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Boyfriend refusing money from his brother
Posted on 3/27/16 at 7:25 pm
Posted on 3/27/16 at 7:25 pm
Question for you all today. My bf has his only brother who has done very VERY well for himself and refuses to accept any money from him. Now my b/f does good enough as a middle class earner (like myself) but so many other family members of him and friends say he is insane for not taking anything. My bf has no debt, almost has his home paid off, has both vehicles paid off, and decent savings. And his brother keeps pushing him to take some and now he is asking me to instead, to which I am like..."oh hell no!" I'm not letting money ruin my relationship. Anyone of you had or have a sibling or other family members do this and not let up and what did you do to stop em from badgering you or your spouse/partner? I am thinking his brother wants to use it as some level of control, but I am not saying anything to either of them about it.
This post was edited on 3/27/16 at 7:26 pm
Posted on 3/27/16 at 7:27 pm to moffettduck
If your boyfriend doesn't need the money, why should he take it?
Posted on 3/27/16 at 7:28 pm to moffettduck
Have you thought about sleeping with the more successful brother and then asking him for money?
Kinda like you would be an escort
Kinda like you would be an escort
Posted on 3/27/16 at 7:29 pm to Walt OReilly
LOL.. my coworker said the exact same thing! I was like..naw man that shite aint ever happening!
Posted on 3/27/16 at 7:29 pm to moffettduck
I don't want anything I didn't earn. If his bro is trying to give you money it's because he's planning on hitting that. Pics??!
Posted on 3/27/16 at 7:29 pm to moffettduck
He should take the money and send you to college take English Composition 101.
Posted on 3/27/16 at 7:30 pm to moffettduck
Yeah I understand
It was just a suggestion
Would you do it if your BF never found out?
It was just a suggestion
Would you do it if your BF never found out?
Posted on 3/27/16 at 7:30 pm to moffettduck
Yeah, why not leave your man for his brother?
Posted on 3/27/16 at 7:30 pm to moffettduck
Me thinks your bf isn't nearly as "well off" as you describe in your OP... If he were I don't see how this would even be an issue. Clearly a bro is trying to help out a bro here....
Posted on 3/27/16 at 7:30 pm to moffettduck
I would like to be in this position, but sadly I'm not.
If this is true, then you BF is right not to take it. Doesn't sound like he needs it anyway.
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I am thinking his brother wants to use it as some level of control, but I am not saying anything to either of them about it.
If this is true, then you BF is right not to take it. Doesn't sound like he needs it anyway.
Posted on 3/27/16 at 7:30 pm to moffettduck
You want to go shopping with that money don't you?
Posted on 3/27/16 at 7:31 pm to moffettduck
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I was like..naw man that shite aint ever happening!
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Mobile, Alabama
I've seen enough.
Posted on 3/27/16 at 7:31 pm to moffettduck
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LOL.. my coworker said the exact same thing! I was like..naw man that shite aint ever happening!
You sure you a female OP? This sounds like something a man would say to a buddy, not something a woman would say to a friend.
This post was edited on 3/27/16 at 7:33 pm
Posted on 3/27/16 at 7:31 pm to moffettduck
I didn't read all that but I'm assuming it's trashy
Posted on 3/27/16 at 7:31 pm to moffettduck
You guys are really progressive for Alabama. Very courageous.
Posted on 3/27/16 at 7:31 pm to moffettduck
Why can't I have these kind of problems??
Posted on 3/27/16 at 7:31 pm to Walt OReilly
It's not prostitution if you actually go on dates.
Posted on 3/27/16 at 7:32 pm to moffettduck
quote:What girl talks like this? No joke, that sentence makes me think is WILL happen
I was like..naw man that shite aint ever happening!
Posted on 3/27/16 at 7:34 pm to moffettduck
the question unanswered is, why is the brother offering it?
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