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re: NM
Posted on 1/28/23 at 5:21 pm to GeneralLee
Posted on 1/28/23 at 5:21 pm to GeneralLee
Know a few guys that did this. One just left his wife a few months before his last kid turned 18. Figured by the time it goes through, he will be in the clear.
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Posted on 1/28/23 at 5:23 pm to GeneralLee
After kids she depressed? Have you ever thought maybe she is dealing with post partum issues? Have you even talked to her about any of this?
Posted on 1/28/23 at 5:24 pm to GeneralLee
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I’m a high earner and she’s a stay at home mom so divorce would ruin me financially to say the least.
I mean, the longer you stay married to her the larger share of your retirement/savings she'll get to claim, if you're in a community property state.
In LA permanent spousal support is hard to get so you would have interim SS through the 1-year waiting period and 6 months after the divorce. Then it's just child support.
Posted on 1/28/23 at 5:26 pm to GeneralLee
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Wait to get divorced until kids turn 18?
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16 years until youngest kid turns 18
prayers sent
Posted on 1/28/23 at 5:28 pm to GeneralLee
If you are married over 10 years she’ll get half of your current and future retirement. You can thank a female Senator for that Federal law. But equality!!!!! “Don’t need no man…just his life savings”!
Posted on 1/28/23 at 5:30 pm to GeneralLee
You're worth millions yet you are relying on TD for estate planning LOL
Posted on 1/28/23 at 5:30 pm to GeneralLee
Get her on a medication.
Posted on 1/28/23 at 5:34 pm to GeneralLee
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16 years until youngest kid turns 18…. Would be the best for the kids though. I’m a high earner and she’s a stay at home mom so divorce would ruin me financially to say the least.
Now is the time to hide assets baw
Maybe separate account some of check goes there
Buy crypto
Posted on 1/28/23 at 5:35 pm to GeneralLee
You definitely wait until the babysitter to turn 18 before leaving the wife for her.
Posted on 1/28/23 at 5:38 pm to ManWithNoNsme
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If you are married over 10 years she’ll get half of your current and future retirement.
Why would they get money that you put into retirement after you got divorced? Or are you talking about a pension or something?
Posted on 1/28/23 at 5:39 pm to fallguy_1978
I think that may be military. I've never heard of that rule.
Posted on 1/28/23 at 5:41 pm to GeneralLee
If get divorced earlier less alimony.
Alimony generally based upon how long married.
If under 5 years, maybe 12-18 months.
If you wait 16 years we could be talking alimony in perpetuity.
Alimony generally based upon how long married.
If under 5 years, maybe 12-18 months.
If you wait 16 years we could be talking alimony in perpetuity.
Posted on 1/28/23 at 5:42 pm to GeneralLee
pay the pool boy to frick her brains out
make your move then
make your move then
Posted on 1/28/23 at 5:45 pm to ruzil
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It’s a good strategy if you don’t want to pay child support.
Turn 18 aside for a moment, if divorce with kids, why would you not want to support your children?
Posted on 1/28/23 at 5:47 pm to GeneralLee
Many yrs ago back in the 80's I lived in rural Arkansas where the large rice and cotton farmers were land millionaires. There was very little divorce there in this group because families were not splitting the land up. I saw a couple different families that just decided to do their separate thing while still remaining married. A guy I worked with told me a story about going to meet a young girl's parents and he met the mom and she said "if you wait a little bit your daddy and his girlfriend will be here..."
Posted on 1/28/23 at 5:52 pm to GeneralLee
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Anybody done this before and if so was that the right call or would you have gotten divorced sooner?
It's bs. Just do it whenever it doesn't work anymore.
Posted on 1/28/23 at 5:57 pm to GetmorewithLes
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This post was edited on 1/28/23 at 7:56 pm
Posted on 1/28/23 at 6:06 pm to GeneralLee
My wife developed epilepsy during the course of our marriage. I couldn’t let her go now with good conscience…she’s damaged goods!?!
This post was edited on 1/28/23 at 6:08 pm
Posted on 1/28/23 at 6:27 pm to GeneralLee
Serious dilemma. If you wait until after the children are adults, they are better able to cope with the aftermath of the breakup. However, the children will be subjected to the drama and tension associated with the breakup daily while waiting it out.
Posted on 1/28/23 at 6:36 pm to momentoftruth87
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was a narcissist
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This is becoming common excuse/saying these days. One of my friends I grew up with uses it and it’s very cringe. You’re the one who wanted to be with him. Just say it didn’t work.
Yup. This word is being WAY overused these days.
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