- My Forums
- Tiger Rant
- LSU Recruiting
- SEC Rant
- Saints Talk
- Pelicans Talk
- More Sports Board
- Fantasy Sports
- Golf Board
- Soccer Board
- O-T Lounge
- Tech Board
- Home/Garden Board
- Outdoor Board
- Health/Fitness Board
- Movie/TV Board
- Book Board
- Music Board
- Political Talk
- Money Talk
- Fark Board
- Gaming Board
- Travel Board
- Food/Drink Board
- Ticket Exchange
- TD Help Board
Customize My Forums- View All Forums
- Show Left Links
- Topic Sort Options
- Trending Topics
- Recent Topics
- Active Topics
Started By
Message
Friend confided in me that he's having an affair (updates in OP)
Posted on 8/1/14 at 7:55 am
Posted on 8/1/14 at 7:55 am
Last night a good friend of mine confided in me that he's having an affair with another married woman. Said it started due to a lack of intimacy at home. I know he and his wife have been going through a hard patch with a toddler and her going back to work but I didn't think he would seek it elsewhere.
What would you do? Advise him to stop? Or just file that info away and play the charade?
Eta:
Per the conversation with him here is a look into his mind
1) He is not in love with this new woman. He just enjoys having sex with her and because they are in the same industry they have similar things to talk about. He won't leave his wife.
2) He believes that after the baby his wife just shut everything down. She's a stay at home mom and their kid is over a year old but she doesn't cook, doesn't go to the gym is antisocial etc. now these are the excuses of a cheater so take with a grain of salt but she may have had some depression issues after the baby.
3) He knows it's wrong and that he shouldn't be doing this needs to stop but he's planning to stretch it out for as long as possible. And the other woman doesn't have kids.
All that being said he's a pretty nice guy.
What would you do? Advise him to stop? Or just file that info away and play the charade?
Eta:
Per the conversation with him here is a look into his mind
1) He is not in love with this new woman. He just enjoys having sex with her and because they are in the same industry they have similar things to talk about. He won't leave his wife.
2) He believes that after the baby his wife just shut everything down. She's a stay at home mom and their kid is over a year old but she doesn't cook, doesn't go to the gym is antisocial etc. now these are the excuses of a cheater so take with a grain of salt but she may have had some depression issues after the baby.
3) He knows it's wrong and that he shouldn't be doing this needs to stop but he's planning to stretch it out for as long as possible. And the other woman doesn't have kids.
All that being said he's a pretty nice guy.
This post was edited on 8/1/14 at 9:30 am
81
Posted on 8/1/14 at 7:57 am to RedRifle
quote:
What would you do?
nothing, maybe post about it here
Advise him to stop?
depends on whether or not I like his wife.
Or just file that info away and play the charade?
this
Posted on 8/1/14 at 7:57 am to RedRifle
If the wife is hot and you are single......
Posted on 8/1/14 at 7:57 am to RedRifle
quote:
Advise him to stop?
tell him not to get caught
Posted on 8/1/14 at 7:57 am to RedRifle
He's undermining the future trust of his kid pulling that shite. Either work it out with the wife or get a divorce. But he should lie about his feelings or his life.
Edit: sorry forgot this was the OT. Pics of wife and mistress to decide haha?
Edit: sorry forgot this was the OT. Pics of wife and mistress to decide haha?
This post was edited on 8/1/14 at 7:59 am
Posted on 8/1/14 at 7:57 am to RedRifle
I'm a woman and I'd want to know ... no one told my mom when it was my father cheating on her. At the same time, IDK if it's any of your business??? Sucks to be in that situation.
Posted on 8/1/14 at 7:58 am to RedRifle
Stay out of it.
And then frick his wife
And then frick his wife
Posted on 8/1/14 at 7:58 am to RedRifle
Sounds like your friend's wife is game now. What's she look like?
Posted on 8/1/14 at 7:58 am to RedRifle
You can't continue to be friends with this guy unless you tell him to get his head out of his arse and stop. Married with a young kid, very selfish to be foiling around, I don't care how much he is or isn't getting at home.
Posted on 8/1/14 at 7:59 am to RedRifle
Just what we need......more broken home kids
Posted on 8/1/14 at 7:59 am to Bama and Beer
quote:
Stay out of it.
Posted on 8/1/14 at 7:59 am to RedRifle
Are you married? It could be with your wife and this was his way of letting you know
Posted on 8/1/14 at 8:00 am to tiger91
quote:
I'm a woman and I'd want to know ... no one told my mom when it was my father cheating on her. At the same time, IDK if it's any of your business??? Sucks to be in that situation.
I don't think any of the options included "tell his wife"
I'd tell him to think hard about the situation that he's brining upon himself.
That or just stfu, and stay out of it.
Posted on 8/1/14 at 8:00 am to RedRifle
quote:
RedRifle
You will eventually slip up and tell your S/O and they will let his know
Posted on 8/1/14 at 8:01 am to RedRifle
you got to take that shite to the grave.
I'm almost certain that's what my wife is doing.
I'm almost certain that's what my wife is doing.
Posted on 8/1/14 at 8:01 am to ForeverLSU02
quote:
Sounds like your friend's wife is game now. What's she look like?
Sounds like she isn't giving it up, is that what you are looking for?
Posted on 8/1/14 at 8:01 am to RedRifle
Continue to be his friend but advise him to stop and also ask him not to involve you. Like needing you for an alibi or something.
Posted on 8/1/14 at 8:01 am to RedRifle
quote:
file that info away
Ain't my business, and it has no bearing on my friendship with the person. As long as they're still a good friend to me, I couldn't give frick all what they do otherwise.
If the spouse was a good friend of mine, maybe it would be different, but I have yet to have a friend whose SO is anything more than their SO and casual friend to me.
Posted on 8/1/14 at 8:02 am to meauxjeaux2
quote:Cheating on you or harboring someone else's secrets?
I'm almost certain that's what my wife is doing.
Posted on 8/1/14 at 8:02 am to OceanMan
quote:
You can't continue to be friends with this guy unless you tell him to get his head out of his arse and stop. Married with a young kid, very selfish to be foiling around, I don't care how much he is or isn't getting at home.
Bingo. If he's a true friend you need to tell him to stop or be done with him.
And tell him I said he's a piece of shite.
Page 1 of 27
Popular
Back to top
Follow TigerDroppings for LSU Football News