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re: Anonymous letter from daughter to dad about his porn-watching behavior

Posted on 12/16/14 at 8:14 pm to
Posted by Ed Osteen
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Posted on 12/16/14 at 8:14 pm to
Who the hell on Facebook shares this
Posted by CaptainPanic
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Posted on 12/16/14 at 8:17 pm to
What a nosey bitch
Posted by Rhino5
Atlanta
Member since Nov 2014
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Posted on 12/16/14 at 8:20 pm to
Probably some truth to this. Sounds like this wasn't mom and dad behind closed doors watching it, but an emotionally disengaged father. She noticed his wandering eye and hypocrisy.
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 12/16/14 at 8:21 pm to
I believe that is true in a lot of ways. I personally despise porn.
Posted by HoustonGumbeauxGuy
Member since Jul 2011
29430 posts
Posted on 12/16/14 at 8:23 pm to
Anonymous. You sucker.

Sounds like something a Christian fundamentalist would post.
Posted by BigSquirrel
Member since Jul 2013
1880 posts
Posted on 12/16/14 at 8:23 pm to
She seems really self centered. If she wasn't so fricking nosey and uptight, she might have time to stop blaming her dad for everything that's wrong with her.
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
61040 posts
Posted on 12/16/14 at 8:26 pm to
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If she wasn't so fricking nosey and uptight,


How is she being nosey exactly? She didnt ask to see the porn and she was 12 for frick's sake. It clearly had a profound effect on her which caused her to change the way she looked at everything. I dont see how shes sticking her nose where she shouldnt when its her fricking family, and her DIRECT family member.
Posted by TheFolker
Member since Aug 2011
5182 posts
Posted on 12/16/14 at 8:29 pm to
Maybe it was her brother's porn.
Posted by Ed Osteen
Member since Oct 2007
57423 posts
Posted on 12/16/14 at 8:35 pm to
Affected her relationship with her husband years later???

Get the frick over yourself lady
Posted by StringedInstruments
Member since Oct 2013
18293 posts
Posted on 12/16/14 at 8:37 pm to
quote:

One of the first things I asked him about was his struggle with pornography. I’m thankful to God that it is something that hasn’t had a grip on his life.


Posted by mahdragonz
Member since Jun 2013
6928 posts
Posted on 12/16/14 at 8:39 pm to
Translation

Dear dad:

I was in a porn film. I'm trying to guilt you to stop viewing before we have the most awkward Xmas everrrrrrrr!
Posted by Ed Osteen
Member since Oct 2007
57423 posts
Posted on 12/16/14 at 8:40 pm to
What person would write this, allow anyone else to see it aside from her father, then allow it be annonymosly shared on the Internet? The letter screams self righteous
Posted by Cmlsu5618
Destin, FL
Member since Sep 2010
3763 posts
Posted on 12/16/14 at 8:43 pm to
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
61040 posts
Posted on 12/16/14 at 8:45 pm to
quote:

What person would write this, allow anyone else to see it aside from her father, then allow it be annonymosly shared on the Internet? The letter screams self righteous


Maybe she meant for other people to identify with it? And maybe this is being put out there AFTER she's already had her father read it, and they've dealt with it.
Posted by Spankum
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Member since Jan 2007
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Posted on 12/16/14 at 8:45 pm to
quote:

What are your thoughts?


honestly, in this day of taking no responsibility for yourself or your own actions, it does not suprise me to see someone blame all of her own faults on her father...pretty typical nowdays, really...
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
62688 posts
Posted on 12/16/14 at 8:47 pm to
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As far as modesty goes, you tried to talk with me about how my dress affects those around me and how I should value myself for what I am on the inside. Your actions however told me that I would only ever truly be beautiful and accepted if I looked like the women on magazine covers or in porn. Your talks with me meant nothing and in fact, just made me angry.


If she really thought about how those women are viewed, she would have seen that dad, in his vast experience, was spot on. Unless he married a porn star.

quote:

I also learned to trust you less and less as what you told me didn’t line up with what you did.


Noted every kid ever that grew to an adult while maintaining a relationship with his/her parents.
Posted by JoeMoTiger
KC Area
Member since Nov 2013
2677 posts
Posted on 12/16/14 at 8:48 pm to
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I believe that is true in a lot of ways. I personally despise porn.


Every second you spend watching porn is time you've stolen from your family, time you could have or should have been spending on self improvement, doing daily chores or helping others.

How many hours, days, months, years have people wasted watching porn just for that momentary dopamine high?

For some porn is as addictive as any drug.
Posted by Ed Osteen
Member since Oct 2007
57423 posts
Posted on 12/16/14 at 8:56 pm to
She is incapable of understanding the difference between an older male watching porn and a father teaching his daughter how to behave, dress, and carry herself in public. She even questions if her father was having fantasies about her friends when she was younger because she found out he watches porn...
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
118790 posts
Posted on 12/16/14 at 8:59 pm to
quote:

I believe that is true in a lot of ways


This absolutely can be a very real story.
Posted by Rhino5
Atlanta
Member since Nov 2014
28896 posts
Posted on 12/16/14 at 9:01 pm to
quote:

She is incapable of understanding the difference between an older male watching porn and a father teaching his daughter how to behave, dress, and carry herself in public. She even questions if her father was having fantasies about her friends when she was younger because she found out he watches porn...


Sounds like the dad was a major hypocrite. I'm sure during her upbringing the dad called some girls bad, trashy, nasty... yet he's been getting his rocks off to them via pornography. Yeah the truth hurts sometimes, but I think she's calling out his hypocrisy mainly.
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