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re: Epiphany after looking back on what made me successful with some girls and others not
Posted on 11/11/22 at 8:50 am to BoogaBear
Posted on 11/11/22 at 8:50 am to BoogaBear
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less dudes trying to frick her. No one out there is begging the uggos to send nudes so they can get their Jody on.
Uh, does this happen a lot in your relationship(s)?
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Posted on 11/11/22 at 8:51 am to geauxseph69
We really need a who gives a shite board
Posted on 11/11/22 at 8:53 am to WizardSleeve
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If you want the best you have to be the best.
Of course. Men don’t normally strike out with hot chicks for most of the reasons in this thread. They strike out bc they’re not worthy of the hottest chicks. Improve yourself to the best of your ability, then figure out where you stand and find a chick in your range. And if you do somehow date/marry outside of your range, she’ll eventually realize she could do better and leave your arse
You need balance in the relationship long term, and you aren’t getting it if your ranges are out of balance
Edit: sorry to kill the dreams of any of you hoping to score the hottest chick. You’re not worthy
Look at most couples. They’re usually pretty similar looking - style, attractiveness, fitness, class, etc. There’s a reason for that. Not many ugly dudes with beer guts dressed in cargo shorts with OT9s dressed like sorority girls
This post was edited on 11/11/22 at 8:59 am
Posted on 11/11/22 at 8:56 am to CamdenTiger
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Pay them no attention and treat them like shite; works a lot more than not…..
Posted on 11/11/22 at 9:10 am to geauxseph69
That’s a lot of words for “alcohol”.
Posted on 11/11/22 at 9:11 am to geauxseph69
Women are trash bruh why would you try to be good at picking up trash lol
Posted on 11/11/22 at 9:36 am to geauxseph69
You’re getting downvoted, but your take is accurate. Women are attracted to confidence. Aloofness is confidence. If you don’t care whether a girl likes you or not, then your body language will show her that you’re not pursuing her. Women are used to being pursued, so a guy that’s not doing that will make them wonder why. That makes them want to chase you rather than the other way around. If you don’t care whether they like you or not, that lack of any kind of anxiety will be noticed and interpreted as confidence.
The key is to learn how to approach and initiate conversations with groups of women that contain the one you want while simultaneously putting out the vibe that you genuinely don’t care what happens when you actually do (because you wouldn’t have initiated a conversation if you didn’t). It’s a tough balancing act to learn, but you’ll get there eventually.
The key is to learn how to approach and initiate conversations with groups of women that contain the one you want while simultaneously putting out the vibe that you genuinely don’t care what happens when you actually do (because you wouldn’t have initiated a conversation if you didn’t). It’s a tough balancing act to learn, but you’ll get there eventually.
This post was edited on 11/11/22 at 9:41 am
Posted on 11/11/22 at 9:47 am to geauxseph69
You want girls?
Forget all about that other shite, and learn how to play guitar.....play guitar.
Forget all about that other shite, and learn how to play guitar.....play guitar.
Posted on 11/11/22 at 9:57 am to oogabooga68
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Forget all about that other shite, and learn how to play guitar.....play guitar.
You don’t get girls playing guitar, you get middle aged cougars. Women under 30 by and large DGAF about musical instruments.
Posted on 11/11/22 at 10:01 am to Blutarsky
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Shooters shoot.
9/10 you will miss, but the 10th will say yes.
Reading a book on Churchill and this seems to be Randolph Churchill's philosophy. The country estate affairs ...a lot said no... But some said yes
Posted on 11/11/22 at 10:10 am to geauxseph69
Understand the power of your attention and how much women enjoy having it, you'll stop giving it away freely. If they perceive you are in a place of scarcity they aren’t interested, but if the perceive you are in a place of abundance, they will approach you. Basic Women psychology 101.
Posted on 11/11/22 at 12:11 pm to Upperdecker
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Improve yourself to the best of your ability, then figure out where you stand and find a chick in your range.
You know within a few seconds of looking at someone whether you find them attractive or not. Your brain does a great job of sizing someone up almost instantaneously.
Are they muscular? Tall? Clean-shaven? Wearing cute/fashionable/nice/clean clothes? Walking with confidence? Laughing with their friends? Smoking/vaping? Do they have tattoos?
This isn't rocket science. Also, there's no such thing as a "too nice" guy. It really just translates to not having confidence and being a door mat. That's not attractive to anyone.
And to the "act aloof" crowd...please don't do that. This strategy only works with women who don't have many options so they have to tolerate more. Girls actually like to be flirted with. Full stop.
If you think a girl's cute, just go up and talk to her.
Posted on 11/11/22 at 12:18 pm to geauxseph69
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One sentence. There's nothing on the line. Easier said than done, but I know when my personality is that there's nothing on the line, I'm lightyears more successful than when I'm not.
Maybe confidence ties into that, maybe it's a completely different concept. I wouldn't focus too much on confidence because that almost implies a fakeness if you're not feeling it that day and really who can be super confident all the time when life is just fricking hard.
Women are extremely aware when you're feeling any kind of negative emotion especially anxiety even if you yourself don't notice it. I think it's a protection mechanism for themselves. They're already extremely anxious themselves.
That'd be my advice to guys after 3 decades on this planet. Doesn't mean don't be nice or a good person, just... there's nothing on the line.
Posted on 11/11/22 at 12:32 pm to JetsetNuggs
Is that the guy who brought Tony Brown from LSU to the Decadence Festival to pick up chicks and nicknamed him TB not knowing it stood for tuberculosis?
Posted on 11/11/22 at 12:34 pm to geauxseph69
Confidence is all you need. You simply have to be confident enough to talk to the girl and get along with her. Either she’s going to like you or not. If she doesn’t, you need the confidence to move on to the next one. Simple as that.
Posted on 11/11/22 at 3:24 pm to geauxseph69
When I was working on becoming successful women flocked to me.
When I finally became successful women flocked to me and still do.
What I will pass along to my kids: don't worry too much about chasing the girls. Build and work on yourself first; they will take notice and will come to you instead.
When I finally became successful women flocked to me and still do.
What I will pass along to my kids: don't worry too much about chasing the girls. Build and work on yourself first; they will take notice and will come to you instead.
Posted on 11/11/22 at 4:56 pm to USMCguy121
The 3 best selling books of the last decade were the 3 "50 Shades" books. That is extraordinary since almost no men bought those books.
Don't listen to what women say. The overwhelming majority of women want to feel like they are trading up...in a big way. They want a masculine, successful, in-shape guy to provide for them, control them and in some ways dominate them. They want to surrender themselves to a guy they thought was unattainable.
Are you fat, unsuccessful or unstylish? Then change or shut the **** up. Get to a point where you feel confident, talk to women as if you are superior to them and make it clear to them what it would take for them to earn your time and attention.
Think I am wrong? I'm not.
Don't listen to what women say. The overwhelming majority of women want to feel like they are trading up...in a big way. They want a masculine, successful, in-shape guy to provide for them, control them and in some ways dominate them. They want to surrender themselves to a guy they thought was unattainable.
Are you fat, unsuccessful or unstylish? Then change or shut the **** up. Get to a point where you feel confident, talk to women as if you are superior to them and make it clear to them what it would take for them to earn your time and attention.
Think I am wrong? I'm not.
Posted on 11/11/22 at 5:33 pm to JetsetNuggs
who the hell does jamiroquai think he's gonna pick up?
Posted on 11/11/22 at 5:41 pm to Blutarsky
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Shooters shoot. 9/10 you will miss, but the 10th will say yes.
Words to live by
Posted on 11/11/22 at 5:51 pm to SneezyBeltranIsHere
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talk to women as if you are superior to them and make it clear to them what it would take for them to earn your time and attention
If you do this, and a girl is okay with "earning" your attention, she has serious daddy/abuse issues. Pretty/quality women will have many options other than you. I can 100% promise you she will not pick the man who thinks he's all that.
That attitude stinks of insecurity. Truly successful men are confident and secure enough in themselves to be able to cherish their women. It's not a contest.
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