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re: Do you ever feel like you’ve wasted your life?

Posted on 2/23/21 at 8:33 pm to
Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
Member since Oct 2011
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Posted on 2/23/21 at 8:33 pm to
:(
Posted by Boo Krewe
Member since Apr 2015
9810 posts
Posted on 2/23/21 at 8:36 pm to
what do you do
Posted by CatsGoneWild
Pigeon forge, Tennessee
Member since Jan 2008
13294 posts
Posted on 2/23/21 at 8:41 pm to
Im 42 and I've wasted 20 years of my life. When your wife wants to leave you after 20 years and you have to start over...
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
65419 posts
Posted on 2/23/21 at 8:42 pm to
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Had my first kid at 35 and it’s be wonderful.
Posted by Boo Krewe
Member since Apr 2015
9810 posts
Posted on 2/23/21 at 8:44 pm to
what are some experiences one can do? meet all kinds of people and travel the world?

work on a cruise or a national park? race on a sailboat? peace core? I need some tips
Posted by olgoi khorkhoi
priapism survivor
Member since May 2011
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Posted on 2/23/21 at 9:09 pm to
Posted by SEClint
New Orleans, LA/Portland, OR
Member since Nov 2006
48769 posts
Posted on 2/23/21 at 9:15 pm to
You only waste your life if you die a Virgin.
Posted by StringedInstruments
Member since Oct 2013
18291 posts
Posted on 2/23/21 at 9:18 pm to
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but 33 isn't "young" in many ways, especially regarding career.


Plenty of people reinvent themselves in their 40s.

Hell I know a guy who was a real estate agent until he was 55, went back to school to become a nurse, and got a job with a BSN. Now he’s in his mid 60s and getting his NP degree.

You haven’t wasted your life until you’ve given up and died. Until then, there is still plenty to live for and plenty to do. Might look different as you age, but that’s life.
Posted by baobabtiger
Member since May 2009
4717 posts
Posted on 2/23/21 at 9:49 pm to
No. Not at all. I worked my tail off to get through school, get a good job, and move up in that job. All so I can get the things I have always wanted.

I’ll be honest though. I’ve been in coast mode for the last few years and it’s not all that. I miss the chasing of success. I’m just trying to figure out what I want to chase and share with others.
Posted by tigersbh
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2005
10197 posts
Posted on 2/23/21 at 11:14 pm to
It matters not. Our time here is just a whisper in time compared to eternity. It’s where you go next that matters.
Posted by Bow08tie
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2011
4218 posts
Posted on 2/24/21 at 4:24 am to
No
Would there be things I'd do differently..yes
Posted by lsunatchamp
Member since Feb 2009
2024 posts
Posted on 2/24/21 at 5:17 am to
I'm 33 now and am going back to school for computer science. Never too late. I was also a raging alcoholic for about 10 years or so
Posted by slutiger5
Parroquias de Florida
Member since May 2007
10618 posts
Posted on 2/24/21 at 6:34 am to
Yes, much unhappiness with decisions I’ve made and lack of effort. Gonna try and take shite one day at a time, be proud of that days effort instead of weeks or generality. Try not to be self consumed, be good to your family, friends, or community. Those are ways to stop hating yourself.
Posted by windyhilltiger09
Member since Feb 2009
102 posts
Posted on 2/24/21 at 6:49 am to
Everyone defines success differently. I will be 47 this August and have lived a pretty tough life. All self inflicted. I was pretty poor monetarily speaking for the first 44 years of my life. I got a huge break and have taken advantage of it and finally made something of myself. It’s never too late to work hard and follow the lords guidance. You’re in his plans and he loves you. Find what drives you and what you enjoy even if it doesn’t pay the greatest. Last thought, never ever define your success on what you see others have. Money is only a means to an end and honestly I was happier when I had less money! God bless
Posted by Barstools
Atlanta
Member since Jan 2016
9400 posts
Posted on 2/24/21 at 6:59 am to
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33 isn't "young" in many ways, especially regarding career.


Terrible take. He's roughly 25% through his career, assuming he stated working around 22 and will retire at 65.

That's objectively early in your career, no matter what the morons on here say.
This post was edited on 2/24/21 at 7:00 am
Posted by MintBerry Crunch
Member since Nov 2010
4824 posts
Posted on 2/24/21 at 7:24 am to
quote:

33 isn't "young" in many ways, especially regarding career.


Well frick me. Start my new career in September. I’ll be 33.

33 isn’t old.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128950 posts
Posted on 2/24/21 at 7:28 am to
Mine certainly has NOT turned out the way I had envisioned it would....but I try not to feel like I’ve wasted my life away.

Yeah things could have been so much better for me at this point in my life...but you know what? They could also be so much worse. I try not to focus on what I don’t have or what I’ve recently lost but instead focus on the blessings I do have and they are still so much to be grateful for.

Also...stop comparing yourself to others. It doesn’t help you in any way and that other person likely isn’t doing as well as it may seem to you.
Posted by Bayou
CenLA
Member since Feb 2005
36732 posts
Posted on 2/24/21 at 7:31 am to
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Do you ever feel like you’ve wasted your life?

Posted by bigberg2000
houston, from chalmette
Member since Sep 2005
69996 posts
Posted on 2/24/21 at 7:31 am to
Yeah good way of thinking about things. I am right there with you.
Posted by MintBerry Crunch
Member since Nov 2010
4824 posts
Posted on 2/24/21 at 7:36 am to
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stop comparing yourself to others. It doesn’t help you in any way and that other person likely isn’t doing as well as it may seem to you.


Bingo. You’ve the golden ticket.
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