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re: Follow up re: my imminent divorce UPDATE PG 20
Posted on 8/6/23 at 9:57 am to Napoleon
Posted on 8/6/23 at 9:57 am to Napoleon
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Just don't be super petty and take a picture of some random girls bikini hanging on the furniture in your hotel suite and text your ex "enjoy your new fat slob old man, I'm enjoying my time with women who don't need to wear a one piece and a skirt on the beach"
That didn't go over well.
Things that didn’t happen for $1000, Alex
Posted on 8/6/23 at 10:05 am to Lester Earl
Oh it did.
I was super petty.
I was drunk and in an all inclusive living it up. I sent her a novel the next day talking about all the fun I had. She was supposed to move out in April. She moved out the day after I texted her. While I was still in Mexico. I came home to everything she bought in the last 5 years gone.
And the kids rooms empty. What did I do? I threw a fricking party. Crawfish boil and chagrgrilled oysters.
She says telling her all about my fun in Mexico is erst drove her to the new guy. But I know they were talking for weeks before that.
I'm an a-hole, petty, and speak without thinking. I promise I have said and done worse.
I was super petty.
I was drunk and in an all inclusive living it up. I sent her a novel the next day talking about all the fun I had. She was supposed to move out in April. She moved out the day after I texted her. While I was still in Mexico. I came home to everything she bought in the last 5 years gone.
And the kids rooms empty. What did I do? I threw a fricking party. Crawfish boil and chagrgrilled oysters.
She says telling her all about my fun in Mexico is erst drove her to the new guy. But I know they were talking for weeks before that.
I'm an a-hole, petty, and speak without thinking. I promise I have said and done worse.
This post was edited on 8/6/23 at 10:08 am
Posted on 8/6/23 at 10:23 am to Napoleon
quote:take note TT08, you're doing it wrong Baw
I came home to everything she bought in the last 5 years gone. And the kids rooms empty. What did I do? I threw a fricking party. Crawfish boil and chagrgrilled oysters.
Posted on 8/6/23 at 10:42 am to Penrod
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be that she is the real victim
bullshite! She cheated so any “oh I’m the poor victim” goes right out the window the moment she cheated.
There is not a single good excuse for cheating. You are that unhappy….leave the marriage/relationship or go to couples counseling. Don’t become a cheating piece of shite.
Posted on 8/6/23 at 11:06 am to lsunurse
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bullshite! She cheated so any “oh I’m the poor victim” goes right out the window the moment she cheated. There is not a single good excuse for cheating. You are that unhappy….leave the marriage/relationship or go to couples counseling. Don’t become a cheating piece of shite.
Show me on the imaginary doll where he put it inside the other girl. I’m guessing it was a combination platter involving all 3 holes.
Posted on 8/6/23 at 11:58 am to Proximo
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You may have answered this but do both of them work in the same school as you
No
Posted on 8/6/23 at 12:04 pm to TexasTiger08
void
This post was edited on 8/7/23 at 9:26 am
Posted on 8/6/23 at 2:07 pm to TexasTiger33
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Good Luck
Appreciate it. I feel like every day is a “dear diary” at this point. Publicly, I don’t think I give off the depressed vibe. On here, I definitely do. I find it therapeutic.
Posted on 8/25/23 at 9:02 pm to TexasTiger08
Strangely enough, this place seems to be as good as any for therapy. Things have been worse lately. I find myself asking God to take me. I find myself even struggling to believe. I’m not a saint, but in general I think I’m a good person. I try to do right. I wonder what I did to deserve all this. My will to keep going is diminishing.
Posted on 8/25/23 at 9:05 pm to TexasTiger08
Stay strong brother, it will get better.
To quote my favorite Winston Churchill’ quote: When you’re going through hell; keep going.
Feel free to vent, the F’d up family known as the OT is here for you
To quote my favorite Winston Churchill’ quote: When you’re going through hell; keep going.
Feel free to vent, the F’d up family known as the OT is here for you
Posted on 8/25/23 at 9:10 pm to PrecedentedTimes
I’m a little over 2 months into this new life of mine. It’s impacting my work. My confidence is shot. I feel the people who don’t care and want me gone outweigh those that do love me.
Posted on 8/25/23 at 9:12 pm to TexasTiger08
I would reach out to your immediate family and spend time with them as much as possible if you are feeling down. Maybe start listing things you are grateful for. I don't really know but I also think seeking professional therapy would be good. And exercise.
Rooting for you man. Stay strong.
Rooting for you man. Stay strong.
Posted on 8/25/23 at 9:13 pm to TexasTiger08
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I’m a little over 2 months into this new life of mine. It’s impacting my work. My confidence is shot. I feel the people who don’t care and want me gone outweigh those that do love me.
Stoicism. Look it up and quick being a giant puss.
Also, Eat some meat. Lift some weights. Go for walks. You'll be fine.
This post was edited on 8/25/23 at 9:15 pm
Posted on 8/25/23 at 9:14 pm to TexasTiger08
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t. I feel the people who don’t care and want me gone outweigh those that do love me
Probably not true, cheer up
Posted on 8/25/23 at 9:14 pm to TexasTiger08
Real talk clinch your teeth and punch yourself in the face moderately hard just to feel something.
You’re numb and you’re cratering and that only gets worse unless you snap yourself out of it. Take a personal week and go to a jungle. Go to a beach. Take some time to get yourself out of your normal environment and go engage your senses in something bigger than you and take inventory of your life and what it looks like going forward.
Quit your job. Move somewhere else. You can teach anywhere. Just don’t stay in this rut
You’re numb and you’re cratering and that only gets worse unless you snap yourself out of it. Take a personal week and go to a jungle. Go to a beach. Take some time to get yourself out of your normal environment and go engage your senses in something bigger than you and take inventory of your life and what it looks like going forward.
Quit your job. Move somewhere else. You can teach anywhere. Just don’t stay in this rut
This post was edited on 8/25/23 at 9:25 pm
Posted on 8/25/23 at 9:16 pm to TexasTiger33
Exercise and find a hobby amigo.
Posted on 8/25/23 at 9:20 pm to TexasTiger08
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My confidence is shot. I feel the people who don’t care and want me gone outweigh those that do love me.
You will quickly learn the difference between friends and acquaintances, but even friends don’t want to be around someone who is constantly depressed or bringing everyone down.
Posted on 8/25/23 at 9:21 pm to BigBinBR
I know I’m a buzzkill. Nobody wants to be around me.
Posted on 8/25/23 at 9:22 pm to TexasTiger08
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TexasTiger08
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I’m a little over 2 months into this new life of mine. It’s impacting my work. My confidence is shot. I feel the people who don’t care and want me gone outweigh those that do love me.
Our minds will tell us crazy things that simply aren't true. Most people with idle time on their hands will tend to think more negative than positive.
Do this. Don't quit, even if you fail many times. Focus on the positive and what is going right (yes, you have things going right for you, i.e. you woke up, you're breathing, you have a job, a roof over your head, etc.). We always seem to elevate the negative and discount the positive. You have to bring all your focus to the current and only on things you can control - which is you.
Ask yourself this important question. When you start criticizing yourself for past mistakes or seeing disaster around every corner, ask yourself, “Is there anything I can do right now to change the past or to positively influence the future?” If the answer is yes, do it and take action. If the answer is no, be at peace and let it go. You either have to take action or let it go. Everything else is self-harm.
This post was edited on 8/25/23 at 9:24 pm
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