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re: Proposal to GF on her birthday question.

Posted on 10/11/20 at 8:51 am to
Posted by LSUGrrrl
Frisco, TX
Member since Jul 2007
35118 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 8:51 am to
OT lawyers can chime in but I thought there were several cases where the woman was able to keep the engagement ring after they broke up (before the wedding) bc it was given as a gift for birthday or Christmas.
Posted by Proximo
Member since Aug 2011
17313 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 8:53 am to
It’s been a few years but yes that’s my recollection. The argument against it is more practical though, she’s going to be pissed she doesn’t have a separate special day. It’s just dumb all around
Posted by fishfighter
RIP
Member since Apr 2008
40026 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 8:54 am to
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That is simply insane. I found a simple acquamarine ring I would love to have from Tiffany's for $175.00.


You sound like my wife. Bought her a very nice dinner ring that set me back 5K. She wasn't happy cause I spent that much. But also I had went out and bought myself a 30K boat. Might of been that.
Posted by Booyow
Member since Mar 2010
4049 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 8:54 am to
quote:

I thought there were several cases where the woman was able to keep the engagement ring after they broke up (before the wedding) bc it was given as a gift for birthday or Christmas.
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LSUGrrrl



Posted by Yewkindewit
Near Birmingham, Alabama
Member since Apr 2012
20450 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 8:54 am to
He can get the ring back by simply placing a contract along side the ring and have her sign it. That would make for a memorable proposal ceremony!
Posted by ksayetiger
Centenary Gents
Member since Jul 2007
68863 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 8:55 am to
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8k-10k on a ring


as joe biden would say, he is a sucker and a loser
Posted by LSUTigersVCURams
Member since Jul 2014
21940 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 8:56 am to
Yeah I paid like $400 for my wife’s engagement and wedding rings combined. She married me. Anyone who pays over about $1K for a ring is an absolute simp and any woman who would get bent out of shape about how much her ring costs you don’t want to be married to her anyway.
Posted by HogBalls
Member since Nov 2014
8645 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 8:56 am to
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If he gives her the ring on her birthday and they don't get married, he can't get the ring back.

Never heard of this before. I will pass along the info.
Posted by TrimTab
North County Coastal San Diego
Member since Mar 2019
7777 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 8:57 am to
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You sound like my wife



I'd take that 10K and buy a smaller boat! At least it's something useful and fun to enjoy. I could buy a tiny home and travel with 10K. I'd worry more about losing that ring every time I wore it.
Posted by ksayetiger
Centenary Gents
Member since Jul 2007
68863 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 8:58 am to
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that 10K and buy a smaller boat


or bigger boobs

what does this hoe look like?
Posted by Blizzard of Chizz
Member since Apr 2012
19333 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 8:59 am to
Tell him to pick another date. Picking her birthday so he can save a few bucks not buying a gift is selfish. He’s also tying all of her future birthdays to her wedding proposal. Your friend might not be aware but it’s kind of a big fricking deal to women, so perhaps he should think about allowing it to be its own separate day.
Posted by Patfic15
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2018
3427 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 9:00 am to
Lame.
Posted by fishfighter
RIP
Member since Apr 2008
40026 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 9:06 am to
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or bigger boobs


Should of.
Posted by broadhead
Member since Oct 2014
2237 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 9:09 am to
Gifts are kept if you divorce. Listen to the other people that posted to not give her the ring as a birthday gift. Do. Not. Do. This. Yes, she is sweet now but heaven forbid you divorce.
Posted by DeltaTigerDelta
Member since Jan 2017
11811 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 9:13 am to
Why propose on a birthday?
Posted by Mike the Tiger 1999
Weston, Florida
Member since Jul 2009
2012 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 9:29 am to
that’s the problem. now she’s going to be impossible to please on future birthdays bc no matter how much thought/effort he makes, the engagement ring/proposal birthday surprise cannot be topped.
Posted by Mike the Tiger 1999
Weston, Florida
Member since Jul 2009
2012 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 9:30 am to
makes zero sense lmao
Posted by Scooba
Member since Jun 2013
19999 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 9:39 am to
3 months salary... amiright?
Posted by DaBeerz
Member since Sep 2004
17435 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 9:40 am to
You don’t tell them how much the ring costs
Posted by fishfighter
RIP
Member since Apr 2008
40026 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 9:55 am to
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Anyone who pays over about $1K for a ring is an absolute simp and any woman who would get bent out of shape about how much her ring costs you don’t want to be married to her anyway.


Paid around 1K for the wife's ring, but that was 42+ years ago.
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