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re: What would you do if your ex did this?
Posted on 10/29/14 at 12:42 am to fr33manator
Posted on 10/29/14 at 12:42 am to fr33manator
Just do what you did to the first guy, hide your imperfections & expenses till he says I do and then drop the hammer.
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Posted on 10/29/14 at 12:42 am to Mud_Till_May
My son doesn't know about any of this. All he knows is his Dad turned the phones off.
Posted on 10/29/14 at 12:42 am to Floating Change Up
OP has set a solid standard for stupidity...sorry to the women in here...she makes the gender look bad.
Posted on 10/29/14 at 12:43 am to lsugal121212
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My son doesn't know about any of this. All he knows is his Dad turned the phones off.
Does your son know that his mom and dad are divorced yet?
Posted on 10/29/14 at 12:46 am to Mud_Till_May
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No, I understand what your saying. I think the law is messed up. If one person loses their job after the divorce how would they be able to pay for the private schooling? Can they get a reduction in child support?
Yes, if the loss of employment was involuntary you can definitely get a reduction. But the judge (family court investigators exist) will definitely investigate to ensure it was truly involuntary. I started my own business a few years ago - the judge declined a temporary partial reduction. It sucked, but it is what it is.
If you quit your job and hide - there is a very good chance you end up in jail.
Eta: I quit my job to start a business. During the first few months I didn't take a salary and wanted to cut my payments in half for 6 months and then pay all back owed amounts over the next 6. Judge said no way.
This post was edited on 10/29/14 at 12:54 am
Posted on 10/29/14 at 12:49 am to Floating Change Up
I was in jail with quiet a few guys that were doing a pretty solid amount of time for not paying child support... shite one got out after 6 months but couldn't make a payment after a month out and they rolled him back in for another 6.... They don't play anymore.
Posted on 10/29/14 at 12:49 am to Floating Change Up
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If you quit your job and hide - there is a very good chance you end up in jail.
But OP still doesn't get a penny.
Posted on 10/29/14 at 12:50 am to TexasTiger08
I agree.
Damn shame. I bet she has perkier tits now than before the divorce.
Damn shame. I bet she has perkier tits now than before the divorce.
Posted on 10/29/14 at 12:50 am to Mud_Till_May
Y'all have really made me feel worthless and I just don't give a shite anymore. I'm sick of carrying the load alone
Posted on 10/29/14 at 12:51 am to lsugal121212
If you carried more of his load during the marriage you wouldn't have these problems.
Posted on 10/29/14 at 12:52 am to lsugal121212
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Y'all have really made me feel worthless and I just don't give a shite anymore. I'm sick of carrying the load alone
Posted on 10/29/14 at 12:53 am to Mud_Till_May
I left his sorry fat arse and he's still mad he can't have me
Posted on 10/29/14 at 12:54 am to lsugal121212
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I left his sorry fat arse and he's still mad he can't have me
are you that good to have?
Posted on 10/29/14 at 12:54 am to lsugal121212
I want to know how/why the marriage dissolved. I'll listen now instead of spit the truth.
Posted on 10/29/14 at 12:55 am to fr33manator
Wait...she left him? So she wasn't this poor victim of a man that used her up and discarded her?
Posted on 10/29/14 at 12:56 am to fr33manator
Can't believe yall are still going at it with this chick... I've noticed from her other threads exactly how this one would play out... She says something hoping to drum up support on what she thinks should happen and wants to hear nothing but what she thinks should happen is right. She is the most obvious typical woman on this board and that is saying a lot.... You can give her advice that's good and she won't even acknowledge it.... No wonder the dude left Nd most likely her son was probably trying to get from her when he got caught speeding... Don't blame either :batshit:
Posted on 10/29/14 at 1:07 am to lsugal121212
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lsugal121212
You need to have a serious and honest talk with your son. Do it without making you two into victims. He is young enough that if you make it be a victim, it could have long term negative effects on him. Turn it into a challenge that you two will overcome together and that will have a positive effect on him (and by the sound of it, probably you too).
As for your ex - go to family court. The judge will issue a bench warrant. Take a look on the DSS website. Lots of good info there.
Personally, if the piece of shite doesn't want to fulfill his obligation then he should be in jail. I'm not judging you on the $2,000 a month. Family court decides amounts based on combined household income - so I know you didn't Ask for that amount.
But you keep the "how do I raise my son when I can't give him a new iPhone?" Act and I've got little sympathy for you.
However you act now. And whatever you do next will be a lasting lesson for your son.
Fortunately for you, you get to decide what the lesson will be.
Good luck.
This post was edited on 10/29/14 at 1:13 am
Posted on 10/29/14 at 1:07 am to lsugal121212
I'm not reading all of this but I'm assuming you're already been through all of this
Posted on 10/29/14 at 1:09 am to JG77056
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Posted on 10/29/14 at 1:11 am to SuperSaint
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when he got caught speeding...
Oh. shite. She's that mom???
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