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Why do women stay with guys who abuse them?
Posted on 8/13/14 at 7:49 am
Posted on 8/13/14 at 7:49 am
I have a really good friend who I think is going to end up being beat up by her bf. He has already grabbed her iphone5 and slammed it against the wall, busting it to a million pieces and then cheated on her that same night. He did this all because she got a text from an old bf that she is still friends with. This guy has verbally abused my friend, and has called her a trashy whore among other things.
Well last night I had a business meeting with a lady who is in hiding from her husband. I help people who are disabled get gov benefits. Her husband is a drug dealer who has verbally and physically abused her. He has punched her out and pistol whipped her even. She has a restraining order on him. He is in jail right now for violating the restraining order. She told me she still loves him and prays that God will save their marriage.
I don't understand how a woman could allow a man to abuse them in any way and remain in the relationship.
Well last night I had a business meeting with a lady who is in hiding from her husband. I help people who are disabled get gov benefits. Her husband is a drug dealer who has verbally and physically abused her. He has punched her out and pistol whipped her even. She has a restraining order on him. He is in jail right now for violating the restraining order. She told me she still loves him and prays that God will save their marriage.
I don't understand how a woman could allow a man to abuse them in any way and remain in the relationship.
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Posted on 8/13/14 at 7:50 am to rebeloke
Because they realize they were in the wrong? 
ETA. They have the sammich made before he asks next time.
ETA. They have the sammich made before he asks next time.
This post was edited on 8/13/14 at 7:51 am
Posted on 8/13/14 at 7:50 am to rebeloke
Because they are delusional because they are in love and think that that is all they can get.
Posted on 8/13/14 at 7:51 am to rebeloke
You talkin bout me?!
Posted on 8/13/14 at 7:51 am to rebeloke
It is completely crazy. I don't understand it.
Posted on 8/13/14 at 7:51 am to rebeloke
Bitches be cray?
Posted on 8/13/14 at 7:51 am to rebeloke
Because daddy wasn't there or if he was was abusive.
Posted on 8/13/14 at 7:52 am to rebeloke
Bitches
be
crazy.
That's all you need to know
be
crazy.
That's all you need to know
Posted on 8/13/14 at 7:52 am to rebeloke
Usually it's women who have REALLY low self-esteem and think they can't do any better or they make themselves believe they can change their man.
Another reason is because they are financially dependent on their abuser. It's really sad.
Another reason is because they are financially dependent on their abuser. It's really sad.
Posted on 8/13/14 at 7:52 am to rebeloke
They're also afraid that if they let this "love" go that they wont find another and be alone for the rest of their life
Posted on 8/13/14 at 7:52 am to rebeloke
The guy probably has money, and they figure a few bruises are better than working for a living
Posted on 8/13/14 at 7:52 am to rebeloke
The sex
Those guys put it on their significant others
They don't want pussts like me And you
Those guys put it on their significant others
They don't want pussts like me And you
This post was edited on 8/13/14 at 7:53 am
Posted on 8/13/14 at 7:54 am to Walt OReilly
pics?
Posted on 8/13/14 at 7:56 am to MrPackSix
quote:
They're also afraid that if they let this "love" go that they wont find another and be alone for the rest of their life
This right here.
Also add in the fact that they may be even more afraid of breaking it off or going to the police for fear of even worse reprisal. It's some sad shite.
That's why men who abuse their wives/girlfriends are right down at the bottom of the barrel in my book along with rapists and child molesters.
Posted on 8/13/14 at 7:56 am to rebeloke
The emotional abuse they are subject to rivals the physical abuse they receive. Men who abuse women assert complete control. They control the money (even her money), her movements, her relationships with family and friends, everything. This makes it very difficult for her to leave.
It's tougg to see. You just have to hope they realize there are resources out there to help them.
ETA: O-T Response: rabble rabble she better make a better sammich next time rabble rabble
It's tougg to see. You just have to hope they realize there are resources out there to help them.
ETA: O-T Response: rabble rabble she better make a better sammich next time rabble rabble
This post was edited on 8/13/14 at 7:58 am
Posted on 8/13/14 at 7:58 am to rebeloke
Learned helplessness, Martin Seligman 1975
Posted on 8/13/14 at 8:02 am to rebeloke
quote:
She told me she still loves him and prays that God will save their marriage.
Also, this is part of the problem.
Posted on 8/13/14 at 8:03 am to rebeloke
There isn't any one answer here. Sometimes it's depression, and it's just fulfilling the view they have of themselves. Other times, it's what they get off on, the submissive fantasy lived out in real terms. It can also be fear that he will find out she is leaving and hurt her.
Posted on 8/13/14 at 8:04 am to rebeloke
Because girls are dumb brah, don't even try to understand it.
Posted on 8/13/14 at 8:11 am to Jcorye1
The woman I meet with last night has two girls by another man. She fears for her children, yet, she is aware that she is vulnerable to being manipulated by him into returning. But what fascinated me was how you could tell she genuinely loves the guy. Love is a very strange thing!
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