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re: How do you feel about your job saying “ We are a team” and “ We are a family here”

Posted on 1/30/23 at 9:20 am to
Posted by madmaxvol
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Member since Oct 2011
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Posted on 1/30/23 at 9:20 am to
Whenever people ask me how work is going, I always say..."They keep paying me and I keep showing up. If one of us stops, the other will too".
Posted by chryso
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2008
11849 posts
Posted on 1/30/23 at 9:21 am to
Team is correct. Family is not.
Posted by BowDownToLSU
Livingston louisiana
Member since Feb 2010
19211 posts
Posted on 1/30/23 at 9:21 am to
quote:

We spend more time here than we do with our families
uh oh I think we work for the same company. That’s one of the lines word for word
Posted by madmaxvol
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Member since Oct 2011
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Posted on 1/30/23 at 9:22 am to
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Hey dire wolf, I know you are in sales for a decade but are you still forklift certified? We are bowed up, I need you to unload some hazmat deliveries coming in



Don't forklift certs typically have a 3 year cycle?


ETA...HAZMAT definitely has a refresher requirement.
This post was edited on 1/30/23 at 9:24 am
Posted by goofball
Member since Mar 2015
16829 posts
Posted on 1/30/23 at 9:26 am to
Hearing that and not responding is part of the job.

Team oriented might actually mean something at most firms. But they might be saying that to combat a problem with their culture. The family part is what’s weird. But either way just do your work and get paid. Try to follow their guidance as best as possible. All you can do is your best.

And if it doesn’t feel right, move on.
This post was edited on 1/30/23 at 9:28 am
Posted by Naked Bootleg
Member since Jul 2021
1800 posts
Posted on 1/30/23 at 9:27 am to
I've firsthand seen the pitfalls of that "family" or "we're all besties" approach to the workforce. F that mantra.
Posted by DMAN1968
Member since Apr 2019
10144 posts
Posted on 1/30/23 at 9:27 am to
My immediate co-workers and the people I most like to be around at work gave presents to each other a few years back at Christmas.

I got a personalized item that said "Team Player" and a rubber ink stamp that said "not my job", along with something that said "My level of sarcasm depends on your level of stupidity".

I hide those things from the higher-ups when they happen to come around spouting all that team/family crap. I know who really has my back at work.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
123863 posts
Posted on 1/30/23 at 9:28 am to
quote:

“ We are a family here”



Makes sex with your coworkers awkward outside of Alabama
Posted by RockyMtnTigerWDE
War Damn Eagle Dad!
Member since Oct 2010
105375 posts
Posted on 1/30/23 at 9:29 am to
quote:

Don't forklift certs typically have a 3 year cycle?




Some companies require a yearly certification
Posted by Dire Wolf
bawcomville
Member since Sep 2008
36568 posts
Posted on 1/30/23 at 9:29 am to
quote:


Don't forklift certs typically have a 3 year cycle?



yes
Posted by Big EZ Tiger
Member since Jul 2010
24259 posts
Posted on 1/30/23 at 9:29 am to
You have meetings every morning? Tell them that family doesn't have to meet every morning.
Posted by Apache
San Diego
Member since Dec 2013
2469 posts
Posted on 1/30/23 at 9:30 am to
If they're a team then who are they playing this week and what's their record? What a crock.
Posted by ButchJonesFB
Houston
Member since Jan 2019
220 posts
Posted on 1/30/23 at 9:30 am to
It's a load of BS when this stuff is constantly thrown out in meetings and in posts. Unless you are at the top, you're a pawn and would be removed/replaced from the "Family" no problem.
Posted by Joehat
New Orleans West
Member since Jun 2011
957 posts
Posted on 1/30/23 at 9:36 am to
A family will be there for each other when everyone is broke, people are dying, and there is no economic interest with each other.

Your job and people you work with are not your family.
Posted by pelicansfan123
Member since Jan 2015
1977 posts
Posted on 1/30/23 at 9:37 am to
Generally, I have found that the teams that don't say garbage like that are closer than the ones that do.

But, regardless, with the occasional exceptions, I don't want to be a "family" with my coworkers anyways. I have enough family/friends that I just want to do my ob and go home at the end of the day.

Of course, if I was in a field where my coworkers had similar ages/interests, it might be different.
Posted by Pax Regis
Alabama
Member since Sep 2007
12922 posts
Posted on 1/30/23 at 9:38 am to
It’s fricking bullshite designed to elicit emotional attachment to your job. You’ll find out much emotion your company has for you when it comes time to lay folks off because the executives did something stupid.
Posted by L5ut1g3r
Member since Mar 2019
304 posts
Posted on 1/30/23 at 9:40 am to
It is very tiresome mainly because my boss is a dumb arse. Used to be great friends and he was a good mentor. Now he just lies and makes dumb decisions and no one likes nor respects him. We don’t hang out anymore and on top of that he attends crazy church and thinks he needs to save us all. Luckily, his mismanagement doesn’t affect my position much at all.
This post was edited on 1/30/23 at 9:41 am
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
52906 posts
Posted on 1/30/23 at 9:41 am to
Sad that you millenials have so little love in your heart for your work family. I guess that’s what happens when you jump from job to job. Us boomers knew true loyalty and our work family was like a band of brothers
Posted by tigafan4life
Member since Dec 2006
48915 posts
Posted on 1/30/23 at 9:42 am to
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“ We are a team”
until someone does something wrong on team and is thrown under the bus.
quote:

“ We are a family here”
until someone is sick as has to be home or has a sick kid and cant come in.
Posted by dbeck
Member since Nov 2014
29448 posts
Posted on 1/30/23 at 9:42 am to
Every employer I've ever known that said "we're just one big family here" was a complete and total Jerry Springer level trailer trash shite show.
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