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Making hotel reservations with a significant other...when is too soon?

Posted on 7/17/14 at 1:39 pm
Posted by saint amant steve
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2008
5695 posts
Posted on 7/17/14 at 1:39 pm
I tried to make this as concise as possible. My apologies for the length.

I have been seeing this girl since January (we had a brief break for about three weeks but we were still sleeping together). We're both in our early twenties and she is a couple of years younger than me.

I bought tickets for a concert several months ago and the original concert date was set for mid-June. I told her to save the date a few weeks before the show but I did not mention what we were doing. Shortly after she requested off from work the concert was rescheduled for October. Obviously, we didn't go to the concert and I never got around to telling her what we were doing.

Flash forward to the other night. Another artist (AFI) who she and her friend like is performing the same night as the rescheduled concert. She kept pestering me about why she should miss out on AFI and wanted to know what I had planned. I reluctantly tell her who I bought tickets to see and she is absolutely ecstatic. In fact, she becomes so ecstatic about the concert that she decided to take it upon herself to book a hostel in New Orleans for that night.

Here's my issue...I bought the tickets because I desperately wanted to see this artist perform, and not because I thought it would be a great date with her. I just figured that I might as well ask her to accompany me because we're currently dating. That being said, I didn't take it as a sure thing. You never know what can happen with someone in a few months, right? I have no problem with finding someone else to go with me. However, I think she is under the impression that I bought the tickets specifically for the two of us.

I didn't want to tell her about the concert until a few weeks before the show because if things were to go south between us I didn't want to upset her, aside from breaking up, by having her miss out on the concert.

My question to the OT is this: Is making a reservation such as this with someone you have been seeing for approximately six months a bit presumptuous (particulary something three months away)?
Posted by Death Before Disco
Member since Dec 2009
6160 posts
Posted on 7/17/14 at 1:41 pm to
Damn, you are a giant pussy.

Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
146214 posts
Posted on 7/17/14 at 1:41 pm to
have you banged her yet?
Posted by Leonard Threenette
Member since Jul 2014
874 posts
Posted on 7/17/14 at 1:42 pm to
Quit making shite so complicated and just break up with the chick. You obviously don't like her. Or girls in general.
This post was edited on 7/17/14 at 1:43 pm
Posted by Croacka
Denham Springs
Member since Dec 2008
61441 posts
Posted on 7/17/14 at 1:42 pm to
so you told her to save the date originally, but you aren't sure you're inviting her?


WTF?
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83510 posts
Posted on 7/17/14 at 1:42 pm to
I...I am really confused right now

what?
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
66964 posts
Posted on 7/17/14 at 1:42 pm to
congrats on the sex with your hand
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
146214 posts
Posted on 7/17/14 at 1:42 pm to
never-mind.....apparently so

LINK
Posted by DosManos
Member since Oct 2013
3552 posts
Posted on 7/17/14 at 1:43 pm to
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Damn, you are a giant pussy.



Posted by Vrai
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2003
3888 posts
Posted on 7/17/14 at 1:43 pm to
Yeah, you are over thinking this like a chick.
Posted by NIH
Member since Aug 2008
112513 posts
Posted on 7/17/14 at 1:43 pm to



Posted by RaginCajun87
Member since Jul 2013
353 posts
Posted on 7/17/14 at 1:43 pm to
quote:

Damn, you are a giant pussy.


My thoughts exactly.
Posted by Croacka
Denham Springs
Member since Dec 2008
61441 posts
Posted on 7/17/14 at 1:43 pm to
oh, and can't answer this without pics steve
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
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Posted on 7/17/14 at 1:43 pm to
Posted by Broke
AKA Buttercup
Member since Sep 2006
65037 posts
Posted on 7/17/14 at 1:45 pm to
You told her to save the date, you told her the artist. Of course it's presumptuous because you fricking invited her.
Posted by Boondock Saint
The Boondocks
Member since Oct 2005
4525 posts
Posted on 7/17/14 at 1:45 pm to
What the frick is wrong with you. Go the the concert, have a great time, go back to the hotel and frick the shite out of your girlfriend.

Don't be such a pussy and over analyze. Your fricking generation drives me crazy!

ETA: I'm 38 BTW, so not that old, but old enough to realize your generation needs to grow the frick up.
This post was edited on 7/17/14 at 1:46 pm
Posted by bbap
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Feb 2006
96003 posts
Posted on 7/17/14 at 1:45 pm to
good.god.
Posted by Spaulding Smails
Milano’s Bar
Member since Jun 2012
18805 posts
Posted on 7/17/14 at 1:46 pm to
You're a grown man that listens to AFI?
Posted by MrPappagiorgio
Prairieville
Member since Jan 2009
41122 posts
Posted on 7/17/14 at 1:46 pm to
quote:

saint amant


that explans it
Posted by Broke
AKA Buttercup
Member since Sep 2006
65037 posts
Posted on 7/17/14 at 1:46 pm to
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bbap


Kids eh nap? Dumb as rocks.
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