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re: OT Lawyers a question about child custody

Posted on 6/3/21 at 4:19 pm to
Posted by broadcast_storm
In the 1s and 0s
Member since Jan 2021
31 posts
Posted on 6/3/21 at 4:19 pm to
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is there any child support being paid? you to her/ her to you?

Me to her.


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Did she know about the tournament when she scheduled the trip?

She has full access to the same notifications and emails that I get regarding baseball. She doesn't care to look. She also didn't bother to ask me about the dates or I would have told her about the tournament.


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if you did not inform her about the tournament then before she scheduled the trip then its on you

Its not my responsibility to notify their mother of her children's activities. My youngest played for 1st place in the league on Friday, she has no idea they won, didn't even know he had a game despite her getting the exact same communications as me and with me sending her a schedule of all their games and times at the start of the season. She does not care about them.

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Have you been scheduling activity for the boy during the time the mother is to have custody without discussing it with her?

Absolutely not.
Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
Member since Jun 2009
68123 posts
Posted on 6/3/21 at 4:21 pm to

Wait. If you're split custody, why are you paying CS?
Posted by cajunandy
New Orleans
Member since Nov 2015
711 posts
Posted on 6/3/21 at 4:29 pm to
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is there any child support being paid? you to her/ her to you?


Me to her.


hate to tell you this but only the domiciliary parent is entitled to child support. If there is no domiciliary parent then there should not be any child support.

her not keeping herself informed is on her.
you got a bad situation on your hands.
Posted by Gris Gris
OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!
Member since Feb 2008
48048 posts
Posted on 6/3/21 at 5:12 pm to
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Its not my responsibility to notify their mother of her children's activities.


I agree if the other parent is a good parent. If she historically does not stay informed, for the sake of the children, I would gently remind her of things important to your children. Perhaps that could have made a difference here or even reminding your 12 year old to let his mother know without being negative about her.

Personally, I would not have told the child he could stay with you without consulting with the mother. You've given him an option he may not have. If he tells Mom, she's probably going to be angry. She doesn't sound too reasonable.
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