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iOS 8 - Leave Group Text Feature Rant

Posted on 9/25/14 at 12:16 pm
Posted by Captain Fantasy
Member since Mar 2013
1595 posts
Posted on 9/25/14 at 12:16 pm
I have been stuck in a 14 person group text for the past two years with buddies from my highschool. What started as a joke slowly became a nightmare.

I rarely contribute to the text, as I live in a different state and hardly see these guys anymore. They love to get riled up over politics and sports, and will constantly text back and forth throughout the day when anything news worthy happens.

It's a huge issue, as my phone is constantly losing battery life due to receiving 200+ texts within an hour. If you ask them to stop, it makes them text even more. Hilarious right?

I've thought about changing my number, but these guys are my friends, so they will get my new number at some point. In which, I will once again be added to the group text.

Lo and behold iOS 8. They announce that you will finally be able to leave group texts! My problems will finally be solved! I was counting down the days for this release.

Immediately after downloading iOS 8, I click on "Leave group text" with a giant grin on my face. It's over! Peace at last!!

Wrong. Shortly after leaving, I receive 10 texts within the minute. What the hell is going on?

Frantically, I continue to delete these frequent messages with haste while trying again and again to leave. Not working. I try muting it. Nothing is working. Panic ensues.

I find out today that this feature only works if everyone in the group text has an iPhone, and if they are all using iMessage.

I'm locked in for life. frick you apple. frick you Steve Jobs.

/rantoff
Posted by ell_13
Member since Apr 2013
84943 posts
Posted on 9/25/14 at 12:18 pm to
Block the numbers if you rarely talk to them anyway
Posted by Captain Fantasy
Member since Mar 2013
1595 posts
Posted on 9/25/14 at 12:20 pm to
I talk to most of them individually. Like I said, they are my friends so I do see them when I visit back home. Hence why I haven't changed my number.
Posted by Uncle JackD
Member since Nov 2007
58627 posts
Posted on 9/25/14 at 12:21 pm to


Textra brah
Posted by AstroTiger
New Orleans Saints Fan
Member since Oct 2007
22966 posts
Posted on 9/25/14 at 12:21 pm to
I too was disappointed with that, but the mute feature has been clutch.
Posted by Korkstand
Member since Nov 2003
28703 posts
Posted on 9/25/14 at 12:23 pm to
quote:

I find out today that this feature only works if everyone in the group text has an iPhone, and if they are all using iMessage.
Uh yeah, you can't stop people from sending you messages without blocking their numbers.

Your only options are to either ask them to make a new 13-person group and leave you out (if they don't, you have a-hole friends), or mute notifications on the group text (not sure if this is possible on iOS, may have to switch to Android).
Posted by Captain Fantasy
Member since Mar 2013
1595 posts
Posted on 9/25/14 at 12:24 pm to
Mute doesn't work for me. I have the crescent moon icon next to the group text, but apparently that is just for looks. Enjoy the peace! Not all of us are so fortunate.
Posted by Captain Fantasy
Member since Mar 2013
1595 posts
Posted on 9/25/14 at 12:27 pm to
quote:

Your only options are to either ask them to make a new 13-person group and leave you out (if they don't, you have a-hole friends)
Trust me. There is another person in this group text and we have begged and pleaded. It actually worked for two months!

Until a horrific night, when one of the members was inebriated at the bar and decided to bring it back. This was about a year and a half ago.
Posted by ell_13
Member since Apr 2013
84943 posts
Posted on 9/25/14 at 12:27 pm to
quote:

I too was disappointed with that, but the mute feature has been clutch.
:|
Posted by ell_13
Member since Apr 2013
84943 posts
Posted on 9/25/14 at 12:29 pm to
quote:

mute notifications on the group text (not sure if this is possible on iOS

It's possible. He's saying his isn't working
Posted by ILikeLSUToo
Central, LA
Member since Jan 2008
18018 posts
Posted on 9/25/14 at 12:32 pm to
A work-around would be to go into your address book and set the text tone and vibration to "None" for every member of the group. You'll still see the alerts on your phone but it will no longer vibrate or play a sound every time you get a message from them.

My go-to excuse for opting out of group SMS texts is to remind my friends/family that I'm on an old school plan with a 200-text allowance before I get charged by the message.
Posted by Phate
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2006
11723 posts
Posted on 9/25/14 at 12:36 pm to
To leave a conversation everyone has to be using iOS8 and have iMessage turned on.
Posted by Captain Fantasy
Member since Mar 2013
1595 posts
Posted on 9/25/14 at 12:38 pm to
quote:

A work-around would be to go into your address book and set the text tone and vibration to "None" for every member of the group. You'll still see the alerts on your phone but it will no longer vibrate or play a sound every time you get a message from them.

I have never considered this!! Thank you good sir
Posted by Phate
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2006
11723 posts
Posted on 9/25/14 at 12:44 pm to
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This post was edited on 9/25/14 at 12:45 pm
Posted by busbeepbeep
When will then be now?
Member since Jan 2004
18302 posts
Posted on 9/25/14 at 12:49 pm to
Tell your friends to start using Groupme (cross platform app with mute capabilities) or to kindly get lost.
Posted by Captain Fantasy
Member since Mar 2013
1595 posts
Posted on 9/25/14 at 12:56 pm to
Even though it wont save my battery, it will atleast give me peace.

Obviously I have tried silencing my phone in the past. However, when I get texts that I actually do need to reply to I end up forgetting about them until it's too late.
Posted by Captain Fantasy
Member since Mar 2013
1595 posts
Posted on 9/25/14 at 12:57 pm to
This has been communicated and thoroughly explained to the group. No chance.
Posted by busbeepbeep
When will then be now?
Member since Jan 2004
18302 posts
Posted on 9/25/14 at 1:09 pm to
Then I wouldn't be friends with them. They sound pretty inconsiderate and oblivious. You should change number and create a google voice number and give that to them.
Posted by AstroTiger
New Orleans Saints Fan
Member since Oct 2007
22966 posts
Posted on 9/25/14 at 1:10 pm to
quote:

:|




glad you caught it
Posted by Captain Fantasy
Member since Mar 2013
1595 posts
Posted on 9/25/14 at 1:14 pm to
It's mainly 6 guys that love to stir the pot. Everyone else will chime in from time to time. But their view is that if one person is suffering, everyone must suffer.

I announced in this group text that there is no escape, and in turn it somehow spun a religious debate. This is why I never contribute.
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