Got a shitty phone cal and im tired

Over the past few weeks I've shared that an ex. was dying of cancer. I went a visited with her a few times with the assistance of some family members over the objections of her mother.

Since then mother admitted to me her daughter had not been forthcoming with all the facts at the time the relationship. And that the daughter had taunted her mother with certain details from our shared bed.

It was tough conversation, she apologized for holding on to anger I apologized for my part in it. ( I was not without fault). She told me she at first thought I was a perfect man, then became convinced a perfect man was not right for her daughter. And according to the Mom I was the most stubborn arse she had ever met , the other one she married.( he was sitting in the corner and laughed at that statement) And maybe that's why her daughter liked me so much but she wanted better and admitted she poisoned the relationship.
kept bringing in ex boyfriends to cookouts

We hadn't been living together long, and were never married. But they had made me part of their family,. She said I proved that when I came to see her daughter in hospice and made her laugh. She thanked me and told me that one good thing that had come of the cancer shite was that she could now consider me her friend again.

WELL the Mom killed herself tonight, note said she couldn't face her daughter impending death.
Family choose not to even tell the ex. Dr's don't give her the end of the month

My ex is dying of cancer and her mom who has been difficult and judgmental her entire life now offs herself to avoid dealing with her death. The family is torn and Im the only one according to the sister that can go sit with her and give her some happiness, because everyone else is so sad.

so much ain and sadness, and I don't think I should be a prt of this, Iwas just trying to do the right thing, not get involved in this cluster frick

but Sheri deserves better, so Im gonna give it to her
might try and kidnap her from hospice and go race carts,, I threatened it last time,, now there wont be family to stop me

hope she does die on this adventure but I want to see her smile