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LSU1NSEC
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Complicated situation. Advice appreciated. Will try to be brief.



A young woman I used to work with has been going out to my country property by herself at random times - picking thru the gardens, sitting on my porch... basically hanging out by herself.

Her background:

hard worker
5'2"
blond
very cute
tomboyish
tons of guys after her
boyfriend in jail

lost her father and youngest daughter recently
may view me as somewhat of a father figure

always wears tight shorts and skimpy clothing around me

I've never slept with her or come on to her - way too much drama for me

I enjoy talking to her and hanging out with her for short periods of time

She's had surgery for a weird condition in her hip and had to take off work

Lost her home

I've known her casually for about 5 years now


Basically, I went out to property today and found her just wandering around - going thru an old barn. I told her we need to have a talk about what's going on here. She agreed and is coming out next week to talk. I understand the trespassing laws and nicely told her she doesn't have an implied permission to be on the property but I'd like to have a serious talk with her.


How would you handle this? I don't want to crush the poor girl considering she may have some kind of father figure thing going with me.

All opinions welcome - I may actually get some good ideas here...oooooor, maybe not.








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DollaChoppa
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re: Complicated situation. Advice appreciated. Will try to be brief.


Give me her number

eta: dibs



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SmackoverHawg
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re: Complicated situation. Advice appreciated. Will try to be brief.


How old are you? Her? You married?





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Golfer
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re: Complicated situation. Advice appreciated. Will try to be brief.


Why didn't you just talk with her there? Seems like she needs some people to help get her on the right path.





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LSU1NSEC
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re: Complicated situation. Advice appreciated. Will try to be brief.


quote:

How old are you? Her? You married?


i'm 15 years older than her. never been married. heterosexual






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Turkey_Creek_Tiger
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re: Complicated situation. Advice appreciated. Will try to be brief.


quote:

5'2"
blond
very cute


quote:

always wears tight shorts and skimpy clothing around me


quote:

How would you handle this?








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Scruffy
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re: Complicated situation. Advice appreciated. Will try to be brief.


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lost her father and youngest daughter recently
Possibly depressed.

Ask her what is going on. Just be straight forward. Don't jump to accusations or anger.



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SmackoverHawg
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re: Complicated situation. Advice appreciated. Will try to be brief.


I don't know what you should do, but I know what I'd do.





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Kafka
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re: Complicated situation. Advice appreciated. Will try to be brief.


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I understand the trespassing laws and nicely told her she doesn't have an implied permission to be on the property
stand your ground and go zimmerman on dat ass






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LSU1NSEC
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re: Complicated situation. Advice appreciated. Will try to be brief.


quote:

Why didn't you just talk with her there? Seems like she needs some people to help get her on the right path.


I've been talking to her for years about bad decisions she's making with her boyfriend whose in jail right now. He's about to get out - dude is bad news.






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shutterspeed
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re: Complicated situation. Advice appreciated. Will try to be brief.


Prayers sent for when her bf, whom she's been casing your property for, gets out of the joint.





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FLBooGoTigs1
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quote:

dibs


frick. This one sounds like she needs a lesson on trespassing






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Golfer
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re: Complicated situation. Advice appreciated. Will try to be brief.


quote:

Possibly depressed.



Yea, losing my dad, daughter, my house, and my BF in jail while recently having a major medical issue...

I'd be down on my luck too...






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PierPunk
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re: Complicated situation. Advice appreciated. Will try to be brief.


Pics?





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DevilDogTiger
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re: Complicated situation. Advice appreciated. Will try to be brief.


Are you a fattie? Because you post like a homely country fattie.

Were you perhaps home schooled?






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LSU1NSEC
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re: Complicated situation. Advice appreciated. Will try to be brief.


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Prayers sent for when her bf, whom she's been casing your property for, gets out of the joint.



i've met her boyfriend and he thinks i'm the coolest motherfkr on the planet

damn, it's complicated






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Mr. Hangover
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re: Complicated situation. Advice appreciated. Will try to be brief.


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Prayers sent for when her bf, whom she's been casing your property for, gets out of the joint.



This probably has a little hint of truth to it. Be careful man






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SmackoverHawg
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re: Complicated situation. Advice appreciated. Will try to be brief.


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Prayers sent for when her bf, whom she's been casing your property for, gets out of the joint.

Yep. Don't think you can "save her". She sounds like trouble. Bad decisions followed by more bad decisions. Boyfriend getting out of jail. She may not have anything planned, but I'd tell her to haul arse and don't come back...after I nailed her.






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genro
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re: Complicated situation. Advice appreciated. Will try to be brief.


She's growing pot on your land





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northshorebamaman
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re: Complicated situation. Advice appreciated. Will try to be brief.


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Pics?

No shite.






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