what the frick?
not only is this an ad hom attack, it's a completely untrue ad hom attack
He shot that accusation my way a while back too.
IRL I'm about the most gay respectful, non-homophobic straight-person imaginable. If a fool was stupid enough to make comments resembling those in the OP in my presence, I suspect he'd be in for a far more unpleasant exchange than would be the case with most pro-gay marriage libs here.
However, having heard with my own ears extremists laying out rationale for marriage vs CU, and knowing CU would get my gay friends everything they'd desire + marriage, it pisses me off that the issue has been usurped by anti-churchers as a "useful" issue. It is equally unsettling that libs are willing to overlook obvious motives and duplicity, and call others paranoid or homophobic for not doing the same.