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Posted on 10/21/14 at 10:52 am to cwain8845
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It is beetween 3 of us that are really good friends throughout grade school and college and after college still.
Go to the party, IMO. I life long friend>football.
Posted on 10/21/14 at 11:02 am to HoustonChick86
Life long friends understand each other. Was in a wedding for one myself. Engagement party was planned early. Saints end up playing Lions in a playoff game at the Superdome the day of. I call him to let him know I've got tickets and will be missing the party. Before I can tell him he says "Actually I was going to call you. If you have playoff tickets then please by all means go to the game. I would never expect anyone to miss a big game for a ridiculous engagement party that's mainly to appease family anyway." That's a friend. Also he wasn't announcing his best man at the party because he isn't a gay
Posted on 10/21/14 at 11:09 am to the_watcher
I'm in kind of a similar situation but not quite the same. My GF's family is have fricking family reunion this coming saturday. My GF completely expects me to go and I've chalked it up to one of those things that I just have to do. Well, now we are having serious fricking problems if I had to bet on it, we'll probably be breaking up in the next month or so. Trying to work through it but it ain't looking so hot. Anyway, do I just expediate the probable result and screw the reunion to go to the game? I'm going to be pissed if I miss the game and we break up next f'n week. I'm not trying to be cool because I really don't want to break up with her and will be upset about but I'm really starting to think the writing is on the wall.
Decisions, decisions, decisions....
Decisions, decisions, decisions....
Posted on 10/21/14 at 11:10 am to supadave3
WWWD
What Would Waymer Do?
What Would Waymer Do?
Posted on 10/21/14 at 11:13 am to cwain8845
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the groom is trying to get it moved now that I talked to him.
When did you talk to him?
Posted on 10/21/14 at 11:13 am to supadave3
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My GF's family is have fricking family reunion this coming saturday. My GF completely expects me to go and I've chalked it up to one of those things that I just have to do. Well, now we are having serious fricking problems if I had to bet on it, we'll probably be breaking up in the next month or so. Trying to work through it but it ain't looking so hot. Anyway, do I just expediate the probable result and screw the reunion to go to the game? I'm going to be pissed if I miss the game and we break up next f'n week. I'm not trying to be cool because I really don't want to break up with her and will be upset about but I'm really starting to think the writing is on the wall.
very tough.
the bolded part stuck out to me though. Sounds like you don't really want to...is it not somethign you can work through? would going to the reunion help make thigns better?
Posted on 10/21/14 at 11:13 am to the_watcher
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Life long friends understand each other.
And that is something that just needs to be based on each friendship and person. I'm sure plenty of people wouldn't care if you were there one way or another.
I'm just saying I would go to the party, because I value friendship over football. But being a female that isn't totally shocking.
Posted on 10/21/14 at 11:15 am to supadave3
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I'm in kind of a similar situation but not quite the same. My GF's family is have fricking family reunion this coming saturday. My GF completely expects me to go and I've chalked it up to one of those things that I just have to do. Well, now we are having serious fricking problems if I had to bet on it, we'll probably be breaking up in the next month or so. Trying to work through it but it ain't looking so hot. Anyway, do I just expediate the probable result and screw the reunion to go to the game? I'm going to be pissed if I miss the game and we break up next f'n week. I'm not trying to be cool because I really don't want to break up with her and will be upset about but I'm really starting to think the writing is on the wall. Decisions, decisions, decisions....
You are just a bf, not a husband...so why are you expected to go again?
Posted on 10/21/14 at 11:17 am to Salmon
I agree, OP should go to the party.
I also agree that the friend sucks for scheduling a party and doing this pansy announcement stuff on the date of the Bama game.
I also agree that the friend sucks for scheduling a party and doing this pansy announcement stuff on the date of the Bama game.
Posted on 10/21/14 at 11:18 am to lsunurse
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You are just a bf, not a husband...so why are you expected to go again?
Yessir. You are noway near obligated to attend a family reunion that is not your family. End of Story.
Posted on 10/21/14 at 11:20 am to Boudreaux35
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When did you talk to him?
I talked to him last night about just giving him shite in a friendly manner. I mean I am going regardless but it would be tits if it got moved and i was the savior for most people attending since half the crowd is LSU fans.
Posted on 10/21/14 at 11:20 am to cwain8845
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Problem is he is announcing his best man at the party
Is this like that "save the date" crap because that bullshite is stupid.
Posted on 10/21/14 at 11:21 am to cwain8845
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When did you talk to him? I talked to him last night about just giving him shite in a friendly manner
Maybe he reads the OT. :)
Posted on 10/21/14 at 11:21 am to CaptainsWafer
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doing this pansy announcement stuff on the date of the Bama game.
I think we can all agree this "announcing the best man" at the party is ridiculous.
Posted on 10/21/14 at 11:22 am to VABuckeye
not a save the date. He just hasnt decided for the past 3 months now or has and hasnt told anyone so he prolly told himself to just tell the best man @ the party since he has waited this long already.
Posted on 10/21/14 at 11:23 am to cwain8845
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I think we can all agree this "announcing the best man" at the party is ridiculous.
Ha. I've told myself that since he hasnt said anything since the engagement 3 months ago.
Posted on 10/21/14 at 11:23 am to cwain8845
If he was your best friend he wouldn't have scheduled his wedding party on Bama/LSU day, knowing how important that is to you.
This post was edited on 10/21/14 at 11:25 am
Posted on 10/21/14 at 11:24 am to cwain8845
If it was his wedding day I would say miss the game but this is just an engagement party. Go the the game & the wedding. Screw his lame-arse best-man-to-be announcement party.
Posted on 10/21/14 at 11:25 am to Goldrush25
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If he was your best friend he wouldn't have scheduled his wedding on Bama/LSU day, knowing how important that is to you.
He had nothing to do with the scheduling of it. He doesn't even want to go honestly. It was his brothers g/f and his sister and fiances sister who planned it.
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