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Found out my ex cheated
Posted on 9/22/14 at 11:44 pm
Posted on 9/22/14 at 11:44 pm
I dated a girl from age 22 to 27. One of her friends just told me that she cheated on me with some guy in the last year of our relationship. I haven't longed for this girl in years but for some reason this is really fricking bothering me. This girl was an absolute knockout, but I have no doubt we were not a good match as far as marriage. I'm 32 now and have an awesome girlfriend that I truly adore. Is it reasonable for me to be this hurt 5 years later?
Posted on 9/22/14 at 11:45 pm to lsufan27
You're human. Just don't dwell on it.
Posted on 9/22/14 at 11:46 pm to lsufan27
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This girl was an absolute knockout
Then you shouldn't be shocked.
Posted on 9/22/14 at 11:46 pm to lsufan27
She's already your ex. Now you just have a better reason why.
Posted on 9/22/14 at 11:47 pm to lsufan27
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I'm 32 now and have an awesome girlfriend that I truly adore
so be happy with what you have.
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Is it reasonable for me to be this hurt 5 years later?
its reasonable to be hurt, definitely. but it sounds like youre in a better place so, in the big picture going forward, does it really matter what the ex did?
Posted on 9/22/14 at 11:47 pm to lsufan27
Post her pics to get even
Posted on 9/22/14 at 11:47 pm to lsufan27
The only reasonable way to cope through this frustration and pain is by posting a bunch of her pics.
It's science.
It's science.
Posted on 9/22/14 at 11:47 pm to lsufan27
Playas gone play, ballers gonna ball, you get the picture.
But youre beyond that now and probably have a better life going than her. frick her.
But youre beyond that now and probably have a better life going than her. frick her.
Posted on 9/22/14 at 11:48 pm to FT
I realize what a bitch I sound like but frick that stung
Posted on 9/22/14 at 11:49 pm to lsufan27
Yea that sucks man. Pretty sure something similar happened to me but I haven't asked around about it or tried to seek out the truth. I just ignore it because I don't want to think about that shite. Things were fricked up at the end and people are people.
And anyways, I'm with a girl now who is hotter and less crazy and we are engaged now, so I'm winning with an upgrade.
And anyways, I'm with a girl now who is hotter and less crazy and we are engaged now, so I'm winning with an upgrade.
This post was edited on 9/22/14 at 11:50 pm
Posted on 9/22/14 at 11:49 pm to lsufan27
Was it a one time thing or was she dating he other dude?
Posted on 9/22/14 at 11:51 pm to lsufan27
Nahh I'd say its a normal response, the emotions you broke up with her for should be long gone but finding something like that out after the fact would be crushing for most people, no matter how much time has passed. Like they saying don't dwell, she's gone and you've got another. It'll come back around if it didn't already
Posted on 9/22/14 at 11:51 pm to lsufan27
Just be glad you didn't contract an STD.
Posted on 9/22/14 at 11:53 pm to lsufan27
The only way to make yourself feel better is to lie and tell her friend that you were cheating on her too. The word will get back to her and she will feel your feels.
This post was edited on 9/22/14 at 11:55 pm
Posted on 9/22/14 at 11:56 pm to Box Geauxrilla
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The only way to make yourself feel better is to lie and tell her friend that you were cheating on her too. The word will get back to her and she will feel your feels
Nah, she will eventually feel justified. Just say you don't care because you never truly loved her. Then tell her you hope she matures as a person so she can find true happiness.
Game. Set. Match.
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