re: My Apology to the Board for my Conduct (Why I Am The Result Of Feminism)

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must say I do sincerely appreciate all the suggestions on this thread. I'll take some of them into account. I guess now the big thing is to figure out how to proceed from here. This thread really did help me in a way.

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Didn't read the whole thing, but if a trip to the Bunny Ranch wasn't in the list, start there.

It is unfortunate that the meaning of a-hole, in the sense that it works with women, has become 'dude who says what he thinks and doesn't really care if a woman agrees', which is basically what is implied by that. Obviously, you don't reveal your full power level, but you also don't need to act as if you need approval.

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It is unfortunate that the meaning of a-hole, in the sense that it works with women, has become 'dude who says what he thinks and doesn't really care if a woman agrees', which is basically what is implied by that. Obviously, you don't reveal your full power level, but you also don't need to act as if you need approval.

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This. Exactly. There is a middle ground between doormat and a-hole. I just always wanted a guy who was his own person and had his own thing going on. Sometimes I would pick up a new hobby, sometimes I didn't want to participate in whatever he liked but I always wanted someone who said and did the same things when we were together than when we were dating.

There will be some merging of interests, of course, and that's needed. But a man needs to have a full existence and belief system/behavior pattern separate from his SO. Yeesh. I don't want to date myself.

That is pointless drivel. "Just be yourself" is stupid and pointless advice. Do you think this dude has been pretending to be someone else for 33 years.

What if your self is a scared, timid, hermit? Some people need to change to better themselves. Fake it till you make it has merit

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Hey, does this look like confession?

Your self-loathing is repugnant. Go pay a hooker and have some sex this Mardi Gras. Come back Monday a man and I will forget about this Beta post.

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That's some cold shite.

I upvoted, doe.

Women want the opposite of what they say the want. I have the feeling also that you try too hard. You meet women and try to be too nice, try to let her make all the decisions like where to go on a date and such, and spend your time trying to convince her why you'd be a good boyfriend and how you're such a nice person.

It won't work. It will never work. Stop trying it. There is no particular way to dress or things to do that guarantees you'll get a woman. There are women attracted to all different types and styles. Where you're failing is you are not confident. You are insecure. Take control and show confidence, don't second guess yourself and learn from trial and error. Don't be afraid of rejection. Show your true personality and let your style fit who you are, not what you think others think you should be. When you meet a girl don't think about trying to get laid, treat her as if you would treat a man that you just met and want to build a friendship. Just chat and get to know her, don't create awkward tension. Women like to feel comfortable first and foremost.

Sexual frustration usually leads to trying too hard and eventually frustration turns to anger. It may help to just buy a hooker. Lose the v card, and it'll be a gigantic relief just knowing you aren't a virgin and experiencing sex. It will clear your head and allow you to get better at the game since you are not frustrated any more.

And why wish to tear down family structure? Don't try to bring your misery on others because you've failed at something. Work to change yourself so you succeed and bring your joy to others. Don't bring everyone down, that makes you an a-hole. Nobody likes an a-hole

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Late to the thread, but you sound like a future mass murderer. Get help... fast.

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To answer your question I just turned 33 a month ago. I thought about going the hooker route but they just all look so nasty

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Dude, if you're a 33 year old virgin and hookers still look nasty, you flat out don't want it bad enough. You don't seem to be aware but there are some fine looking hookers out there. shite, you're 33, drop 1000 on one. Or, pro tip: most strippers will let you bang them in the private dance room.