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re: Dating Morality Thread: Dating with No Intention of a Serious Relationship
Posted on 4/1/15 at 10:04 am to Pilot Tiger
Posted on 4/1/15 at 10:04 am to Pilot Tiger
How did the female respond?
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Posted on 4/1/15 at 10:05 am to SlowFlowPro
when discussing long term plans I always say things like, "after I trade you in for the younger model.." 
Posted on 4/1/15 at 10:05 am to Salmon
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I would never call what we did "dating" though
that's why i struggle to describe my last fling in this manner. the girl gets pissed (to this day) if i say we dated or she was my gf
she would still bring up marriage and stuff but she was 20 at the time so that's nbd
Posted on 4/1/15 at 10:05 am to SlowFlowPro
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i'm known to tell girls (esp younger girls) right before we bang that if she gets pregnant i'm not marrying her, to ease my moral conflict
Now I'm wondering if I should feel guilty because I didn't say this and still had no moral conflict doing just that.
Posted on 4/1/15 at 10:06 am to colorchangintiger
no that's just an example of my anxiety and "going down the rabbit hole" as we put it
Posted on 4/1/15 at 10:06 am to JBeam
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I've noticed that a few posters keep saying "if you are upfront and honest". How many of you have honestly had a conversation like this with someone?
Had it a couple of times. Just basically said, "Listen, before we keep going on dates, just know that my intention is not to have a serious relationship. I'm having fun with you, though, so I think we should keep hanging out."
Posted on 4/1/15 at 10:07 am to rbWarEagle
i'm thinking of asking a really young, really religious girl out and i think i'm going to tell her that. i want to see how that works
Posted on 4/1/15 at 10:07 am to JBeam
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How many of you have honestly had a conversation like this with someone?
Plenty do but the other party either doesn't believe it or think they can change you.
Posted on 4/1/15 at 10:08 am to rbWarEagle
quote:Very hot & cold statement. But I guess that would work for some people. I've personally never had the conversation. But it felt like an understanding between the both of us.
Just basically said, "Listen, before we keep going on dates, just know that my intention is not to have a serious relationship. I'm having fun with you, though, so I think we should keep hanging out."
Posted on 4/1/15 at 10:08 am to SlowFlowPro
quote:Ill save you some time, she friend-zones you.
i'm thinking of asking a really young, really religious girl out and i think i'm going to tell her that. i want to see how that works
Posted on 4/1/15 at 10:08 am to Pilot Tiger
let me add something to your "business exchange" comment. it's also free practice (for both parties)
i haven't been in any sort of game for almost a year and a half (by choice). you gotta ease up into things before you settle in and get serious
i haven't been in any sort of game for almost a year and a half (by choice). you gotta ease up into things before you settle in and get serious
Posted on 4/1/15 at 10:09 am to JBeam
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But it felt like an understanding between the both of us.
I struggle to call a relationship "dating" when it is understood that either party will walk away at the first sight of someone better
Posted on 4/1/15 at 10:09 am to Jones
quote:I've seen this happen a few times.
Plenty do but the other party either doesn't believe it or think they can change you.
Posted on 4/1/15 at 10:10 am to Salmon
i think that's exactly what "dating" is, and a "relationship" is much more serious
Posted on 4/1/15 at 10:10 am to SlowFlowPro
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i'm thinking of asking a really young, really religious girl out and i think i'm going to tell her that. i want to see how that works
Probably not well.
Posted on 4/1/15 at 10:10 am to SlowFlowPro
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i'm thinking of asking a really young, really religious girl out and i think i'm going to tell her that. i want to see how that works
Then you would be lying to her by saying you have fun with her.
Posted on 4/1/15 at 10:11 am to rbWarEagle
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Probably not well.
well she started amping up her flirting when i told her i was a heathen, so i'm guessing she's looking to rebel
and "really young" is like 21, just to clarify (i forget the age ranges here, "really young" to some posters on here is like 15
)Posted on 4/1/15 at 10:11 am to SlowFlowPro
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i think that's exactly what "dating" is
I consider dating to have some type of attachment and not just fricking
Posted on 4/1/15 at 10:11 am to JBeam
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Very hot & cold statement. But I guess that would work for some people. I've personally never had the conversation. But it felt like an understanding between the both of us.
More like lukewarm and cold. It depends on the circumstance, too. These girls were girls that I figured I might want to date in the future if things went well.
Posted on 4/1/15 at 10:12 am to SlowFlowPro
It seems like the issue usually comes up in most cases. As long as everyone's up front about their expectations. If it doesn't come up after a little while (1-2 months depending on the situation) it's better to bring it up if there's any question about it.
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