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re: is this a fair divorce deal?

Posted on 11/11/16 at 6:52 pm to
Posted by Bullfrog
Running Through the Wet Grass
Member since Jul 2010
60316 posts
Posted on 11/11/16 at 6:52 pm to
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but inheritances are not considered marital property therefore no split
Not necessarily. If you comingle the funds or use them to pay community debts, the remaining inheritance can be deemed community, by your actions.

Be very afraid.
Posted by AjaxFury
In & out of The Matrix
Member since Sep 2014
9928 posts
Posted on 11/11/16 at 7:07 pm to
Damn! A woman who didn't drain the bank accounts first?! You get bonus points from me already in my book
Posted by gingerkittie
Member since Aug 2013
2675 posts
Posted on 11/11/16 at 7:12 pm to
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Not necessarily. If you comingle the funds or use them to pay community debts, the remaining inheritance can be deemed community, by your actions.

Be very afraid.


I was wise and never co-mingled my money in his, especially my family money. My accounts were in the name of me, mama or my child.

That is one reason why he is so mad. He surely thought that money was gonna be all his to do with as he pleased.
Posted by DarthTiger
Member since Sep 2005
3195 posts
Posted on 11/11/16 at 7:13 pm to
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Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
88427 posts
Posted on 11/11/16 at 7:14 pm to
quote:

I was wise and never co-mingled my money in his, especially my family money. My accounts were in the name of me, mama or my child.

That is one reason why he is so mad. He surely thought that money was gonna be all his to do with as he pleased.



don't know what state you're in, but in a lot of them it doesn't matter, there lots of opinions on here, including those from attorneys, that will differ, but bottom line is that the weak leak in the system is always the judge
Posted by HeadSlash
TEAM LIVE BADASS - St. GEORGE
Member since Aug 2006
54846 posts
Posted on 11/11/16 at 7:59 pm to
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my inheritance


IIRC from my divorce, they can't touch this.
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
45331 posts
Posted on 11/11/16 at 8:07 pm to
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but bottom line is that the weak leak in the system is always the judge


But the judge's weak leak isn't always in the system.

On the floor and whatnot....

Posted by Yaboylaroy
Member since Mar 2010
1845 posts
Posted on 11/11/16 at 8:07 pm to
1. What did he steal from a disabled child?


2. You call this place a compound? Are you safe?


3. I have a friend offering his house to you. He currently has a hole in his sun room, but that story will be for another time.
Posted by gingerkittie
Member since Aug 2013
2675 posts
Posted on 11/11/16 at 8:20 pm to
quote:

1. What did he steal from a disabled child?


2. You call this place a compound? Are you safe?


3. I have a friend offering his house to you. He currently has a hole in his sun room, but that story will be for another time.



1. I gave him our(his) disabled grandchild's b'day money (money that I put up, not a penny from him). He never bought the grandkids gifts, i always did. He kept the money (bought a guncase) and told me he gave the money to the child's mom. He told the mom that he "forgot" to give it to her. Months later he has yet to "remember' to give it to her and ignores all requests from her to send it to the child.

2.The "compound" was a joke that on of the OTers gave to the family property we lived on. In reality it is a large ranch/farm but the word just sounded so amusing that I decided to keep using it.

3. I already have a house and am looking to build a camp on the water. Thanks for the offer though.
Posted by lathoroughbred
Louisiana/Kentucky
Member since May 2008
8114 posts
Posted on 11/11/16 at 8:23 pm to
Glad I've stayed single
Entertaining read...thank you.
Posted by Yaboylaroy
Member since Mar 2010
1845 posts
Posted on 11/11/16 at 8:25 pm to
This guy doesn't sound like a frickup at all...






Let me know if you change your mind. Hes got a pool and satsuma trees.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
98749 posts
Posted on 11/11/16 at 8:33 pm to
Best of luck to you


Divorce is an ugly thing
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
148180 posts
Posted on 11/11/16 at 8:33 pm to
quote:

1. I gave him our(his) disabled grandchild's b'day money (money that I put up, not a penny from him). He never bought the grandkids gifts, i always did. He kept the money (bought a guncase) and told me he gave the money to the child's mom. He told the mom that he "forgot" to give it to her. Months later he has yet to "remember' to give it to her and ignores all requests from her to send it to the child.
so the old fella that you let borrow your car and gave gas money to as well, was your husband the whole time?

Yeah you're a weird old lady
Posted by djangochained
Gardere
Member since Jul 2013
19120 posts
Posted on 11/11/16 at 8:43 pm to
I thought this story was posted before and you said it was another member of the family?
Posted by Titus Pullo
MTDGA
Member since Feb 2011
28567 posts
Posted on 11/11/16 at 8:55 pm to
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More than enough, plus more is coming in thru various things such as real estate, life insurance and other family interests. Quite enough for me to live on comfortable and to spoil my next man with.


Hey....
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
104294 posts
Posted on 11/11/16 at 8:58 pm to
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I only want what i bought before we were married, my inheritance and the things my family has bought for me thru the years.


I'm no lawyer, but IIRC in a comnunity property state, that's yours anyway. You're still entitled to half the marital assets on top of that.
Posted by go_tigres
Member since Sep 2013
5432 posts
Posted on 11/11/16 at 9:13 pm to
First, and foremost, he's not being petulant child - he's being a guy. I'll be the first to admit, that during my divorce, I felt like someone was taking my stuff. During the marriage, I never felt like she was my possession - but during the divorce, she was MY wife. See what I'm saying? Luckily, I'm smart enough to recognize the lunacy in that thought process and everything went smooth after that. We had a very civil divorce, what was mine - stayed mine, what was hers - stayed her. I will say as much as you want open communication, the best thing is to cut of communication, unless through a intermediary. This will allow him to get over it. Just my .02 - good luck
Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
Member since Jul 2006
216119 posts
Posted on 11/11/16 at 9:14 pm to
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You are one weird old lady



BACK OFF PUNK................ Go play in traffic.,,,,,
Posted by Bushmaster
19th Hole
Member since Oct 2008
39948 posts
Posted on 11/11/16 at 9:15 pm to
You are one crazy bitch
Posted by moock blackjack
Member since Apr 2008
110780 posts
Posted on 11/11/16 at 9:46 pm to
He doesn't understand what you are offering him!!!
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