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Do girls ever want to be just friends?
Posted on 5/13/14 at 8:26 pm
Posted on 5/13/14 at 8:26 pm
This friend of mine is really touchy and always wants to spend time together. I'm not interested in her at all. But everyone keeps giving me shite about it.
I have even been doing tons of stuff that Steve Carrell's character does in Crazy Stupid Love before Gosling fixes him to get her off my back. I constantly talk about my ex (who I am over for the most part) in order to make it clear I don't see her that way.
This girl is touchy with her best guy friend, but he is also a pretty good-looking dude, so it's not a good gauge. Maybe friends is the best she can do with guys who aren't interested.
I've had guy friends try this strategy with girls, but I've never known of girls ever doing it. By "this strategy," I mean the Friend Zone strategy. Purposely aim for the friend zone because that's all you've got, then try to make the impossible jump.
I'm just wondering if it's really a possibility that she just wants to be friends and nothing more. Am I naive in thinking this is possible?
Things kinda came to a head when she acted like it was a huge deal when she met my ex (who thought I was dating her at one point). She has just really been hyping up this encounter thinking my ex was intimidated. To be honest, my ex was a smokeshow compared to this girl, and I really can't see her being jealous once she actually met her. But I wasn't there after all.
I have even been doing tons of stuff that Steve Carrell's character does in Crazy Stupid Love before Gosling fixes him to get her off my back. I constantly talk about my ex (who I am over for the most part) in order to make it clear I don't see her that way.
This girl is touchy with her best guy friend, but he is also a pretty good-looking dude, so it's not a good gauge. Maybe friends is the best she can do with guys who aren't interested.
I've had guy friends try this strategy with girls, but I've never known of girls ever doing it. By "this strategy," I mean the Friend Zone strategy. Purposely aim for the friend zone because that's all you've got, then try to make the impossible jump.
I'm just wondering if it's really a possibility that she just wants to be friends and nothing more. Am I naive in thinking this is possible?
Things kinda came to a head when she acted like it was a huge deal when she met my ex (who thought I was dating her at one point). She has just really been hyping up this encounter thinking my ex was intimidated. To be honest, my ex was a smokeshow compared to this girl, and I really can't see her being jealous once she actually met her. But I wasn't there after all.
Posted on 5/13/14 at 8:27 pm to SwaggerCopter
Girls can just be friends with guys. I don't think it works the other way around.
Posted on 5/13/14 at 8:27 pm to SwaggerCopter
Dude, this isn't hard.
Just ask her to suck it.
Just ask her to suck it.
Posted on 5/13/14 at 8:27 pm to SwaggerCopter
that's all they ever want with me
Posted on 5/13/14 at 8:28 pm to Displaced
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girls do, guys don't
this
Posted on 5/13/14 at 8:28 pm to SwaggerCopter
so this chick is fat and ugly?
Posted on 5/13/14 at 8:29 pm to SwaggerCopter
Yes. Slow is like my best friend
Posted on 5/13/14 at 8:29 pm to KingRanch
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She's ugly?
She's not ugly, but she is a bit out of shape for my liking. I am not remotely attracted to her physically. Like even her mannerisms bother the shite out of me.
The girl is really cool though. We are very alike in a lot of ways, but like friends are. I wouldn't want to date myself with a wig on, you know?
Posted on 5/13/14 at 8:30 pm to SwaggerCopter
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Do girls ever want to be just friends?
Not unless its an ex that you KNOW things will never work out with.
Posted on 5/13/14 at 8:30 pm to SwaggerCopter
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She's not ugly, but she is a bit out of shape for my liking. I am not remotely attracted to her physically. Like even her mannerisms bother the shite out of me.
The girl is really cool though. We are very alike in a lot of ways, but like friends are. I wouldn't want to date myself with a wig on, you know?
So her mouth works and she seems eager...
Posted on 5/13/14 at 8:31 pm to SwaggerCopter
so you have her on the hook.
it's the reverse friendzone.
it's the reverse friendzone.
Posted on 5/13/14 at 8:32 pm to SwaggerCopter
quote:frick me
I wouldn't want to date myself with a wig on, you know?
no really,, I would totally do this
Posted on 5/13/14 at 8:33 pm to SwaggerCopter
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she is a bit out of shape for my liking.
So she has big boned genetics?
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