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re: Is it ok for your girlfriend to go to an Ex's family member funeral?
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:53 am to LSUBoo
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:53 am to LSUBoo
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No, not really. Especially since you said they were family friends.
Changing her mind and forcing you and your family to change your plans is bullshite though.
This
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Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:53 am to ctiger69
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The ex's mom showed up at her work yesterday
I just re-read and picked up on this gem....
W T F? So the ex's mom, who's mother just dies, takes the time out of her day to go to your gf's workplace and pressure her into attending?
Look c, I'm not being an OT a-hole here but your relationship is in real trouble....think for just a second.
1.ex is constantly contacting her (she shows you emails but he is doing more than emailing her! You really think he's not texting/going by as well?)
2.ex's mom goes by her work to add to her guilt? The mom, who is supposed to be devastated goes see your gf? YOU HAVE TO EXPLAIN THIS TO US! Why wouldn't she be 90 minutes away making arrangements/being at in-laws side?
3. She feels more indebted to the ex's family needs than your family's needs?
I have no clue if you are trolling, but if not you should prepare yourself for what's next....your breakup.
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I don't understand why?
At this point, yes.....yes you do
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:54 am to supadave3
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That is not what you told her. You're just trying to cover your arse and not look like the insecure vagina that you really are.
Dude, this is what I told her. "Go if you want to". Was thinking it over and trying to decide if I should be upset or not. I usually say the wrong shite. Not good with words. Listening to thoughts on here first.
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:55 am to ctiger69
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She has his number blocked on her phone. Pays 11 dollars a month for this feature.
She's got that number blocked because she doesn't want to get an ill-timed call from him when you're around. They have other means of communicating though.
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She told me when he contacted her by email and said she did not respond.
And you believe her?
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:55 am to Displaced
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i wouldn't be worried about this with those numbers. were they married or just long term dating?
Just dating
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:56 am to Boudreaux35
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She told me when he contacted her by email and said she did not respond.
She is a woman.
That's like a crackhead saying someone offered them free crack and they turned it down.
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:56 am to DirtyMikeandtheBoys
quote:i wish i would have never joned this site. Way more truth than even i can handle.
She is going for the ex. Death is nature's aphrodisiac
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:57 am to ctiger69
meh, i'd be ok with it. you can get pretty close with family members of an ex, especially after 8 years.
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:57 am to ctiger69
Why don't you go with her and rain on both of their parades? Then punch the dude in the throat and tell him to quit e-mailing your girl...then bang his dead grandma just to add insult to injury.
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:58 am to DirtyMikeandtheBoys
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Ex is banging your gf, guaranteed
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:59 am to GeeOH
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ex's mom goes by her work to add to her guilt? The mom, who is supposed to be devastated goes see your gf? YOU HAVE TO EXPLAIN THIS TO US! Why wouldn't she be 90 minutes away making arrangements/being at in-laws side?
Where my girlfriend works as is the same place as the funeral. The ex's mom claims she was just in the area and decided to stop by. My gf said she had a good relationship with her in the past.
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:59 am to GeeOH
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So the ex's mom, who's mother just dies
where does it say maternal grandmother?
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:59 am to DirtyMikeandtheBoys
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ETA: saw answers. Will you attend their wedding?
This. One year from now OP will post:
"Am I wrong to want to attend my ex's wedding? GF is mad."
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:59 am to Krokodil
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Why don't you go with her and rain on both of their parades? Then punch the dude in the throat and tell him to quit e-mailing your girl...then bang his dead grandma just to add insult to injury.
Best case scenario
Posted on 10/24/14 at 11:59 am to ctiger69
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Her ex's family are friends to her family.
We're they family friends before they started seeing each other? If so, then she should go. If not, then she and her family need to stop being so close to each other. You are the man in her life now. It's disrespectful to you to continue that relationship unless her parents and the ex's parents were friends before they got together.
Posted on 10/24/14 at 12:00 pm to Boudreaux35
can't imagine going through life being so insecure....
Posted on 10/24/14 at 12:01 pm to ctiger69
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She has his number blocked on her phone. Pays 11 dollars a month for this feature.
WTF? again!!
Does she have a rotary dial phone or something? Dude, call blocking is a standard feature now on phones, at least it is with my Android.
And they have been apart for 3 yrs and the mom just pops into her work?
Seriously, are you retarded or "slow" in some way?
BTW, she will call, start a fight, and not accompany you on your trip.
If and when you hear the word "confused"...hang up and never speak to her again.
Posted on 10/24/14 at 12:01 pm to lsuwontonwrap
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This is what's going to happen:
She goes to the funeral
Sees a sad ex
Comforts him
He suggests they get a bite to eat.
They talk and start to reminisce.
She goes home and thinks about the convo for a few days.
You fricked.
During that conversation he goes on some spiel about how life is too short and this has changed him. He's now willing to grow up and leave all of that immaturity behind. She's starts to believe him.
I don't know if the chick will buy it but I have no doubt the guy will try to pitch some version of what I just described.
From what I've been able to surmise, this guy is at the very least a backup guy for her. Stay alert.
This post was edited on 10/24/14 at 12:05 pm
Posted on 10/24/14 at 12:02 pm to GeeOH
you guys are hilarious
Posted on 10/24/14 at 12:02 pm to ctiger69
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