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Gay pride tolerance

Posted on 6/16/14 at 7:59 am
Posted by dante
Kingwood, TX
Member since Mar 2006
10669 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 7:59 am
LINKFor a group that is constantly seeking inclusion to main stream they certainly don't have a problem excluding certain groups.

BTW: San Fran Lgbt parade will not allow National guard booth. Chelsea Manning is hononary grand Marshall
Posted by MMauler
Member since Jun 2013
19216 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 8:07 am to
It's BRADLEY MANNING, the TRAITOR. Don't give in to this s*ck bullsh!t.
This post was edited on 6/16/14 at 8:08 am
Posted by Tchefuncte Tiger
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Member since Oct 2004
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Posted on 6/16/14 at 8:13 am to
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It's BRADLEY MANNING, the TRAITOR. Don't give in to this s*ck bullsh!t.


Shhh...don't anger the "libertarians" who think this freak is some type of hero. I will say he has, at least for now, more balls than the chicken Snowden.
This post was edited on 6/16/14 at 8:16 am
Posted by Sevendust912
Member since Jun 2013
11366 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 8:26 am to
"You must agree with all of our beliefs or you are a bigot"

Gets old.
Posted by Elvis Parsley
Red Stuck
Member since Jan 2004
615 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 8:51 am to
I don't get the gay 'pride' angle. Am I missing something?
I don't think I have ever thought to myself or said to anyone 'Man, I'm so proud to be a hetro male'
Posted by Chuck Barris
Member since Apr 2013
2146 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 8:57 am to
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I don't get the gay 'pride' angle. Am I missing something?
I don't think I have ever thought to myself or said to anyone 'Man, I'm so proud to be a hetro male'

A lot of gay people did grow up thinking to themselves or saying to other people "Man, I'm so ashamed to be gay." The message behind pride is that you don't have to be ashamed of being homosexual.
This post was edited on 6/16/14 at 8:58 am
Posted by Pettifogger
Capitol Hill Autonomous Zone
Member since Feb 2012
79098 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 9:03 am to
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A lot of gay people did grow up thinking to themselves or saying to other people "Man, I'm so ashamed to be gay." The message behind pride is that you don't have to be ashamed of being homosexual.



What's the message behind putting another man in a choke collar and a bikini bottom and towing him behind you down the parade route?
Posted by Chuck Barris
Member since Apr 2013
2146 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 9:08 am to
Basically the same message as when a woman exposes her breasts for beads at Mardi Gras: that it's fun to break the rules about what's allowed in public on special occasions, like an annual parade.
Posted by SpidermanTUba
my house
Member since May 2004
36128 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 9:10 am to
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It's BRADLEY MANNING, the TRAITOR.


You're Bradley Manning?
Posted by SpidermanTUba
my house
Member since May 2004
36128 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 9:11 am to
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"You must agree with all of our beliefs or you are a bigot"

Gets old.


So stop saying it.
Posted by SpidermanTUba
my house
Member since May 2004
36128 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 9:11 am to
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What's the message behind putting another man in a choke collar and a bikini bottom and towing him behind you down the parade route?


You should go to a gay pride parade and ask around.

Posted by Elvis Parsley
Red Stuck
Member since Jan 2004
615 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 9:12 am to
Interesting take. When I came of age I only thought of girls/women. Never felt shame. So I guess I get that.
Posted by Pettifogger
Capitol Hill Autonomous Zone
Member since Feb 2012
79098 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 9:37 am to
I've been "around" gay pride parades. Point is, it's debauchery without a real message. I'm sure it is fun for some, but even a lot of folks in the gay community hate that stuff because it makes them "abnormal" and many just want to assimilate.

It may be comparable to NOLA mardi gras, but keep in mind that Bourbon St. antics aren't the norm for most of these areas. I don't think you can blame people for getting a little miffed if Bourbon Street comes by your front door in an area where that type of stuff is definitely not the norm.
This post was edited on 6/16/14 at 9:42 am
Posted by Mickey Goldmill
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2010
23002 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 9:55 am to
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I've been "around" gay pride parades. Point is, it's debauchery without a real message. I'm sure it is fun for some, but even a lot of folks in the gay community hate that stuff because it makes them "abnormal" and many just want to assimilate.


It's not necessarily all about having a specific message more than just having the courage to act out of the norm in public for at least a day. I would never do those things you described at a parade but it doesn't make me hate those people or feel ashamed. That's the whole point. Nobody at a gay pride event should have to feel embarrassed, ashamed, ect.
Posted by Pettifogger
Capitol Hill Autonomous Zone
Member since Feb 2012
79098 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 10:00 am to
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It's not necessarily all about having a specific message more than just having the courage to act out of the norm in public for at least a day. I would never do those things you described at a parade but it doesn't make me hate those people or feel ashamed. That's the whole point. Nobody at a gay pride event should have to feel embarrassed, ashamed, ect.



Some shame is fine. I don't think there's much nobility in not feeling ashamed for dressing your boyfriend up as a slave and dragging him around in public.

Anyway, I'm not that concerned about Pride or anything, it doesn't really bother me when it happens here. I just think it's time for the gay community to move more toward "normal," and I know a lot of gay folks who want this as well.
Posted by mindbreaker
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2011
7631 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 10:03 am to
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"You must agree with all of our beliefs or you are a bigot"

Gets old.


So does "You are stomping on my religious freedom" and "There is a war on Christianity"

Both sides could use the occasional chill pill
Posted by Mickey Goldmill
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2010
23002 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 10:03 am to
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Anyway, I'm not that concerned about Pride or anything, it doesn't really bother me when it happens here. I just think it's time for the gay community to move more toward "normal," and I know a lot of gay folks who want this as well.


I guess I agree and disagree with you. I wish more people would see the non-stereotypical side of the gay community. The ones that you would never even know they were gay. But at the same time, I don't think people should have to try to adhere to societal norms regarding appearance.
Posted by BayouBlitz
Member since Aug 2007
15837 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 10:08 am to
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it's debauchery without a real message


Just like Sat Patrick's Day!
Posted by ballscaster
Member since Jun 2013
26861 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 10:16 am to
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Just like Sat Patrick's Day!

You beat me to it.

Yes, some groups like to have parades. The parades don't have to have a singular, clear message. Sometimes people just want to have a good time without being so feminine about it ("I just need to know that this parade meant something to you."). Gays like to have parades sometimes. Sometimes it's somebody else's birthday and not yours. There's nothing to "get."
Posted by Pettifogger
Capitol Hill Autonomous Zone
Member since Feb 2012
79098 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 10:20 am to
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I guess I agree and disagree with you. I wish more people would see the non-stereotypical side of the gay community. The ones that you would never even know they were gay. But at the same time, I don't think people should have to try to adhere to societal norms regarding appearance.



Depends on what you mean by "should have to."

On a broader level, if you want to be treated as normal by this society, you'll generally need to find some compromise with its norms. I'm sure plenty of people who act in the manner we're talking about don't really care about that. But, if you want to be treated equally (I don't mean rights, just in how people respond to you), acting in that manner will discredit a lot of your complaints, IMO.
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