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re: Loved one with diagnosed mental issues
Posted on 12/13/17 at 7:19 am to ten Hoor Hall
Posted on 12/13/17 at 7:19 am to ten Hoor Hall
quote:
bpd
If you don't have kids, it's best to leave. It's not just about you, but your future children if with her.
Posted on 12/13/17 at 7:20 am to fishfighter
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Ever day is like pick a scab for me. I do a lot more praying that helps a little, but the pain is not nor will ever go away.
Wife? Mother of kids?
If not, you need to get out. This is NOT your fault and the person you met is not the person she is now. She's gone. You aren't doing a noble thing by staying....you're actually dragging your other loved ones into this crap.
Again, if she is just a gf
Posted on 12/13/17 at 7:29 am to Evil Little Thing
quote:This is definitely the tricky part
if the person isn’t being honest with the doctor regarding their behavior.
quote:Disagree. It takes work and trial/error but once the right meds are in place it's very manageable.
And has a pretty bleak treatment/recovery outlook.
Posted on 12/13/17 at 7:29 am to ten Hoor Hall
I dated a bipolar chick. RUN. RUN FAST. I don't care how smoking hot she is or how much of a freak she is.
Posted on 12/13/17 at 7:39 am to The Mick
Are you referring to borderline personality disorder? Or bipolar? Bipolar can be managed with meds; borderline usually can’t.
Posted on 12/13/17 at 7:39 am to ten Hoor Hall
I've got a close relative that's recently been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder. She's had some problems the past couple of years. We kind of chalked it up to normal teenage bullshite, but then it got real serious recently. It sucks because she doesn't understand what it's doing to everyone. You can't really blame her though because it's a crossed wire in her head. It's difficult. Now that we know what it is, she can hopefully get the targeted treatment and mitigation.
Posted on 12/13/17 at 7:46 am to BobRoss
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I dated a bipolar chick. RUN. RUN FAST. I don't care how smoking hot she is or how much of a freak she is.
My ex from years ago was diagnosed with bipolar towards the end of our relationship. He wouldn't take meds and chose to self medicate with recreational drugs(meth mostly). I left him because it was just too much to deal with. He refused to get help for his drug problem and if I stayed I would have gotten sucked into the black hole he had created of his life.
However....I think you have to look at each individual situation. Is the person getting the help they need? Are they on meds?
OP....mental health issues are tough. They don't get the attention they deserve. There are not enough resources to help those that need it. I'm currently dealing with my father having severe anxiety/depression and it has caused a lot of stress in my life lately. We all care for him and want him to just feel better. But that is easier said than done. Helping a loved one deal with mental issues can be emotionally and physically draining. Sometimes you get so wrapped up in helping them...you neglect to take care of yourself. Make sure to take care of yourself as well and set boundaries if needed. I have to remind myself on a daily basis that I can't "fix" my father and that while he is my father, I still need to live my own life as well.
Posted on 12/13/17 at 8:09 am to The Mick
Ah. BPD = borderline personality disorder, so that’s what I was referencing. Bipolar is typically far more treatable.
Posted on 12/13/17 at 8:14 am to Evil Little Thing
Oh sorry, I thought you meant bipolar with the bpd reference. I agree with you. Cheers
Posted on 12/13/17 at 8:30 am to ten Hoor Hall
It's an uphill battle that will leave you feeling defeated most of the time. Like another poster said, it's manageable if the right medicines are in place, but due to their lying & manipulation it's rare these people are properly diagnosed.
Posted on 12/13/17 at 8:31 am to ten Hoor Hall
If the OP hasn't abandoned thread, have their thyroid function tested with a complete panel.
Many symptoms of cognitive issues and mental disorders are also attributes of severe thyroid malfunction. Depression, anxiety, sleep abnormality, chronic lethargy, etc..
Not first hand experience but close enough to speak with certainty.
Many symptoms of cognitive issues and mental disorders are also attributes of severe thyroid malfunction. Depression, anxiety, sleep abnormality, chronic lethargy, etc..
Not first hand experience but close enough to speak with certainty.
Posted on 12/13/17 at 8:48 am to Rebel80
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This post was edited on 12/13/17 at 8:51 am
Posted on 12/13/17 at 9:11 am to fishfighter
quote:
Ever day is like pick a scab for me. I do a lot more praying that helps a little, but the pain is not nor will ever go away.
Fish, very sorry for your loss bud.
My Godchild passed away over 10 years. FWIW, I actually embrace the pain/sorrow.
As the years go by, the pain is less severe. It seems like that's because my memories of him are fading. And that really bothers me.
So when I feel that sharp pain tugging on my heart strings now, I'm grateful that he's still with me.
This post was edited on 12/13/17 at 9:16 am
Posted on 12/13/17 at 9:16 am to ten Hoor Hall
My SO has bipolar.
First, does your friend's SO recognize that s/he has a problem? If not, then nothing will help.
Second, it is quite common for mental patients to have a dual diagnosis of mental issues AND substance abuse. Does your friend's SO have the latter? If so, that MUST be dealt with FIRST.
First, does your friend's SO recognize that s/he has a problem? If not, then nothing will help.
Second, it is quite common for mental patients to have a dual diagnosis of mental issues AND substance abuse. Does your friend's SO have the latter? If so, that MUST be dealt with FIRST.
Posted on 12/13/17 at 9:16 am to ten Hoor Hall
work in mental health so i see it daily, what are you looking to know
Posted on 12/13/17 at 9:16 am to el Gaucho
quote:
All women are crazy but if they're crazy enough to think they need to go to the doctor for it that's next level
Can attest to this.
The worst person I ever worked with had to have some vile mix of narcissitic and borderline personality disorder. Once, in a brief moment of clarity she actually admitted she knew she was messed up in the head. Worst part was she was a smoke show.
Posted on 12/13/17 at 9:26 am to ten Hoor Hall
It's hell on the level headed one.
Posted on 12/13/17 at 9:26 am to ten Hoor Hall
Pray for them at the spirit is lifted out of them
Posted on 12/13/17 at 10:22 am to ten Hoor Hall
Sorry to hear this bro.
My daughter has been diagnosed with Boarderline Personality Disorder. As a parent, it's devastating. My mother had it and I passed it to my daughter. I wouldn't wish it on anyone. Since my wife owns her own business, I quit my job and stayed at home to try and get her through high school. If someone hadn't been at home, she wouldn't have made it and I don't mean just graduating.
With that said, if Boarderline is truly the diagnosis, there are things that you can do. First is medication. Yes, medication helps. Second is therapy. Therapy is a lifesaver. We have found a great one here in Birmingham and she has done wonders with my daughter. Also, family therapy is a must. Not only does the person suffering need to know how to handle it, but the people around them do to. There is also group therapy which is beneficial after individual therapy. There is also inpatient treatment facilities for those with excellent insurance or deep pocketbooks.
I'd recommend a book called, "Walking on Eggshells". It will help you to understand what's going on.
I know it doesn't mean much, but I'll pray for you and your family.
My daughter has been diagnosed with Boarderline Personality Disorder. As a parent, it's devastating. My mother had it and I passed it to my daughter. I wouldn't wish it on anyone. Since my wife owns her own business, I quit my job and stayed at home to try and get her through high school. If someone hadn't been at home, she wouldn't have made it and I don't mean just graduating.
With that said, if Boarderline is truly the diagnosis, there are things that you can do. First is medication. Yes, medication helps. Second is therapy. Therapy is a lifesaver. We have found a great one here in Birmingham and she has done wonders with my daughter. Also, family therapy is a must. Not only does the person suffering need to know how to handle it, but the people around them do to. There is also group therapy which is beneficial after individual therapy. There is also inpatient treatment facilities for those with excellent insurance or deep pocketbooks.
I'd recommend a book called, "Walking on Eggshells". It will help you to understand what's going on.
I know it doesn't mean much, but I'll pray for you and your family.
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