I don't mean this as an insult in any way. I'm dead serious about that. But do you consider yourself and Arsenal fan? How could any Arsenal fan wish the Yids to 4th? Again, I promise I'm not trying to insult you, I just want to know why you don't have a problem with your clubs most hated and biggest rival getting champion's league football.
No offense taken, and I understand the questions.
I hate Chelsea much more than Tottenham.
I'm an Arsenal fan but I'm also a fan of the beautiful game. I like a lot of Totts' players (Bale, Dempsey, Vertongen, Parker, Dembele, Friedel, Lloris) and for the most part can't say the same for Chelsea (Cole, Terry, and Hazard, etc... I do like Luiz and Mata though). I hate their owner and their shitty fan base. I've found Totts fans to be quite pleasant. Can't say the same for the Chelsea fans.
I have no real emotional attachment to Arsenal. I picked them because I played with Thierry Henry in FIFA 2007 and loved the French aspect to that team in general (manager, players, etc). But just because I picked this team as my favorite and root for them above all others doesn't mean that I suddenly have a robust hatred for our rivals. Maybe that makes me a bad fan? I'm not sure.