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re: NM
Posted on 1/28/23 at 4:13 pm to GeneralLee
Posted on 1/28/23 at 4:13 pm to GeneralLee
quote:not necessarily. And I’d rather live in a tent than with a woman you don’t want to be with.
16 years until youngest kid turns 18…. Would be the best for the kids though
But I would go to counseling to make sure you aren’t the a-hole
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Posted on 1/28/23 at 4:13 pm to TulaneUVA
quote:
do you have to follow through if wife serves you divorce papers? What if you just don’t agree with signing?
You pay tens of thousands of dollars to have a judge tell you what’s going to happen
Posted on 1/28/23 at 4:15 pm to 0x15E
NM
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Posted on 1/28/23 at 4:17 pm to GeneralLee
As long as you and your spouse aren’t screaming at each other in front of kids, this is a good idea. However, if you’re fighting non stop do it for your children. They’ll thank you when they’re old enough to realize it
Posted on 1/28/23 at 4:17 pm to GeneralLee
If you haven’t tried therapy, do so. The years with young kids are the hardest. Plus, if you divorce, you will never be truly rid of her for another 16 years, especially if you want to be an involved father. And the more involved you are with your kids over the next 18 years, the more involved you will be with her. A vindictive ex-wife/babymamma can be horrifying. Try to work it out first. You have 16 years of dealing with her and paying her regardless.
Posted on 1/28/23 at 4:19 pm to r0cky1
NM
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Posted on 1/28/23 at 4:19 pm to GeneralLee
quote:
There’s no hate there on either side.
Then, don't get a divorce. The only time I recommend divorce is when you can't stand being in her presence. You aren't going to find some woman that makes you super happy. (I'm mostly saying this for my own benefit.)
The key is to find your own hobbies. Do things with your kids. Your wife will appreciate the peace time too. She may even give you a blow job or something for it. You never know!
Posted on 1/28/23 at 4:21 pm to GeneralLee
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after kids she’s sarcastic, anxiety filled, and depressing to be around
This seems like something that can be corrected. At least try therapy and all that
Posted on 1/28/23 at 4:23 pm to GeneralLee
Wait and go to counseling. Don't be selfish unless you have Biblical grounds
Posted on 1/28/23 at 4:24 pm to GeneralLee
That's what a buddy of mine did, saved him a lot of problems, considering his wife was bat shite crazy.
This post was edited on 1/28/23 at 4:32 pm
Posted on 1/28/23 at 4:25 pm to GeneralLee
quote:
Wait to get divorced until kids turn 18?
quote:
16 years until youngest kid turns 18
Posted on 1/28/23 at 4:26 pm to GeneralLee
My 1st husband (father of my children) was a narcissist and my children are pissed now that they are grown that I did not leave sooner. Oldest was in middle school when we divorced.
Eta: also my 2nd marriage was a great thing for me and also for them. They are way closer to step dad than dad. Positive role model and example of marriage.
Eta: also my 2nd marriage was a great thing for me and also for them. They are way closer to step dad than dad. Positive role model and example of marriage.
This post was edited on 1/28/23 at 4:28 pm
Posted on 1/28/23 at 4:26 pm to GeneralLee
If you can put up with it for that long then yeah.
Otherwise, just rip the band-aid off.
Otherwise, just rip the band-aid off.
Posted on 1/28/23 at 4:28 pm to Civildawg
quote:
Why don’t you try therapy?
Lol. Therapy doesn’t do dick.
Posted on 1/28/23 at 4:29 pm to GeneralLee
Terrible call. Terrible. I tried but divorced early and my kids started to thrive.
They know it's tense at home when yall dont get along.
Get the hell out, but stay involved.
Get a good lawyer
They know it's tense at home when yall dont get along.
Get the hell out, but stay involved.
Get a good lawyer
Posted on 1/28/23 at 4:31 pm to GeneralLee
Yeah…$5M would be “comfortable”. 
Posted on 1/28/23 at 4:31 pm to GeneralLee
I probably wouldn’t post about it on td. How many years before your kids turn 18?
Posted on 1/28/23 at 4:33 pm to madamsquirrel
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was a narcissist
This is becoming common excuse/saying these days. One of my friends I grew up with uses it and it’s very cringe. You’re the one who wanted to be with him. Just say it didn’t work.
This post was edited on 1/28/23 at 4:34 pm
Posted on 1/28/23 at 4:33 pm to arczr2
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Lots of women like to play the game as well...Not worth being miserable and I'm almost divorced 2 and 4 year old. Tough regardless
Good luck baw. Sincerely.
Posted on 1/28/23 at 4:33 pm to GeneralLee
As a kid whose parents fought a lot growing up, the kids are anxious all of the time wondering when the next fight is going to be and walk on eggshells. My parents worked through it but a good chunk of my childhood I was always nervous at the end of the day because I didn’t know if my parents would get into a fight or not.
It’s a huge reason why my wife and I never argue in front of our daughter. It’s a miserable existence when you know your parents aren’t happy together and can explode at any time. You’re only making their lives worse under the guise of “keeping the family together” and it’s incredibly shitty
It’s a huge reason why my wife and I never argue in front of our daughter. It’s a miserable existence when you know your parents aren’t happy together and can explode at any time. You’re only making their lives worse under the guise of “keeping the family together” and it’s incredibly shitty
This post was edited on 1/28/23 at 4:36 pm
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