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re: Question about bringing in a second woman...
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:34 pm to northshorebamaman
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:34 pm to northshorebamaman
I have sex for fun and without any emotional connection But in no way could I be cool with my SO wanting to and being with someone else
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Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:36 pm to NawlinsTiger9
Yes I am judgmental. I'm making a judgment that this idea is bad and they sick as human beings and parents if they intentionally enter into this abomination.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:36 pm to Paige
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But in no way could I be cool with my SO wanting to and being with someone else
precisely. Like I said, the lines aren't so blurred
If your SO says they want this, it should be a red flag, and the chances are if you go through with it, they will despise you for agreeing to it.
Particularly women...no offense to you.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:38 pm to DelU249
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If your SO says they want this, it should be a red flag, and the chances are if you go through with it, they will despise you for agreeing to it.
I agree with all this. It works for us but I've seen it destroy couples when one of them wasn't really into it.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:42 pm to white perch
This is all a little sad to me & should be a huge red flag for you. Prayers sent.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:48 pm to white perch
It is ridiculous that people come in here making blanket statements about a relationship being doomed which they have no knowledge about.
Would this situation doom some relationships? Absolutely. Hell, it may even doom most, but to tell this guy that his wife is trash and his relationship is doomed is about the most short sighted, closed-minded thing I've seen in a while.
Would this situation doom some relationships? Absolutely. Hell, it may even doom most, but to tell this guy that his wife is trash and his relationship is doomed is about the most short sighted, closed-minded thing I've seen in a while.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:48 pm to white perch
Only allow your wife to lick the other girls butthole.
That's not really sex.
That's not really sex.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:49 pm to northshorebamaman
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It works for us
there are exceptions of course, but more often than not, way way more often, it fricks everything up beyond repair
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:56 pm to UpToPar
Whatever works for them but it would be a huge issue for me.
Bests of luck perch.
Bests of luck perch.
This post was edited on 6/13/14 at 9:57 pm
Posted on 6/13/14 at 10:08 pm to liz18lsu
Oh geez. Please don't try that angle
Posted on 6/13/14 at 10:15 pm to DelU249
As tempted as I am to offer an additional thought, I refrain. Don' t think anyone on the thread would appreciate the voice of experience
This is the first thought presented that makes me give thought to just stop with the OT. Post from all can be so off the wall & when someone post a request for an opinion, this response is so un-progmatic, it makes no sense.
Have to accept the fact that the OT is one big oxymoron or GTFO.
This is the first thought presented that makes me give thought to just stop with the OT. Post from all can be so off the wall & when someone post a request for an opinion, this response is so un-progmatic, it makes no sense.
Have to accept the fact that the OT is one big oxymoron or GTFO.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 10:16 pm to UpToPar
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It is ridiculous that people come in here making blanket statements about a relationship being doomed which they have no knowledge about.
It's ridiculous to view sex and a conversation with a person at work on the same level.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 10:18 pm to Mattwells90
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It's ridiculous to view sex and a conversation with a person at work on the same level.
Sex is a lot more fun.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 10:21 pm to northshorebamaman
Psychology disagrees with your view of sexuality.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 10:24 pm to Mattwells90
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Psychology disagrees with your view of sexuality.
I wasn't writing a paper. Posted on 6/13/14 at 10:26 pm to white perch
Do it and don't look back.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 10:26 pm to white perch
Almost got an ex GF to do it but we broke up before anything happened. She told me her friends told her it'd work best if the other girl was a lesbian.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 10:27 pm to white perch
You have 3 possible outcomes
Do it, it's awesome, and everyone lives happily ever after.
Do it, it blows up in y'all's face and the marriage suffers and ends in divorce
Don't do it and now you know she wants pussy and is likely slipping out on you to get her jollies from Julie while you're home taking care of the kids and pulling your pud in the shower.
Good luck. Sounds like a tough decision
Do it, it's awesome, and everyone lives happily ever after.
Do it, it blows up in y'all's face and the marriage suffers and ends in divorce
Don't do it and now you know she wants pussy and is likely slipping out on you to get her jollies from Julie while you're home taking care of the kids and pulling your pud in the shower.
Good luck. Sounds like a tough decision
This post was edited on 6/13/14 at 10:28 pm
Posted on 6/13/14 at 10:27 pm to northshorebamaman
Didn't say you were. Just saying most shrinks, relationship counselors, and people in general would say it's abnormal to be completely cool with your spouse banging someone else.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 10:29 pm to Mattwells90
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Didn't say you were. Just saying most shrinks, relationship counselors, and people in general would say it's abnormal to be completely cool with your spouse banging someone else.
Well, she asked him, so it sounds like she might be cool with it.
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