Your significant others political leanings: aligned or not?
My SO hates politics first and foremost but we are both conservative fiscally, socially she is a little more moderate but leans to the right where I am conservative again. I will vote 3rd party way before she will though.
Now my inlaws are what you were wanting, a strong r with a strong d. Not sure if it causes strain but we did have a bit of a heated discussion at new years dinner about current events. It was definitely a bit ackward for a few minutes.....