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question for OT couples
Posted on 5/19/14 at 9:26 am
Posted on 5/19/14 at 9:26 am
any of you guys moved with your SO from a place where both of you had your own friends and did a lot of couples stuff to a place where it was just you and your SO and niether of you knows anybody. If so how was the adjustment, did one on one dinners start getting weird b/c your running out of things to say? or did it bring you closer together.
I'll hang up and listen.
I'll hang up and listen.
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Posted on 5/19/14 at 9:27 am to trillhog
prayers sent
Posted on 5/19/14 at 9:29 am to BRgetthenet
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You coming to Baton Rouge?
i don't know yet, i may have to go to China
Posted on 5/19/14 at 9:30 am to trillhog
We made new friends and we didn't run out of things to say because we're social and can easily make the other laugh.
Posted on 5/19/14 at 9:31 am to trillhog
You trying to move her away from some eye candy?
Posted on 5/19/14 at 9:31 am to trillhog
Made friends pretty easily, but we both are active people. The gym, running, parents of our daughter's friends, etc,
Posted on 5/19/14 at 9:32 am to trillhog
That's just a strange premise. My wife and I could be perfectly content just talking with each other on our own.
Posted on 5/19/14 at 9:32 am to trillhog
My wife and I moved from her home town/where I went to college to Chattanooga. We both didn't really have friends here. We made new friends.
It was really rough for my wife because she never really lived beyond a few miles from her parents. She needed to do it though, she grew up a lot not having them within walking distance.
Big factor is I went from an extremely stressful job to one I enjoy, so our relationship got a lot better.
It was really rough for my wife because she never really lived beyond a few miles from her parents. She needed to do it though, she grew up a lot not having them within walking distance.
Big factor is I went from an extremely stressful job to one I enjoy, so our relationship got a lot better.
Posted on 5/19/14 at 9:32 am to trillhog
They don't have a Chimes there, I don't think.
Where we gonna trawl fuh booty breh?
Where we gonna trawl fuh booty breh?
Posted on 5/19/14 at 9:33 am to trillhog
Depends on if the SO was taken there against their will
Posted on 5/19/14 at 9:34 am to trillhog
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did one on one dinners start getting weird b/c your running out of things to say?
I believe that not feeling awkward or weird during period of silence when it is just you and your SO is a true sign of a confident and secure relationship
Posted on 5/19/14 at 9:35 am to BRgetthenet
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Where we gonna trawl fuh booty breh?
El Cid pool
Posted on 5/19/14 at 9:36 am to trillhog
quote:
You coming to Baton Rouge?
quote:
i don't know yet, i may have to go to China
Pretty similar places actually
Posted on 5/19/14 at 9:38 am to trillhog
I'll tell you right now that I can spend every minute with my significant other sand never get tired or bored with it. I notice that we are both alike and both get tired and aggravated with other people but when it comes to one another we always enjoy hanging out..... So to answer your question, no it wouldn't ever get weird. I think we could move off to a foreign country where we don't speak the language and not have any friends and me and her would do just fine.
Sorry you have a boring GF
Sorry you have a boring GF
Posted on 5/19/14 at 9:39 am to SuperSaint
And how long have you been dating her though?
Posted on 5/19/14 at 9:42 am to lsunurse
9-10 months or so
Posted on 5/19/14 at 9:44 am to trillhog
My wife and I, gf at the time, moved from BR after LSU to Silicon Valley. We didn't know anyone. It was crazy but fun. It made us partners for sure. I can't imagine not having spent that time with her, while we were both young and trying to figure out post college life. Getting away from everyone made the transition more thoughtful and surreal. You really get to know someone, and yourself, when you leave your whole support system.
Posted on 5/19/14 at 9:45 am to SuperSaint
Well there you go. 2 years and under you are still in a honeymoon stage. You are still on your best behavior for each other.
7 years in, you are not. You can enjoy each other's company and not have to fill every second with conversation.
7 years in, you are not. You can enjoy each other's company and not have to fill every second with conversation.
Posted on 5/19/14 at 9:46 am to Gaston
quote:
You really get to know someone, and yourself, when you leave your whole support system.
never done this before, i don't think i would like it. i see those people out and it would suck not to be in the loop.
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