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Why is cheating on SO a social stigma?
Posted on 6/28/14 at 8:57 pm
Posted on 6/28/14 at 8:57 pm
I figured here would be just as good as any place to ask
Posted on 6/28/14 at 8:59 pm to fnchdrms87
Because you consider them significant and still can't man up enough to be honest with them.
Posted on 6/28/14 at 9:00 pm to fnchdrms87
Character isn't a coat. You can't take it off and put it on when it suits you.
Posted on 6/28/14 at 9:00 pm to fnchdrms87
Because people don't want to believe they are capable of doing it.
Posted on 6/28/14 at 9:00 pm to fnchdrms87
Because it makes the one being cheated on feel like shite. Pretty simple.
Posted on 6/28/14 at 9:01 pm to fightin tigers
What if you're ok with them sleeping with someone else?
Posted on 6/28/14 at 9:01 pm to fnchdrms87
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What if you're ok with them sleeping with someone else?
Then I guess it isn't cheating.
Posted on 6/28/14 at 9:02 pm to BayouBandit24
Because you decided to make them your SO, with the good and and that comes along with that.
Posted on 6/28/14 at 9:02 pm to fnchdrms87
quote:
I figured here would be just as good as any place to ask
Posted on 6/28/14 at 9:02 pm to fnchdrms87
Because trustworthiness and loyalty are considered virtues and cheating shows you are neither.
Posted on 6/28/14 at 9:02 pm to fnchdrms87
Right. Isn't it basically accepted in Europe that you have a wife and girlfriend?
Posted on 6/28/14 at 9:03 pm to fnchdrms87
Because agriculture and civilization created monogamy.
Posted on 6/28/14 at 9:03 pm to fnchdrms87
As a guy, if your female SO gets it on with another female, is that really cheating?
Posted on 6/28/14 at 9:03 pm to fnchdrms87
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What if you're ok with them sleeping with someone else?
That's not cheating. Cheating is when you make a pleadge with another person to be only with that person. Cheating is when you cheat on that promise without the other person knowing.
It's a "stigma" because it is lying and disrespectful not to mention hurtful and unforgivable.
Posted on 6/28/14 at 9:03 pm to Bunk Moreland
I think this discussion boils down to whether one thinks humans are naturally monogamous or polygamous
This post was edited on 6/28/14 at 9:05 pm
Posted on 6/28/14 at 9:03 pm to Bunk Moreland
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Right. Isn't it basically accepted in Europe that you have a wife and girlfriend?
If your SO is accepting then it isn't cheating. If she isn't then you are lying to her.
Kind of see the difference?
Posted on 6/28/14 at 9:05 pm to fnchdrms87
Character. If a man will cheat on his wife (and visa versa) he/she will steal me blind.
First Rule of Business. Dont do business with weak/bad character.
Remember Momma's warning- if he cheats, he lies, and if he lies he steals... lying cheating and stealing are the same thing, gateway to hell...
First Rule of Business. Dont do business with weak/bad character.
Remember Momma's warning- if he cheats, he lies, and if he lies he steals... lying cheating and stealing are the same thing, gateway to hell...
Posted on 6/28/14 at 9:05 pm to fnchdrms87
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I think this discussion boils down to whether one thinks humans are naturally monogamous or polygamous
Nah, Not really. It boils down to if you are a piece of shite that can't control their own urges.
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