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re: Question about bringing in a second woman...
Posted on 6/14/14 at 9:12 am to white perch
Posted on 6/14/14 at 9:12 am to white perch
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We think so, my wife is talking with her about it.
I couldn't even imagine starting that conversation with another woman. "Hey, want to have sex with my husband and sit on my face?"
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Posted on 6/14/14 at 9:12 am to white perch
Fast forward for end....
See how it worked for Kucher/Moore and Thicke/Patton.
Any type of third party involvement be it purely emotional and non physical or physical can destroy a marriage.
See how it worked for Kucher/Moore and Thicke/Patton.
Any type of third party involvement be it purely emotional and non physical or physical can destroy a marriage.
Posted on 6/14/14 at 9:13 am to white perch
I know
The guy I responded too said he has had threesomes with different women, men, and couples.
I could never look at my wife the same way if that happened
The guy I responded too said he has had threesomes with different women, men, and couples.
I could never look at my wife the same way if that happened
Posted on 6/14/14 at 9:29 am to Mattwells90
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Literally countless things can go wrong.
This. More than most of you will ever know. Been there, done that, was awarded the damn t-shirt. This caused numerous problems between the wife and I.
Also, another of the reasons that I laugh at the idiots on here that think I'm a Bible thumper with no intimate knowledge of "gay" people.
Posted on 6/14/14 at 9:30 am to Azranod
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This. More than most of you will ever know. Been there, done that, was awarded the damn t-shirt. This caused numerous problems between the wife and I.
Do tell.....
Posted on 6/14/14 at 9:31 am to CorkSoaker
You thinking about bringing another female or male into your relationship?
Posted on 6/14/14 at 9:35 am to CorkSoaker
She brought in another female to live with us. Threesomes or sex between any two of the three of us on a regular basis. Wife finally got jealous, other chick moved out, and then the affairs started.
Posted on 6/14/14 at 9:36 am to Azranod
Amazing
Posted on 6/14/14 at 9:39 am to Walt OReilly
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You thinking about bringing another female or male into your relationship?
No, but I'm curious how this even happens in a marriage.
I would kill a bitch if she looked at my husband the wrong way. He's very good looking and I want him all to myself.
Posted on 6/14/14 at 9:40 am to Walt OReilly
I tell y'all all the time that the things I post about are from my personal knowledge and experience, not religious beliefs.
Posted on 6/14/14 at 9:40 am to Azranod
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She brought in another female to live with us. Threesomes or sex between any two of the three of us on a regular basis. Wife finally got jealous, other chick moved out, and then the affairs started.
Who had the affair? You? Her? Both? Y'all still married now? How do you even recover from something like that? Why did y'all have this broad move in for sex in the first place?
Posted on 6/14/14 at 9:41 am to CorkSoaker
Her idea.
Posted on 6/14/14 at 9:46 am to Azranod
Yea, but why? You never asked why she all of a sudden wanted that? I mean, shite, it's a pretty big life changing thing. I have a lot of ideas but some of them suck
Posted on 6/14/14 at 9:47 am to white perch
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We think so, my wife is talking with her about it.
Is she talking to her about it today, tonight, tomorrow, next week? When?
It sounds like your minds are made up if she's already going to discuss it with the third party. I couldn't fathom having that discussion. I could see where an evening would progress from casual drinks to the women making out to the wife pulling you in to their 69 while you pull your pud on the side until it goes off in your hand and have to leave the room, but I can't see how that conversation would ever start between friends.
Posted on 6/14/14 at 9:48 am to 4LSU2
Posted on 6/14/14 at 9:49 am to CorkSoaker
It had more to do with her being severely depressed after her father died and not coming out of it.
Posted on 6/14/14 at 9:58 am to white perch
Mr. Perch:
Use a Cost-Benefit Analysis here-
1. Do you have any firm data on the attrition rate of marriages which attempt to go from monogamous to this new arrangement? With you two having kids, does what you view as the potential up-side of this lifestyle change outweigh the risk of a permanent marital failure?
2. There will be a "I got a Christmas present and Santa forgot you" dynamic which would be at work here (your wife has the control and luxury of bringing in another and making all the rules, you were not allowed to do so). If you can get your head wrapped around this ideal, fine. Most guys would have trouble giving up the control long-term.
3. You say your wife is already in negotiations with the potential third party. Imagine for a minute if the rôles were reversed and you were the one "negotiating" with another person (male or female) to share your communal bed. You'd have already been with that person. I would have. (Ladies only need apply, the line forms to the left, take a number for prompt and committed service)
(Kidding, it's the OT)
You already have marital problems my friend, this FMF three-way stuff will only exacerbate them long-term.
Good luck, remember the kids don't have a vote in this you and their mother are supposed to be flying the plane.
Use a Cost-Benefit Analysis here-
1. Do you have any firm data on the attrition rate of marriages which attempt to go from monogamous to this new arrangement? With you two having kids, does what you view as the potential up-side of this lifestyle change outweigh the risk of a permanent marital failure?
2. There will be a "I got a Christmas present and Santa forgot you" dynamic which would be at work here (your wife has the control and luxury of bringing in another and making all the rules, you were not allowed to do so). If you can get your head wrapped around this ideal, fine. Most guys would have trouble giving up the control long-term.
3. You say your wife is already in negotiations with the potential third party. Imagine for a minute if the rôles were reversed and you were the one "negotiating" with another person (male or female) to share your communal bed. You'd have already been with that person. I would have. (Ladies only need apply, the line forms to the left, take a number for prompt and committed service)
(Kidding, it's the OT)
You already have marital problems my friend, this FMF three-way stuff will only exacerbate them long-term.
Good luck, remember the kids don't have a vote in this you and their mother are supposed to be flying the plane.
Posted on 6/14/14 at 10:26 am to Azranod
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It had more to do with her being severely depressed after her father died and not coming out of it.
Ok, you lost me with that one. Never would I think that sleeping with another woman (and having her live with us for purposes for my husband and I to frick whenever we wanted with no questions asked) would help me get through a depression or grief from losing a loved one.
Did it ever dawn on you that maybe therapy would have been the more effective option for that sort of situation?
Posted on 6/14/14 at 10:27 am to soccerfüt
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Good luck, remember the kids don't have a vote in this you and their mother are supposed to be flying the plane.
Please tell me this cat doesn't have kids.
Posted on 6/14/14 at 10:28 am to CorkSoaker
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Please tell me this cat doesn't have kids.
We've been married for 10 years
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