what would you say to a gay man if he told you he was gay by choice?
Find me one and I'll come up with something.
Why won't anyone answer this simple question? If you need it to be a choice SO BADLY for homosexuals, than why wasn't it a choice for you? And if it was a choice for you, what exactly does that mean? does it mean that at one point in your youth you were equally attracted to both boys and girls and you consciously decided on girls? Does that mean you still harbor sexual attraction to boys/men...?
This isn't a gotcha question. If it's a choice for homosexuals to decide to be attracted to members of the same sex, than it stands to reason it would be a choice for heterosexuals as well. This does not jive with my own experience...as I was never attracted to anyone but girls.