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relationship through different religions

Posted on 3/28/15 at 8:09 pm
Posted by tigeratheart
Covington
Member since Aug 2009
116 posts
Posted on 3/28/15 at 8:09 pm
I wanted some opinions on being in a relationship when you are different religions. My situation is Catholic and Baptist. Not HUGE differences, but there are some glaring contrasts.
Has anyone else been in a relationship where different religions where involved? What's the furthest you've taken it? How do you compromise? What about raising a family?
Just some things I've been discussing and wanted some outside opinions.
Posted by ReauxlTide222
St. Petersburg
Member since Nov 2010
83334 posts
Posted on 3/28/15 at 8:12 pm to
On a day to day basis, I think about religion zero times. Thus, I have no problems and won't have any when raising a family. I can't even fathom letting something as insignificant as religion affect the way I raise my family.....THE SINGLE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN ANYONES LIFE.
This post was edited on 3/28/15 at 8:13 pm
Posted by tom
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2007
8149 posts
Posted on 3/28/15 at 8:14 pm to
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On a day to day basis, I think about religion zero times. Thus, I have no problems and won't have any when raising a family. I can't even fathom letting something as insignificant as religion affect the way I raise my family.
Posted by 4LSU2
Member since Dec 2009
37305 posts
Posted on 3/28/15 at 8:16 pm to
If you ever get married, you will quickly learn to agree to disagree. Same thing here.
Posted by rocket31
Member since Jan 2008
41819 posts
Posted on 3/28/15 at 8:16 pm to
youre religious...in 2015...

dont reproduce
Posted by wildtigercat93
Member since Jul 2011
112173 posts
Posted on 3/28/15 at 8:16 pm to
Baptist and a catholic? That's easy, the Baptist is the designated driver

Posted by Bmath
LA
Member since Aug 2010
18664 posts
Posted on 3/28/15 at 8:19 pm to
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relationship through different religions


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My situation is Catholic and Baptist.


You are not different religions. You belong to different denominations.


My wife was Presbyterian, and I am Catholic. She had attended Catholic schools her whole life so it wasn't a huge stretch for her when we were dating. A few years after getting married she converted.

She isn't a diehard catholic, and still struggles with a lot of little thinks like the idea of holy days of obligation and lenten fasting. At the end of the day, she was mostly indifferent about what type of church she went to. We felt it was best for our family to all go to the same place.
This post was edited on 3/29/15 at 9:52 pm
Posted by biglego
Ask your mom where I been
Member since Nov 2007
76108 posts
Posted on 3/28/15 at 8:19 pm to
what does your pope say to do? He's god's vicar, after all.
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
63129 posts
Posted on 3/28/15 at 8:20 pm to
If you're truly devout in your Faith, then how do you compromise?

If your religion is just more of your cultural identity than anything else, then knock yourself out.
Posted by TigerGman
Center of the Universe
Member since Sep 2006
11170 posts
Posted on 3/28/15 at 8:22 pm to
Raise kids in both, that way you'll have your bases covered when one of you goes to Hell.
Posted by Bmath
LA
Member since Aug 2010
18664 posts
Posted on 3/28/15 at 8:29 pm to
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something as insignificant as religion




This has nothing to do with believing in God, but just because something isn't important to you doesn't make it insignificant. Religion and faith are extremely important to a lot of people in this world. It has a huge impact on the decisions people make, and numerous countries are ruled under religious law.

Something that wars have been fought over is not "insignificant."
Posted by gaetti15
AK
Member since Apr 2013
13350 posts
Posted on 3/28/15 at 8:30 pm to
dated a southern baptist once...I'm catholic...frick those people are crazy
Posted by BuckeyeFan87
Columbus
Member since Dec 2007
25239 posts
Posted on 3/28/15 at 8:32 pm to
You just have to realize all religions are generally the same thing and be willing to compromise.
Posted by TheWalrus
Member since Dec 2012
40339 posts
Posted on 3/28/15 at 8:35 pm to
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This post was edited on 3/28/15 at 8:57 pm
Posted by goatman1419
Prairieville,LA
Member since Jan 2007
3070 posts
Posted on 3/28/15 at 8:47 pm to
So as you both believing in the Lord almighty. Don't you believe the Lord brought you two together?? I'm pretty sure since in your mind ge did that he'll be ok With it. By the way you'll be whatever domination your wife's parents are so good Luck
Posted by Spankum
Miss-sippi
Member since Jan 2007
55935 posts
Posted on 3/28/15 at 8:51 pm to
most of the time among folks that I know, one ultimately converts to the religion of the other...
Posted by mahdragonz
Member since Jun 2013
6927 posts
Posted on 3/28/15 at 9:10 pm to
Not worth it.

Catholics believe faith is shown through their actions.

Baptists just think they can say anything and they are totally right with g-d.

Also, evangelical baptists have it totally wrong about telling people about their faith. They think people actually want to hear their stories about "finding their personal relationship with jesus ." It's tedious.
Posted by applejacked
USA
Member since Mar 2015
326 posts
Posted on 3/28/15 at 9:11 pm to
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You just have to realize all religions are generally the same thing
You don't understand this topic at all.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128950 posts
Posted on 3/28/15 at 9:11 pm to
My grandparents were almost married 60 years before my paw paw passed away first. He was Baptist, she was Catholic. They were married back when that was a big deal, they even had a hard time finding someone to marry them. Their kids were raised Catholic. However...both held to their separate faiths. Grandmaw went to mass every Sunday and sang in the choir, paw paw went to his lil Baptist church every Sunday....getting to service early to sit in the back and quietly read his Bible and pray. They both loved the Lord with all their hearts...just in different ways. Doesn't matter one was Catholic, one Baptist...they are both in the same place now
Posted by yurintroubl
Dallas, Tx.
Member since Apr 2008
30160 posts
Posted on 3/28/15 at 9:12 pm to
My Dad is Methodist... My Mom is Serbian Orthodox.

They eloped.

I've been baptized by three different grandparents.


ETA:

My Grandmother still celebrates holidays "by the old Calendar"... So Christmas for our family is on the 25th... and January 7th.
This post was edited on 3/28/15 at 9:15 pm
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