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What do you think about this video showing white privilege or head start

Posted on 10/9/17 at 7:30 am
Posted by ApexTiger
cary nc
Member since Oct 2003
53768 posts
Posted on 10/9/17 at 7:30 am
The race of life

sorry, don't know how to embed video from facebook.

Statements made

1. If both your parents still married
2. grew up with father figure in the home
3. Access to private education
4. Access to free tutor
5. Never worried about cell phone shut off
6. Never had to help mom or dad with food or bills
7. Never worried about next meal was going to come from

"nothing to do with what you've done"

"We don't want to recognize we've been given an head start"
This post was edited on 10/9/17 at 7:32 am
Posted by Errerrerrwere
Member since Aug 2015
38235 posts
Posted on 10/9/17 at 7:32 am to
I think it's time for a culture change and for people to stop voting democrat.
Posted by Bolivar Shagnasty
Your mothers corner
Member since Aug 2017
654 posts
Posted on 10/9/17 at 7:32 am to
I'm white and only had 2 of those things growing up.

Absolute dip-shits.
Posted by EZE Tiger Fan
Member since Jul 2004
50219 posts
Posted on 10/9/17 at 7:32 am to
The march to shame the responsible producer continues.

This is why I can't vote Democrat again.

Ever.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
259859 posts
Posted on 10/9/17 at 7:33 am to
The problem with "white privilege" is it's usually propagated by a bunch of upper middle class white kids who think that all white people have the same experience as them.

My experience was far more closely related to country black folks than snotty white kids.
Posted by CAD703X
Liberty Island
Member since Jul 2008
77927 posts
Posted on 10/9/17 at 7:41 am to
quote:

grew up with father figure in the home


The new gentrification
Posted by The Maj
Member since Sep 2016
27015 posts
Posted on 10/9/17 at 7:53 am to
1. Yes
2. Yes
3. Nope
4. Nope
5. Nope, they did not exist.
6. I worked on the family farm after school and on weekends and on school breaks.
7. Nope, because even though we were poor, my parents prioritized how and when they spent their money to make sure that a meal was going to be provided. Some times, it might be a piece of ham, a biscuit, and some tomato gravy but it was still a meal and we were thankful to have it.

Sorry but I do not feel sorry for what the family unit has become because of what society has been told to view as "acceptable".
Posted by NashvilleTider
Your Mom
Member since Jan 2007
11346 posts
Posted on 10/9/17 at 7:56 am to
Wish I had some of that black privilege physically so I could have had a better shot of playing in the NFL
Posted by Statestreet
Gueydan
Member since Sep 2008
12914 posts
Posted on 10/9/17 at 8:06 am to
quote:

Statements made

1. If both your parents still married
2. grew up with father figure in the home
3. Access to private education
4. Access to free tutor
5. Never worried about cell phone shut off
6. Never had to help mom or dad with food or bills
7. Never worried about next meal was going to come from


1. Everyone has control over this. Break the cycle.

2. Everyone has control over this. Break the cycle.

3. There are lots of programs to assist with this

4. Plenty of programs give free tutors to people who need them (free for whites? I don't think so)

5. Obama gave heavily subsidized cellular service to low income consumers

6. BS

7. BS
Posted by Maytheporkbewithyou
Member since Aug 2016
12586 posts
Posted on 10/9/17 at 8:12 am to
Good grief. I grew up poor. My mom was sick a lot and we were a family of five living on my father's income. As soon as my brother and I were old enough we started mowing lawns, splitting firewood, and whatever other odd jobs we could work to help out.

My parents put a roof over our head, fed us, clothed us, helped us with our school work, and loved us.

If that's White Privelage then guilty as charged.
Posted by Mulat
Avalon Bch, FL
Member since Sep 2010
17517 posts
Posted on 10/9/17 at 8:14 am to
quote:

1. If both your parents still married
2. grew up with father figure in the home
3. Access to private education
4. Access to free tutor
5. Never worried about cell phone shut off
6. Never had to help mom or dad with food or bills
7. Never worried about next meal was going to come from



This is nothing but a fking joke and a excuse, like white don't deal with these issues, really dumb

They just want one PRIVILEGE after another, they ARE the Privileged Class
This post was edited on 10/9/17 at 8:16 am
Posted by Antonio Moss
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2006
48290 posts
Posted on 10/9/17 at 8:38 am to

quote:

"We don't want to recognize we've been given an head start"


The whole argument is backwards. Having functional parents doesn't give you a "head start;" having dysfunctional parents starts you at a disadvantage. Start shaming shitty people and stop trying to tear down people who lead good lives that actually contribute to society.
Posted by cokebottleag
I’m a Santos Republican
Member since Aug 2011
24028 posts
Posted on 10/9/17 at 8:44 am to
quote:

1. If both your parents still married - yes
2. grew up with father figure in the home - yes
3. Access to private education - no
4. Access to free tutor - no
5. Never worried about cell phone shut off - didn't have cell phones but we did worry about other utilities which got shut off from time to time.
6. Never had to help mom or dad with food or bills - Worked for my dad's small business since 13 as only employee.
7. Never worried about next meal was going to come from - yes but we never took food stamps.


frick these people.
Posted by ABearsFanNMS
Formerly of tLandmass now in Texas
Member since Oct 2014
17442 posts
Posted on 10/9/17 at 9:01 am to
So the argument is you should be ashamed because “your parents made the responsible decisions in life”?

I never had to “worry” about cell phones being turned off or had to help with the bills because even though my Father was fighting declaring bankruptcy my parents never discussed that situation with the kids. I over heard their conversations and know they were rather dire at times.
Posted by RC
Member since Apr 2009
957 posts
Posted on 10/9/17 at 9:52 am to
It would be more accurate if everyone who crossed the finish line received $100. Life does not have just one winner. Sure the "disadvantaged" had to go a little farther and work a little harder, but nothing is keeping them from reaching the goal.
Posted by Centinel
Idaho
Member since Sep 2016
43318 posts
Posted on 10/9/17 at 10:00 am to
quote:

1. Nope
2. Nope
3. lol hell no.
4. Nope.
5. Not cell phone, but regular phone and other utilities for sure.
6. Didn't necessarily help, but my mom told me at 15 to get a job because I was going to start paying for my own clothes, items, and everything outside of food.
7. I didn't realize until I got older that eating cream of wheat for dinner many nights wasn't a normal thing


Privilege in this country is socioeconomic, not racial.

ETA: Even though I grew up the way I did, I don't sit there and cry about how my childhood wasn't fair. Life isn't fair...some people will always be more fortunate than others.

But if you dare tell me I am "privileged", well then you'll have to excuse me when I tell you to go frick yourself.
This post was edited on 10/9/17 at 10:03 am
Posted by Zach
Gizmonic Institute
Member since May 2005
112393 posts
Posted on 10/9/17 at 10:03 am to
quote:

If both your parents still married 2. grew up with father figure in the home


OK, I had that. I did not have the next 5.
Posted by N.O. via West-Cal
New Orleans
Member since Aug 2004
7177 posts
Posted on 10/9/17 at 10:30 am to
Interesting video and worth considering in the spirit intended. Also, though, it is true that the kids didn't do anything to give them the advantages many of them had. However, it is equally true that each of those kids had a great deal of control over whether their kids could answer "yes" to those questions a generation from now.
Posted by TigrrrDad
Member since Oct 2016
7095 posts
Posted on 10/9/17 at 11:47 am to
Here's what pisses me off the most about that narrative: I grew up with all of those things (except for the cell phone since I'm old). Was it the result of privilege or a head start? No. It was the result of my dad busting his arse.

My dad grew up poor. His dad left when my dad and his brother were very young. My grandmother never remarried and raised them on her own. If they had shoes on their feet, it was a good day. My dad put no effort into high school and skated by. But what did he do after that? First he joined the Marines right out of high school. Then he became a cop. While he was working for NOPD, he started night school at Loyola and got a degree in criminal justice. When he worked his way up to Captain, he was the youngest in NOPD history to make that rank. Then he started a small business in the garage (which he built in our back yard with his own two hands). So instead of getting off of work and heading to night school, now he was getting home at 6 pm and working in the garage untiil 10-11 pm every night. Then that business grew large enough for him to retire from NOPD and provide a very nice life for us.

So I went to a private school and drove new sports cars throughout high school. Did that "gift" me the job I'm now retired from? No. I busted my arse in school. I spent many a Friday and Saturday night studying while my friends were out partying. My hard work paid off with a full ride to college. I stayed in school until I was 25 years old to earn my doctorate. So now my son has the same things I had growing up. I wasn't given a head start, my dad EARNED my head start. My kid wasn't GIVEN a head start, I EARNED his head start.

One of his friends is black. The kid is likely going to be a Valedictorian at their high school this year. He's headed to Stanford, and he has a sister currently at Yale. I met the kid's dad recently when he was doing some work next door to me. He does manual labor - cuts down trees, builds fences, yard work, etc. He was doing work next door and came knocking on my door looking to see if I needed any work done. When he gave me his name I realized he was my son's friend's father. Busting his arse and doing whatever he can to provide a better life for his kids.

Sure there are some rich kids in the Hamptons who are born into long time family money, but for the other 99.9%, life is what you make of it.
This post was edited on 10/9/17 at 11:52 am
Posted by NoHoTiger
So many to kill, so little time
Member since Nov 2006
45720 posts
Posted on 10/9/17 at 12:12 pm to
quote:

1. If both your parents still married

My dad died when I was still a toddler
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2. grew up with father figure in the home

Have a step-dad. He's a good man.
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3. Access to private education

May parents couldn't really afford that.
quote:

4. Access to free tutor

Everyone has access to this.
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5. Never worried about cell phone shut off

I grew up in the 70s and 80s.
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6. Never had to help mom or dad with food or bills

My mom and dad actually worked to take care of us. We were working class. Emphasis on WORKING.
quote:

7. Never worried about next meal was going to come from

Again, my mom and dad worked and actually sheltered us from some of the issues. They deprived themselves, not us.

quote:

"nothing to do with what you've done"

"We don't want to recognize we've been given an head start"

Pretty sure this is called parenting. More people should be aware of this BEFORE having kids.
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