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re: Parents of the OT: Do you tell your children how much you make?

Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:14 am to
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
146214 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:14 am to
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Yes, my son knows how much I make. He also knows how much I have in savings and my investments and where they are at. Never know when something might happen to my wife and I.



I think the OP is talking about young kids...not grown up kids
Posted by AngryBeavers
Member since Jun 2012
4554 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:14 am to
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Why is it such a taboo subject?


It starts with companies. They don't want employees discussing salary because it can lead to low moral and tension among employees. That carries over to the home IMO.
Posted by lsuhunt555
Teakwood Village Breh
Member since Nov 2008
38404 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:15 am to
My kid is 18 months, so no.
Posted by anc
Member since Nov 2012
17974 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:15 am to
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So this guy makes 120k a year and is still Bitching about money though



I don't think he was bitching about it. That's roughly what I make. We're able to save a good bit, but I'm not an OT baller. I regularly have to make decisions on financial matters. One thing I have always tried to do is speak out loud about my thought process.

Posted by jrodLSUke
Premium
Member since Jan 2011
22028 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:18 am to
I make certain that my kids know nothing about money; those little shites make a small fortune in birthday and holiday cash. I'm not about to give up that extra revenue.
Posted by bctiger6
NOLA
Member since Jul 2007
1355 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:19 am to
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I don't tell anyone how much I make.


I don't either but I have friends who love to talk about how much they make and try to bring it up in conversation.
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
32316 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:22 am to
I don't have kids, but I will probably tell them how much I make and how much our house note, car note, insurance retirement, etc... are.

I think it's important for kids to understand the value of a dollar and how much things cost. They need to realize what it takes to live in a nice house, go to private school, drive nice cars, etc...

I know some kids (19-21) who don't have the slightest clue what a good salary is or how much it costs to buy a house or a car. Really sad, considering you should be making the decision of what you're going to do with your life around that age.
Posted by Raleigh Tiger
Raleigh, NC
Member since Oct 2003
614 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:24 am to
My son knew from a young age about all that we have. I also got him started investing at a young age. He's 23 now and he's had a firm understanding about money and bills for a long time. He's never asked me for a dime for anything.
Posted by TheBoo
South to Louisiana
Member since Aug 2012
4477 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:42 am to
My parents told me how much they made to make the point that you don't have to make a fortune to be happy and live well. My dad didn't make much, but he supported a family of 4 and we had a little extra to go on vacation most years.

I was blessed to have parents that didn't have to perform the exercise in the OP to make us appreciate money; they instilled that in us from the beginning.

They know how much I make because it makes them happy to know that everything they sacrificed for my opportunities paid off.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
108098 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:48 am to
My parents haven't really been open to me about it until recently, and I don't think they ever told my sister how much they make.
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
32316 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:51 am to
Does your sister know how much houses, cars, etc... cost?

Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
108098 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:53 am to
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Does your sister know how much houses, cars, etc... cost?


Yeah, but I'd say my parents are pretty humble in their spending. They don't buy anything they know they're not going to use extensively, to where I think I know way more about their finances than she does.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
COINTELPRO Fan
Member since May 2012
55522 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:58 am to
I always knew how much my dad made.
Posted by Deep Purple Haze
LA
Member since Jun 2007
51558 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 9:59 am to
no
Posted by Martini
Near Athens
Member since Mar 2005
48829 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 10:03 am to
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For you parent that do tell your children how much money you make.....know that they are also telling other kids at school or in the neighborhood, and those kids are telling their parents.


Sorry your kids are loudmouths. Mine know exactly what we have regarding assets both real estate and stocks, retirement etc... She also knows where the documents are including safe deposit keys and knows all of our assets are in a trust for her. She has been told this from about the age of 7 and if something happened to my wife and myself she will at least know where everything is. We have managers set up to help and she has met with them so she understands this. She gets an allowance, she earns money and she is gifted money by family members. She saves and manages it all with pretty good results.

She is a young teenager.

Posted by illuminatic
Manipulating politicans&rappers
Member since Sep 2012
6962 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 10:06 am to
quote:

Do you tell your children how much you make?


Ha. No. My wife doesn't even know how much I make.
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
33793 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 10:11 am to
quote:

Why is it such a taboo subject?


I make $85k. I'm a DoD employee so it's a matter of public record anyway. Not great for my chosen profession but more than enough for me.

I'm 35 and still don't know how much my parents make. Maybe I'll ask them one day.
Posted by TigerRob20
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2008
3731 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 10:26 am to
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One day, he stopped by his local Wells Fargo branch in Encinitas, Calif., and asked to withdraw his entire monthly salary in cash. In singles. It took 24 hours for the tellers to round up that many bills, so he returned the next day and took away the $100 stacks in a canvas bag.


Subtle brag....
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
32316 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 10:30 am to
I know how much my mom makes, my dad has never told me how much he makes

They both know how much I make.
Posted by ZereauxSum
Lot 23E
Member since Nov 2008
10176 posts
Posted on 1/30/15 at 10:36 am to
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So this guy makes 120k a year and is still Bitching about money though


Huh?

He's trying to explain to his kids how much the stuff he provides for them costs. No idea where you got "bitching" from.

And depending on where he lives, how many kids he has and whether or not his wife works, that $120K might not be making him an OT baller. In fact, I'd bet a months salary that it doesn't.
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