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re: So my SO left me last night
Posted on 10/31/14 at 11:44 pm to LSU Tiger09
Posted on 10/31/14 at 11:44 pm to LSU Tiger09
Anybody who really loves you is not going to sit back and watch you destroy yourself. They will try to help you, and when that fails they're gonna walk.
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Posted on 10/31/14 at 11:44 pm to Slinky
I drink for free when I go out... Bartended for 9 years at my local watering hole.
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Oh and I don't drink at home, NEVER
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Oh and I don't drink at home, NEVER
Posted on 10/31/14 at 11:45 pm to LSU Tiger09
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It affected part of my life... I see it as take me for I am. If you don't like it bye.
Well at 28 you unfortunately only have 2 options :
1. Recognize that you have a problem. It's time to take control of your life and grow up. No self respecting woman worth a shite will settle down an devote her life to an alcoholic.
Or
2. Go marry another alcoholic or a drug addict. Because hey take them as they are. And you can raise a smack head kid and fill him with all your excuses and issues.
That's the hard truth man. And I pray that you choose the first option. Tiger Droppings can be a rough stupid place but sometimes there's good advice here. Take it. Seek help. There's no shame in it. Especially coming from an addiction prone background.
I wish you the best of luck.
Posted on 10/31/14 at 11:46 pm to LSU Tiger09
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So narrow minded... I know I'm an alcoholic and have told her that multiple times. I'm just not going the rest of my life saying "oh I can't drink". If that leads to a single life I'm fine with that.
It's your life, live it as you damn well please. Applaud the no driving while drinking.
Posted on 10/31/14 at 11:46 pm to LSU Tiger09
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Pretty sure I know when I black out
Then you don't black out.
Posted on 10/31/14 at 11:46 pm to SlowFlowPro
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like marylin monroe said, "if you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best"
Terrible excuse to act like a bitch. FHRITP
Posted on 10/31/14 at 11:46 pm to LSU Tiger09
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I see it as take me for I am. If you don't like it bye.
This is the biggest piece of bullshite yet.
You don't want advice, or someone to listen to you. You want validation for this thing you don't consider a problem.
You are too far gone for help.
Posted on 10/31/14 at 11:46 pm to iluvlsusports
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Anybody who really loves you is not going to sit back and watch you destroy yourself. They will try to help you, and when that fails they're gonna walk.
Stop making sense
Posted on 10/31/14 at 11:46 pm to NATidefan
NATidefan about summed it up
Posted on 10/31/14 at 11:46 pm to LSU Tiger09
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I'm just not going the rest of my life saying "oh I can't drink"
It's not saying "oh I can't drink", it's getting to the point where you tell yourself "I could drink, but I don't want to". Personally I love beer, at my most I was downing about 12 a night. Haven't had one in almost a year. Still like it, and could have one whenever I want, just choose not to.
Just saying I can't makes the mind crave it more. Have to play a trick on yourself. One day though, if you keep up this pace. It will be "I can't" because if you do, you'll die.
Posted on 10/31/14 at 11:46 pm to LSU Tiger09
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Bartended for 9 years at my local watering hole
And there's the source of the problem.
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I drink for free when I go ou
Not helping your issues.
Posted on 10/31/14 at 11:47 pm to Breesus
I have admitted I'm an alchy... I don't run for that. I just want to do my thing. I'm a responsible drunk 
Posted on 10/31/14 at 11:47 pm to LSU Tiger09
frick it, ball til you fall. It is better to burn out than fade away.
Posted on 10/31/14 at 11:48 pm to LSU Tiger09
your SO needs to stay far away from you.
get your life together
get your life together
Posted on 10/31/14 at 11:49 pm to LSU Tiger09
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I'm not really an emotional person. I mean I miss her but I'm not losing any sleep over this.
Yeah I call bullshite
Posted on 10/31/14 at 11:49 pm to LSU Tiger09
I think you should really escalate your drinking to the next level now that your SO is gone.
That way you can hit rock bottom sooner and maybe get help.
That way you can hit rock bottom sooner and maybe get help.
Posted on 10/31/14 at 11:49 pm to LSU Tiger09
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I was raised by an alcoholic mom that has a family history of alcoholics.
So you realize you're next in line, right?
Posted on 10/31/14 at 11:50 pm to LSU Tiger09
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So narrow minded...
No I'm not. I've watched addiction destroy 2 lives in my personal family.
I can tell you with 100% certainty my uncle thought the same way as you. Thankfully he is finally clean now, but he's old and full of regret.
Good luck to you man. I sincerely hope you seek help.
This post was edited on 10/31/14 at 11:50 pm
Posted on 10/31/14 at 11:50 pm to LSU Tiger09
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I drink for free when I go out... Bartended for 9 years at my local watering hole.
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Oh and I don't drink at home, NEVER
this was so me... I bet you tip 20-30 bucks though every night.
Posted on 10/31/14 at 11:51 pm to LSU Tiger09
You da man. Don't let the haters get you down.
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