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What do you think about this video showing white privilege or head start
Posted on 10/9/17 at 7:30 am
Posted on 10/9/17 at 7:30 am
The race of life
sorry, don't know how to embed video from facebook.
Statements made
1. If both your parents still married
2. grew up with father figure in the home
3. Access to private education
4. Access to free tutor
5. Never worried about cell phone shut off
6. Never had to help mom or dad with food or bills
7. Never worried about next meal was going to come from
"nothing to do with what you've done"
"We don't want to recognize we've been given an head start"
sorry, don't know how to embed video from facebook.
Statements made
1. If both your parents still married
2. grew up with father figure in the home
3. Access to private education
4. Access to free tutor
5. Never worried about cell phone shut off
6. Never had to help mom or dad with food or bills
7. Never worried about next meal was going to come from
"nothing to do with what you've done"
"We don't want to recognize we've been given an head start"
This post was edited on 10/9/17 at 7:32 am
Posted on 10/9/17 at 7:32 am to ApexTiger
I think it's time for a culture change and for people to stop voting democrat.
Posted on 10/9/17 at 7:32 am to ApexTiger
I'm white and only had 2 of those things growing up.
Absolute dip-shits.
Absolute dip-shits.
Posted on 10/9/17 at 7:32 am to ApexTiger
The march to shame the responsible producer continues.
This is why I can't vote Democrat again.
Ever.
This is why I can't vote Democrat again.
Ever.
Posted on 10/9/17 at 7:33 am to ApexTiger
The problem with "white privilege" is it's usually propagated by a bunch of upper middle class white kids who think that all white people have the same experience as them.
My experience was far more closely related to country black folks than snotty white kids.
My experience was far more closely related to country black folks than snotty white kids.
Posted on 10/9/17 at 7:41 am to ApexTiger
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grew up with father figure in the home
The new gentrification
Posted on 10/9/17 at 7:53 am to ApexTiger
1. Yes
2. Yes
3. Nope
4. Nope
5. Nope, they did not exist.
6. I worked on the family farm after school and on weekends and on school breaks.
7. Nope, because even though we were poor, my parents prioritized how and when they spent their money to make sure that a meal was going to be provided. Some times, it might be a piece of ham, a biscuit, and some tomato gravy but it was still a meal and we were thankful to have it.
Sorry but I do not feel sorry for what the family unit has become because of what society has been told to view as "acceptable".
2. Yes
3. Nope
4. Nope
5. Nope, they did not exist.
6. I worked on the family farm after school and on weekends and on school breaks.
7. Nope, because even though we were poor, my parents prioritized how and when they spent their money to make sure that a meal was going to be provided. Some times, it might be a piece of ham, a biscuit, and some tomato gravy but it was still a meal and we were thankful to have it.
Sorry but I do not feel sorry for what the family unit has become because of what society has been told to view as "acceptable".
Posted on 10/9/17 at 7:56 am to The Maj
Wish I had some of that black privilege physically so I could have had a better shot of playing in the NFL
Posted on 10/9/17 at 8:06 am to ApexTiger
quote:
Statements made
1. If both your parents still married
2. grew up with father figure in the home
3. Access to private education
4. Access to free tutor
5. Never worried about cell phone shut off
6. Never had to help mom or dad with food or bills
7. Never worried about next meal was going to come from
1. Everyone has control over this. Break the cycle.
2. Everyone has control over this. Break the cycle.
3. There are lots of programs to assist with this
4. Plenty of programs give free tutors to people who need them (free for whites? I don't think so)
5. Obama gave heavily subsidized cellular service to low income consumers
6. BS
7. BS
Posted on 10/9/17 at 8:12 am to ApexTiger
Good grief. I grew up poor. My mom was sick a lot and we were a family of five living on my father's income. As soon as my brother and I were old enough we started mowing lawns, splitting firewood, and whatever other odd jobs we could work to help out.
My parents put a roof over our head, fed us, clothed us, helped us with our school work, and loved us.
If that's White Privelage then guilty as charged.
My parents put a roof over our head, fed us, clothed us, helped us with our school work, and loved us.
If that's White Privelage then guilty as charged.
Posted on 10/9/17 at 8:14 am to ApexTiger
quote:
1. If both your parents still married
2. grew up with father figure in the home
3. Access to private education
4. Access to free tutor
5. Never worried about cell phone shut off
6. Never had to help mom or dad with food or bills
7. Never worried about next meal was going to come from
This is nothing but a fking joke and a excuse, like white don't deal with these issues, really dumb
They just want one PRIVILEGE after another, they ARE the Privileged Class
This post was edited on 10/9/17 at 8:16 am
Posted on 10/9/17 at 8:38 am to ApexTiger
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"We don't want to recognize we've been given an head start"
The whole argument is backwards. Having functional parents doesn't give you a "head start;" having dysfunctional parents starts you at a disadvantage. Start shaming shitty people and stop trying to tear down people who lead good lives that actually contribute to society.
Posted on 10/9/17 at 8:44 am to ApexTiger
quote:
1. If both your parents still married - yes
2. grew up with father figure in the home - yes
3. Access to private education - no
4. Access to free tutor - no
5. Never worried about cell phone shut off - didn't have cell phones but we did worry about other utilities which got shut off from time to time.
6. Never had to help mom or dad with food or bills - Worked for my dad's small business since 13 as only employee.
7. Never worried about next meal was going to come from - yes but we never took food stamps.
frick these people.
Posted on 10/9/17 at 9:01 am to ApexTiger
So the argument is you should be ashamed because “your parents made the responsible decisions in life”?
I never had to “worry” about cell phones being turned off or had to help with the bills because even though my Father was fighting declaring bankruptcy my parents never discussed that situation with the kids. I over heard their conversations and know they were rather dire at times.
I never had to “worry” about cell phones being turned off or had to help with the bills because even though my Father was fighting declaring bankruptcy my parents never discussed that situation with the kids. I over heard their conversations and know they were rather dire at times.
Posted on 10/9/17 at 9:52 am to ApexTiger
It would be more accurate if everyone who crossed the finish line received $100. Life does not have just one winner. Sure the "disadvantaged" had to go a little farther and work a little harder, but nothing is keeping them from reaching the goal.
Posted on 10/9/17 at 10:00 am to ApexTiger
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1. Nope
2. Nope
3. lol hell no.
4. Nope.
5. Not cell phone, but regular phone and other utilities for sure.
6. Didn't necessarily help, but my mom told me at 15 to get a job because I was going to start paying for my own clothes, items, and everything outside of food.
7. I didn't realize until I got older that eating cream of wheat for dinner many nights wasn't a normal thing
Privilege in this country is socioeconomic, not racial.
ETA: Even though I grew up the way I did, I don't sit there and cry about how my childhood wasn't fair. Life isn't fair...some people will always be more fortunate than others.
But if you dare tell me I am "privileged", well then you'll have to excuse me when I tell you to go frick yourself.
This post was edited on 10/9/17 at 10:03 am
Posted on 10/9/17 at 10:03 am to ApexTiger
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If both your parents still married 2. grew up with father figure in the home
OK, I had that. I did not have the next 5.
Posted on 10/9/17 at 10:30 am to ApexTiger
Interesting video and worth considering in the spirit intended. Also, though, it is true that the kids didn't do anything to give them the advantages many of them had. However, it is equally true that each of those kids had a great deal of control over whether their kids could answer "yes" to those questions a generation from now.
Posted on 10/9/17 at 11:47 am to ApexTiger
Here's what pisses me off the most about that narrative: I grew up with all of those things (except for the cell phone since I'm old). Was it the result of privilege or a head start? No. It was the result of my dad busting his arse.
My dad grew up poor. His dad left when my dad and his brother were very young. My grandmother never remarried and raised them on her own. If they had shoes on their feet, it was a good day. My dad put no effort into high school and skated by. But what did he do after that? First he joined the Marines right out of high school. Then he became a cop. While he was working for NOPD, he started night school at Loyola and got a degree in criminal justice. When he worked his way up to Captain, he was the youngest in NOPD history to make that rank. Then he started a small business in the garage (which he built in our back yard with his own two hands). So instead of getting off of work and heading to night school, now he was getting home at 6 pm and working in the garage untiil 10-11 pm every night. Then that business grew large enough for him to retire from NOPD and provide a very nice life for us.
So I went to a private school and drove new sports cars throughout high school. Did that "gift" me the job I'm now retired from? No. I busted my arse in school. I spent many a Friday and Saturday night studying while my friends were out partying. My hard work paid off with a full ride to college. I stayed in school until I was 25 years old to earn my doctorate. So now my son has the same things I had growing up. I wasn't given a head start, my dad EARNED my head start. My kid wasn't GIVEN a head start, I EARNED his head start.
One of his friends is black. The kid is likely going to be a Valedictorian at their high school this year. He's headed to Stanford, and he has a sister currently at Yale. I met the kid's dad recently when he was doing some work next door to me. He does manual labor - cuts down trees, builds fences, yard work, etc. He was doing work next door and came knocking on my door looking to see if I needed any work done. When he gave me his name I realized he was my son's friend's father. Busting his arse and doing whatever he can to provide a better life for his kids.
Sure there are some rich kids in the Hamptons who are born into long time family money, but for the other 99.9%, life is what you make of it.
My dad grew up poor. His dad left when my dad and his brother were very young. My grandmother never remarried and raised them on her own. If they had shoes on their feet, it was a good day. My dad put no effort into high school and skated by. But what did he do after that? First he joined the Marines right out of high school. Then he became a cop. While he was working for NOPD, he started night school at Loyola and got a degree in criminal justice. When he worked his way up to Captain, he was the youngest in NOPD history to make that rank. Then he started a small business in the garage (which he built in our back yard with his own two hands). So instead of getting off of work and heading to night school, now he was getting home at 6 pm and working in the garage untiil 10-11 pm every night. Then that business grew large enough for him to retire from NOPD and provide a very nice life for us.
So I went to a private school and drove new sports cars throughout high school. Did that "gift" me the job I'm now retired from? No. I busted my arse in school. I spent many a Friday and Saturday night studying while my friends were out partying. My hard work paid off with a full ride to college. I stayed in school until I was 25 years old to earn my doctorate. So now my son has the same things I had growing up. I wasn't given a head start, my dad EARNED my head start. My kid wasn't GIVEN a head start, I EARNED his head start.
One of his friends is black. The kid is likely going to be a Valedictorian at their high school this year. He's headed to Stanford, and he has a sister currently at Yale. I met the kid's dad recently when he was doing some work next door to me. He does manual labor - cuts down trees, builds fences, yard work, etc. He was doing work next door and came knocking on my door looking to see if I needed any work done. When he gave me his name I realized he was my son's friend's father. Busting his arse and doing whatever he can to provide a better life for his kids.
Sure there are some rich kids in the Hamptons who are born into long time family money, but for the other 99.9%, life is what you make of it.
This post was edited on 10/9/17 at 11:52 am
Posted on 10/9/17 at 12:12 pm to ApexTiger
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1. If both your parents still married
My dad died when I was still a toddler
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2. grew up with father figure in the home
Have a step-dad. He's a good man.
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3. Access to private education
May parents couldn't really afford that.
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4. Access to free tutor
Everyone has access to this.
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5. Never worried about cell phone shut off
I grew up in the 70s and 80s.
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6. Never had to help mom or dad with food or bills
My mom and dad actually worked to take care of us. We were working class. Emphasis on WORKING.
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7. Never worried about next meal was going to come from
Again, my mom and dad worked and actually sheltered us from some of the issues. They deprived themselves, not us.
quote:
"nothing to do with what you've done"
"We don't want to recognize we've been given an head start"
Pretty sure this is called parenting. More people should be aware of this BEFORE having kids.
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