re: Did you want to know who your SO slept with in the past?

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Spinoff: Would you prefer your wife to be a virgin so you get to train her up, or would you rather her be really good at "this" and extraordinary at "that" - knowing it's because she had a lot of practice doing "this" and "that" with other guys.

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My friends and I have had this conversation on several occasions and my answer is always a resound "NO" to the virgin scenario. I've been with one virgin already, and personally that was one virgin too many.

A woman's ability to be good in bed not only is a direct result of her experience with sex, but also stems from her level of comfort, her sexual liberation, and her ability to trust YOU.

While the comfort and trust can certainly be earned by forming a serious relationship, it seems unlikely that a woman who is a virgin past the age of 25 or so will suddenly have an insatiable sex drive and kinky turn-ons.

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or would you rather her be really good at "this" and extraordinary at "that" - knowing it's because she had a lot of practice doing "this" and "that" with other guys

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It sucks because this is typically the case. We like to all think that we're instinctively good at sex and can pleasure our partners at the drop of a hat, but that's typically just not true.

I realize how much my technique has improved since the first few times I had sex and it's a pretty remarkable difference. The only reason I learned most of those tricks was because I had partners who easily expressed what they like and would specifically say "do this" or "do that". Needless-to-say, I took notes over the years.

It's the same way for women. There might be a exception to the rule here and there, but I'm willing to bet that they are a little harder to come by.

Guys don't get stds (at least not the incurable ones) from chicks really

If I'm a 7.5 I figure that finding a chick with the herp would be a great way for me to bag a 9.5

I had one inquire. She "confessed" she had been with a lot. Being the curious sort, I asked "what was "a lot"?". She said 8. I said,"hundred?!!". She was like NO!!! EIGHT!! You thing I'm a whore don't you?

Then asked mine...ummmm....I just said,"About that." Then she flipped shite and called me a manwhore. When I dumped her crazy arse, I told her my real number, and told her she needed to see her doctor.

I couldn't have given less of a shite, tbh.

pretty stupid

Male equivalent of a fake positive pregnancy test IMO

I ask my ex wife. She told me she had only been with one other person that she was engaged to before me. She had this male "friend". I asked her if she had been with him or dated him. She said no and carried on a relationship with him the whole time we were married. Well come to find out after five years of marraige and two kids later, she had slept with him once. And that SOB was asking her to cheat on me with him. He was married himself and had kids. I said nothing about it to my wife or him, until one day him and his wife came over for dinner. Then I dropped the bomb to his wife that he had been trying to get mine to cheat, punched that motherfricker in the face, and threw him off my front porch.

Know your enemies my friends.

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Spinoff: Would you prefer your wife to be a virgin

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Hell yes, but I know I'm too old to find a virgin to marry anymore.

how soon after that was she your ex wife you trashy sob...

You sure do know how to pick them...