the first step. You can do this.
Posted by xxTIMMYxx
Member since Aug 2019
17562 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 7:22 am to
Cut yourself off from social events for a while
Posted by Recovered
Member since May 2016
577 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 7:27 am to
7 years sober. Was destroying everything I loved one drink at a time. All the cliché sayings never helped me really. Best advice I ever got was just don’t drink today…today is 7 years later and that’s all I can do. Just don’t drink today.
Posted by WhiskeyThrottle
Weatherford Tx
Member since Nov 2017
5279 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 7:33 am to
Good luck Doofus.

At times I try to convince myself to go a week without drinking (enjoy 2 or 3 most evenings) and can't seem to even do that. I like beer and bourbon too much.

Social gatherings I would think is where it would be the most difficult.

May have to limit hanging out with friends that aren't supportive for awhile.
Posted by FalseProphet
Mecca
Member since Dec 2011
11706 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 7:34 am to
Im a little over a year sober. I just ripped the bandaid off and told everyone. My drinking controlled my life. I couldn’t take it anymore.

Im pretty involved in AA. It really helps, especially for finding a community of like-minded folks.
Posted by Jsand43
Member since May 2021
851 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 7:40 am to
It helps to understand what alcoholism is and how it effects everyone around you. Read the first few chapters of the AA book and stay away from social drinking situations for awhile.
Posted by SwampBandit
Livonia, La
Member since Jun 2016
3386 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 7:43 am to
Man i have tried and want to quit myself. I dont drink during the week but i make up for it on the weekend. Sadly drinking is what calms me. Instead of being lazy all week outside of work then drinking on the weekends i started working out every morning before work and try to limit my alcohol on the weekend but the limit dont always work.

I have noticed i literally schedule my stuff around drinking and that is a problem. I will quit one day and hopefully sooner rather than later.

Congrats tho man, if anybody knocks you over trying to better yourself then they arent really a friend. You do you and stay strong.

This post was edited on 4/19/22 at 7:45 am
Posted by bluedragon
Birmingham
Member since May 2020
6300 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 7:44 am to
Removed my liver ..... Kidding.
Posted by The Third Leg
Idiot Out Wandering Around
Member since May 2014
10033 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 7:44 am to
Best decision I made was giving up booze for 2022. After a month I felt amazing physically. I’m never going back. Maybe have a glass of red wine with dinner down the line, but i haven’t missed it at all. Of all the drugs I’ve done, alcohol is the worst quality high.

I wasn’t an alcoholic, but rather a rampant social drinker with an active social life. In those settings, I will now have NA beers.
Posted by Geekboy
Member since Jan 2004
4884 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 7:46 am to
For me there was a difference between “I need to quit” and “I want to quit.”
The i need to quit was I didn’t really want to but I should. The I want to quit was I really do want to stop. Two times before I was in the I need to quit mode and the longest I lasted was 48 days.
When I wanted to quit it’s been 5 years now and am feeling good.
Posted by BRgetthenet
Member since Oct 2011
117663 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 7:46 am to
Just turn 40 and try to retain muscle.


Boom.

You just quit drinking. See? Not that hard.

Seriously,, people who quit drinking when they turn 40 don’t brag. You just do it because it feels like shite.
Posted by BabySam
FL
Member since Oct 2010
1501 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 7:47 am to
Congrats! At first i would just tell people i was trying to shed some weight and watch my intake, soon no one was asking. 6.5yrs sober cold turkey then fell off wagon for 6yrs, which was only drinking 2-3 times per week and usually only beer. But i enjoyed my beer and i would binge it. AA meetings have been very powerful, helpful and supportive. Also reading the AA Big Book and 12 & 12 book has been life changing.
Posted by Jax Teller
Member since Aug 2018
3893 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 7:50 am to
I had to hit rock bottom.
And I was fortunate to have support from my SO.
Not aww shucks poor you support. "Get your fricking shite together" support.

That combination was what worked for me. Everyone is different though.

3 years this Sept. My life has gotten exponentially better in ways I cannot adequately articulate. It's worth it. Trust me. Good luck to you. <---water
This post was edited on 4/19/22 at 7:54 am
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
34814 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 7:55 am to
I haven’t had a drink in almost 9 months. It wasn’t crazy out of hand like a rock bottom situation just wanted to be present in life. I did it by switching to white claws. Started out with a case a day but now I’m down to almost 12 pack. You got this baw.
Posted by Beessnax
Member since Nov 2015
9115 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 7:56 am to
I think that some can just stop like it isn't really a big deal and others end up needing help. Hopefully you can just stop and be good without it. If you find yourself struggling to not drink and feel miserable you might think about getting some help.
Posted by LewDawg
Member since May 2009
75242 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 7:59 am to
I made an arse out of myself during Thanksgiving a few months back and stopped the next day. I realized that it's easier for me to say no to the first drink than it is to the second. I needed a reset and have been sober since.

I don't know if this is permanent but I did challenge myself to be sober for a year at least and go from there.

At the beginning of this, I just had to tell myself "no". Now, I can do all the things I used to get drunk doing while being sober and still having fun. I noticed that it's a hell of a lot easier to load the boat when I can see straight. The currents down here are gnarly at times.

You got it! Take it one day at a time.
Posted by Horsemeat
Truckin' somewhere in the US
Member since Dec 2014
13442 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 8:01 am to
I quit on March 6, 2019.
Started out for the first few months not telling anyone - just focusing on work, exercising, eating healthier, etc. Didn't hang out with friends or go anyplace that serves booze. Started going to AA meetings and working with my sponsor instead of going to bars. It was around the 3 month mark that I let my family into my decision.
Having control of my life and emotions again has been awesome, as well as not waking up with hangovers and bar tab receipts.
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