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Just found out the SO lost the child after six weeks pregnant
Posted on 10/3/14 at 4:45 pm
Posted on 10/3/14 at 4:45 pm
This would been my first child. Literally found this out less than an hour ago. I know maybe coming to the OT isn't the best of moves being I've been here and have observed for 8 years, but I'm in kind of in a state of shock. Just wondering if any others have had any similar situations and does anything really help?
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Posted on 10/3/14 at 4:45 pm to SEClint
I'm so sorry...I know how that feels.
You really need to be there for her, in the way she needs.
I wasn't...I shut down and grieved in silence. I wasn't there for her the way she needed me to be and it caused a downward spiral in our relationship.
It's something I'll always regret.
This morbid comic almost sums up what happened perfectly.
You really need to be there for her, in the way she needs.
I wasn't...I shut down and grieved in silence. I wasn't there for her the way she needed me to be and it caused a downward spiral in our relationship.
It's something I'll always regret.
This morbid comic almost sums up what happened perfectly.
This post was edited on 10/3/14 at 4:50 pm
Posted on 10/3/14 at 4:46 pm to SEClint
So sorry, Clint. Prayers to you and your wife.
Posted on 10/3/14 at 4:46 pm to SEClint
Sorry to hear this man. But seriously, go call a good friend or family member and talk to them. This isn't where you should bring your grief.
Posted on 10/3/14 at 4:47 pm to SEClint
shite man. Sorry for your loss.
Posted on 10/3/14 at 4:48 pm to SEClint
Happened to my sister. It'll get better brother.
Posted on 10/3/14 at 4:48 pm to SEClint
Been there. It gets better with time. We now have 3 beautiful kids.
Just be there for her. Deal with your feeling later.
Just be there for her. Deal with your feeling later.
Posted on 10/3/14 at 4:48 pm to SEClint
Not that UNcommon anytime before 8 weeks. Sorry to hear it. Keep trying!
Posted on 10/3/14 at 4:49 pm to SEClint
I'm sorry buddy. I cannot imagine that feeling.
Posted on 10/3/14 at 4:50 pm to SEClint
I feel bad.
You'll make it. Keep trying.
You'll make it. Keep trying.
Posted on 10/3/14 at 4:50 pm to SEClint
Did you know that she was pregnant?
Posted on 10/3/14 at 4:50 pm to SEClint
Dude, I'm so sorry.
Posted on 10/3/14 at 4:51 pm to SEClint
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SEClint
WOW... That's just real sad... Sorry for your loss........
Posted on 10/3/14 at 4:51 pm to SEClint
Wife lost one about the same time with first husband. Then couple years ago lost our first attempt at about 13 weeks. I had gone to every doctor appointment with her except that one...felt like crap for not being there for her. It may sound kind of crazy to say but things happen for a reason.
If we hadn't gone through that, we wouldn't have the great little daughter we have today that is almost two and makes us laugh every day!
You'll both get through this, just be there for her, and talk about it.
If we hadn't gone through that, we wouldn't have the great little daughter we have today that is almost two and makes us laugh every day!
You'll both get through this, just be there for her, and talk about it.
Posted on 10/3/14 at 4:53 pm to SEClint
Been right where you are. We lost what would have been our first born at almost 18 weeks in. Still not over it, and not sure if I ever will be. Terrible.
You should make her your first priority, but don't forget about yourself too.
You should make her your first priority, but don't forget about yourself too.
Posted on 10/3/14 at 4:54 pm to SEClint
Happened to us too. Get back on that horse. We made my khloe that first next month, no looking back
This post was edited on 10/3/14 at 4:56 pm
Posted on 10/3/14 at 4:55 pm to SEClint
Be there for her and help her know that it wasn't her fault. Lots of women feel like they did something to cause it, but it's pretty much always naturally occurring. It also happens more often than you think - some women never even know they're pregnant and just think it's a late heavy period or something.
Posted on 10/3/14 at 4:56 pm to Rohan2Reed
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Sorry to hear this man
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This isn't where you should bring your grief
Posted on 10/3/14 at 4:56 pm to SEClint
Time heals the wound. Sorry for the loss. 
Posted on 10/3/14 at 4:56 pm to Rohan2Reed
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Sorry to hear this man. But seriously, go call a good friend or family member and talk to them. This isn't where you should bring your grief.
Sorry for your loss. Go be with your wife, man.
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