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re: How long do you wait before asking out a newly single girl? (PAGE 4 & 9 UPDATE)

Posted on 7/18/20 at 5:51 pm to
Posted by MiloDanglers
on a dock on a bay
Member since Apr 2012
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Posted on 7/18/20 at 5:51 pm to
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The text message came two hours later. Three paragraphs summed into a sentence, "I had a wonderful time this morning, you're amazing and attractive, but I don't think I can date right now". Doesn't sound like the door is closed permanently, but we'll see three months from now. Two months?. It's probably closed, right?


“I understand”

Don’t reach out to her for 3 weeks. You can respond curtly if she reaches out to you. Kindly bow out of any invitations to hang out.

After 3 weeks, start back over from the beginning and escalate it to the same point you did this time.
Posted by jcaz
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Member since Aug 2014
16602 posts
Posted on 7/19/20 at 12:56 am to
I dealt with this before. Met a girl on Tinder. She thought I was attractive and vice versa. Talked on the phone for days and made plans for dinner. She bailed on me twice and I just gave up and never responded after the 2nd cancellation.
Sure enough about 3-4 weeks later out of the blue she checks back in with me. Act like nothing happened but never even got it past small talk and left her on read.
Apparently she had just split with Baby Daddy and was testing the waters. Had no idea but boy was I glad that didn’t go anywhere. Don’t let yourself become a back up plan fellas
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