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O-T, I Need Some Advice.

Posted on 9/23/14 at 2:22 am
Posted by TigerFanInSouthland
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2012
28065 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 2:22 am
I broke it off with my girl of three years in January. Kinda went off and on after that for a couple of months. She meets a new guy and I start picking up my game as well. Now she's dating this guy and I'm still single and having a blast with life right now. Anyway, about a month and a half ago she texts me and we talk a little and she asks to come over. We frick. And this has continued about 2-3 times a week since. While she has a new boyfriend. I have no more feelings for her but I'm beginning to think she is still not over me.

Good idea or bad idea to keep on with the sex?

Edit: she's always saying that the new boyfriend is always talking shite about me. I don't even know the guy nor care about him. So I don't feel bad in the least about it.
This post was edited on 9/23/14 at 2:30 am
Posted by skinny domino
sebr
Member since Feb 2007
14329 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 2:27 am to
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Good idea or bad idea to keep on with the sex?
She is probably going to try to set up a three way.
Posted by SwaggerCopter
H TINE HOL IT DINE
Member since Dec 2012
27227 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 2:29 am to
The only was I see this ending is with you having a bloody mouth.
Posted by fishfighter
RIP
Member since Apr 2008
40026 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 2:32 am to
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Good idea or bad idea to keep on with the sex?


Kind of a bad idea if you are looking for a real GF. Having sex with the ex/slut knowing she is a cheating bitch will never work out. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
Posted by TigerFanInSouthland
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2012
28065 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 2:32 am to
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The only was I see this ending is with you having a bloody mouth.


Or him..
Posted by TigerFanInSouthland
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2012
28065 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 2:34 am to
quote:

Kind of a bad idea if you are looking for a real GF. Having sex with the ex/slut knowing she is a cheating bitch will never work out. Once a cheater, always a cheater.


Yeah but the thing is, I'm not gonna get back with her. Having way too much fun right now. Don't wanna get slowed down again.
Posted by JBearden
Birmingham
Member since Jul 2011
2657 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 2:39 am to
Wear a rubber ....she may be on some keepa****babyshit
Posted by ReauxlTide222
St. Petersburg
Member since Nov 2010
83388 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 2:47 am to
Don't mean to be insensitive, but welcome to literally 95% of our lives. This past year I went through the exact, EXACT, same thing.

First off, it's natural for her to feel like she does. But that doesn't matter.

1. Easy sex with someone you're comfortable with is a great thing.
2. Always feels good to be missed or whatever.
3. Someone smarter than me has figured out that after time our brains subconsciously block bad things that we experience in life and tend to keep good memories at the forefront.

In my case, keeping my ex around was destroying my new relationship, so it was a pretty bad setup.

You'll get a shite ton of "sex with the ex is a horrible idea!" comments in here but if you stay on top of how you feel for her then frick it, keep having sex with her if you're enjoying it.

Just be conscious of how you feel towards her. There's a good chance that her not being over you is just a product of some things that might not translate into a healthy relationship if y'all get together again.

If you know what you want, you can't lose.
Posted by Big Moe
Chicago
Member since Feb 2013
3989 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 3:04 am to
An LP True Hollywood Story
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 3:33 am to
This is gonna end well. Are you sure she even really has a bf and she isn't just banging the other dude, too? Sounds like she is sexing you to get you interested again and talking shite about the dude saying something about you to see if you get pissed.
Posted by TigerinKorea
Member since Aug 2014
8283 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 3:43 am to
If you can keep doing it without the boyfriend finding out, more power to you. She will move on once she realizes there is no future between the two of you.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128950 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 4:40 am to
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Are you sure she even really has a bf and she isn't just banging the other dude, too? Sounds like she is sexing you to get you interested again and talking shite about the dude saying something about you to see if you get pissed.



Totally something a chick would do if she wanted to get back with a guy. She just told him she has a bf so it seems "safer" to have sex with her.
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 4:54 am to
She obviously still has feelings for you and won't be able to move on until you provide her some closure. It may be tough right now, but the only thing you can really do is get her pregnant. Some times you just have to roll the dice, put a baby in her belly and let the chips fall where they may. These things usually work themselves out, after you get her pregnant.
Posted by JAG
Trinidad & Tobago
Member since Jun 2012
239 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 6:30 am to
This seems like a great opportunity to perform the:
Houdini or The David Copperfield.

Good luck !!
Posted by 4LSU2
Member since Dec 2009
37316 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 6:46 am to
How does his dick taste?
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124195 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 6:51 am to
I'd keep on having sex with her

Id also start trying to see what I can get away while having sex with her. Like anal and start trying to degrade her in some way while fricking her. If she says no id do it anyway
Posted by Voorhies7
Rounding 3rd
Member since Oct 2012
5591 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 7:03 am to
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I'd keep on having sex with her Id also start trying to see what I can get away while having sex with her. Like anal and start trying to degrade her in some way while fricking her. If she says no id do it anyway


650 in the am & Walts talking about taking the booty.
Posted by SouthOfSouth
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2008
43456 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 7:05 am to
That's a terrible idea. tPOS type stuff right there.
Posted by hardhead
stinky bayou
Member since Jun 2009
5745 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 7:05 am to
congrats on the secks
Posted by weptiger
Georgia
Member since Feb 2007
10313 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 8:05 am to
You broke it off with her, she has a new boy friend, but you've mutually agreed to sex 2-3 times per week? This won't end well for you as it appears you are heading down the road to having a clingy ex-girlfriend with benefits.
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