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Were you frugal in your 20’s?
Posted on 8/14/19 at 7:18 pm
Posted on 8/14/19 at 7:18 pm
Sorry for the wall of text - TLDR at end.
How did the MB baws balance saving/spending when y’all were just out of school? If you were frugal, do you regret not spending some money on trips/experiences while you were still young?
Im in a situation where I landed a well paying gig straight out of college with barely any expenses to pay for. I feel if all I do is work and save and not enjoy my 20’s a little bit, I’ll regret it when I’m older and more tied down. But I also would enjoy the financial freedom that saving all this money would give.
TL;DR: Were you frugal out of college? How did it affect your social life? If you enjoyed yourself, did you regret it financially in your later years?
How did the MB baws balance saving/spending when y’all were just out of school? If you were frugal, do you regret not spending some money on trips/experiences while you were still young?
Im in a situation where I landed a well paying gig straight out of college with barely any expenses to pay for. I feel if all I do is work and save and not enjoy my 20’s a little bit, I’ll regret it when I’m older and more tied down. But I also would enjoy the financial freedom that saving all this money would give.
TL;DR: Were you frugal out of college? How did it affect your social life? If you enjoyed yourself, did you regret it financially in your later years?
Posted on 8/14/19 at 7:20 pm to NorceauxTigerFan
No, and I regret it to this day.
Posted on 8/14/19 at 7:25 pm to NorceauxTigerFan
No, I squandered almost a million dollars in my 20s thinking it would never end.
Posted on 8/14/19 at 7:26 pm to NorceauxTigerFan
My twenties were most a mistake. Wish I could go kick my arse for being so stupid.
We lived in a $499/month apartment on HWY 280 (nice-ish area of BHam). Instead of socking away a bunch of cash for a few years, we bought a house after nine months...and watched out home value collapse with the market.
We also ate food like it was free.
We lived in a $499/month apartment on HWY 280 (nice-ish area of BHam). Instead of socking away a bunch of cash for a few years, we bought a house after nine months...and watched out home value collapse with the market.
We also ate food like it was free.
Posted on 8/14/19 at 7:30 pm to NorceauxTigerFan
Yes, in my 20s now. I have to force myself to spend money. I really need to set up a separate account to automatically set aside “spending money” without feeling as guilty.
Posted on 8/14/19 at 7:35 pm to jimbeam
What do you do for fun? For me, my work is in the middle of nowhere 10 hours away from my friends and family. I can’t just go to the bar at night with the boys. I’d have to take off work and drive or fly down to see loved ones. Just struggling with how often I can afford to do that.
Posted on 8/14/19 at 7:37 pm to NorceauxTigerFan
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What do you do for fun? For me, my work is in the middle of nowhere 10 hours away from my friends and family. I can’t just go to the bar at night with the boys. I’d have to take off work and drive or fly down to see loved ones. Just struggling with how often I can afford to do that.
Sounds like when i was working in midland.
Posted on 8/14/19 at 7:52 pm to NorceauxTigerFan
In theory, I agree that you shouldn’t simply save save save in your 20s. As long as you’re saving for retirement, have an emergency reserve, aren’t stacking up more debt, and can comfortably cover your expenses, then sure, enjoy yourself.
BUT, enjoying yourself shouldn’t mean traveling home to see friends and family on a monthly basis. It’s time to find new friends.....no, seriously. Cultivate some new interests and friends in your city/town. Join a club, group, take a class, do some volunteer work....find people who share your interests, and explore some new interests. You’re living in a new place, explore it and see what and who are out there.
BUT, enjoying yourself shouldn’t mean traveling home to see friends and family on a monthly basis. It’s time to find new friends.....no, seriously. Cultivate some new interests and friends in your city/town. Join a club, group, take a class, do some volunteer work....find people who share your interests, and explore some new interests. You’re living in a new place, explore it and see what and who are out there.
Posted on 8/14/19 at 8:11 pm to NorceauxTigerFan
Find balance in your life. I saved much more than the average 20 something but I also enjoyed my life and traveled quite a bit. It’s a balancing act and you will regret passing up cool experiences in the future.
Posted on 8/14/19 at 8:12 pm to NorceauxTigerFan
Yes but I’m miserable, but can’t think of spending it on anything I’d enjoy.
Posted on 8/14/19 at 8:27 pm to NorceauxTigerFan
I was on the frugal end of the spectrum.
Most days it has afforded my family to do things my peers can’t do in their mid 30’s.
I didn’t miss many things in my 20’s that I wanted to do. You just need to budget for it and pay cash for it vs revolving credit.
Most days it has afforded my family to do things my peers can’t do in their mid 30’s.
I didn’t miss many things in my 20’s that I wanted to do. You just need to budget for it and pay cash for it vs revolving credit.
Posted on 8/14/19 at 8:36 pm to NorceauxTigerFan
I was frugal but made sure to not be house poor. I got to do everything I wanted to. No regrets and now it lets me take care of my family with one income.
Posted on 8/14/19 at 9:52 pm to NorceauxTigerFan
Eh, frugal by default. Living off 20k a year or so while going to school. Spent all of it and don't regret it. And yes, I know that sounds like an oxymoron to say I was frugal while spending all my income, but I don't think you can spend much less to survive unless you're getting government assistance.
I do wish I spent less on booze and more on traveling then though. I picked that up a little bit later and feel behind.
I do wish I spent less on booze and more on traveling then though. I picked that up a little bit later and feel behind.
This post was edited on 8/14/19 at 9:55 pm
Posted on 8/14/19 at 10:05 pm to NorceauxTigerFan
quote:
m in a situation where I landed a well paying gig straight out of college with barely any expenses to pay for.
If you actually have a well paying gig, and low expenses then you can do both.
As long as you're spending your money with purpose you'll be good. Find something you like and pursue it. Sometimes (most of the time) that involves spending money. That's ok.
Posted on 8/14/19 at 11:20 pm to JohnnyKilroy
Got into the mortgage biz in my 20’s. Just as sub prime came online. It was a magical time of cell phones with shitty cameras before selfies and social media made every single fun, reckless, stupid or crazy thing you did last forever.
Pissed away a metric shite ton of cash. Did some crazy shite. But wasn’t prepared or mature or disciplined enough for a commissioned sales environment. Do I wish I could go back? Absolutely. But I waffle on why.
I can see ratcheting down and marshaling those resources and building something for myself and my family in a business sense. But I can also definitely say coming out on the other side alive and kicking and with the experience and perspective I have has made me the dumbass I am today...and I would absolutely never want to trade that. Which being focused back then would have required the sacrifice of all that fun.
Maybe when I’m 60 and I’m struggling with Flomax and trying to figure out who’s gonna be wiping by butt in 10 years when I can’t anymore, I might answer differently. But for now, I feel as if I wouldn’t change much.
TL;DR
OP, go find some Asian Hooks and Blowcaine and stop overthinking life.
Pissed away a metric shite ton of cash. Did some crazy shite. But wasn’t prepared or mature or disciplined enough for a commissioned sales environment. Do I wish I could go back? Absolutely. But I waffle on why.
I can see ratcheting down and marshaling those resources and building something for myself and my family in a business sense. But I can also definitely say coming out on the other side alive and kicking and with the experience and perspective I have has made me the dumbass I am today...and I would absolutely never want to trade that. Which being focused back then would have required the sacrifice of all that fun.
Maybe when I’m 60 and I’m struggling with Flomax and trying to figure out who’s gonna be wiping by butt in 10 years when I can’t anymore, I might answer differently. But for now, I feel as if I wouldn’t change much.
TL;DR
OP, go find some Asian Hooks and Blowcaine and stop overthinking life.
This post was edited on 8/14/19 at 11:24 pm
Posted on 8/15/19 at 4:08 am to NorceauxTigerFan
quote:Yes.
Were you frugal in your 20’s?
Lived within means -- which for a while was pretty poor.
Never ran credit card debt, ever. At that time, student loan interest was deferred until graduation. I was on scholarship. Took the maximum loan amount anyway and rolled every penny into an insured money market account. On graduation, repaid the principle, and pocketed interest gains. That kind of thing.
The stakes changed over the years. But I was always fiscally disciplined.
Posted on 8/15/19 at 7:04 am to NorceauxTigerFan
Is this a permanent job location or just a temporary project? I got sent out to the middle of nowhere for a 2 year project and was in a similar situation where it costs a lot to go back and see my friends and family and there wasnt much to do for fun near me. Since I knew it was temporary I took advantage of the opportunity to just try to better myself. Read books, learn about the markets, work out, maybe pick up spanish or something. I also started maxing out a roth, 401k, and HSA. The goal was that when my project ended and I could go back to civilization I would be in a much better position in life. Smarter, richer, fitter, more attractive, more mature, etc. In the meantime I still set aside a percentage of my income for travel and would take 2-3 vacations a year. I also set aside a bit of money to play around in the stock market...not a lot, but just enough to start learning how it works
Posted on 8/15/19 at 7:28 am to Teddy Ruxpin
quote:
Eh, frugal by default. Living off 20k a year or so while going to school.
Many of us have been there! My income in college was about $8k/yr. I lived off of roughly $650/month. When I got my first job, I immediately withheld 15% to 401k and still felt like a baller. ha.
I do think experiencing how to live on very little in college is something that would benefit just about everyone. You learn things that could be vital later in life.
Posted on 8/15/19 at 7:34 am to notsince98
If I was in your position I would save every penny I could. By the time you are in your 30's you could live the rest of your life like you want.
Posted on 8/15/19 at 7:53 pm to Yeti_Chaser
Lol I'm in oil, so I'm going to save as much money as I can since who knows when this will all crash again. But its "permanent." I'll go work in OK, TX, CO, for anywhere from 2 weeks to 3 months at a time. My only bills are cellphone and car insurance. I live at the rig and when I don't work I can go anywhere I want. I guess I wouldn't be too out of my means to just drive back while I'm off and spend some money on something fun while at home like LSU sports or concerts. Or should I cut shite like that out too?
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