Calm down. For the Love of God. Chill. Everything I said was 100% true my husband is 100% Ukrainian and I saw all I described in a UO Church in PA as a matter of a fact.
Your husband is Ukrainian and you didn't know about an iconostasis? Your husband is Ukrainian and "snuck" you the Eucharist? They throw it in your mouth with a spoon.
And no Orthodox liturgy that I've seen has ever included a haircut.
And I am Roman Catholic
You just proved that you aren't by using that phrase. "Roman Catholic" is a pejorative created by the Anglicans. If you are a Catholic, you are a Catholic. You may belong to the Latin Church, which is one of 23 sui iuris
Churches in the Catholic Church (which contains the Ukrainian Catholic Church, btw), but you are NOT a "Roman Catholic."
And weren't you the same one going on about the "St. Malachy prophecy"?