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Do girls ever want to be just friends?

Posted on 5/13/14 at 8:26 pm
Posted by SwaggerCopter
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Posted on 5/13/14 at 8:26 pm
This friend of mine is really touchy and always wants to spend time together. I'm not interested in her at all. But everyone keeps giving me shite about it.

I have even been doing tons of stuff that Steve Carrell's character does in Crazy Stupid Love before Gosling fixes him to get her off my back. I constantly talk about my ex (who I am over for the most part) in order to make it clear I don't see her that way.

This girl is touchy with her best guy friend, but he is also a pretty good-looking dude, so it's not a good gauge. Maybe friends is the best she can do with guys who aren't interested.

I've had guy friends try this strategy with girls, but I've never known of girls ever doing it. By "this strategy," I mean the Friend Zone strategy. Purposely aim for the friend zone because that's all you've got, then try to make the impossible jump.

I'm just wondering if it's really a possibility that she just wants to be friends and nothing more. Am I naive in thinking this is possible?

Things kinda came to a head when she acted like it was a huge deal when she met my ex (who thought I was dating her at one point). She has just really been hyping up this encounter thinking my ex was intimidated. To be honest, my ex was a smokeshow compared to this girl, and I really can't see her being jealous once she actually met her. But I wasn't there after all.
Posted by jb4
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Posted on 5/13/14 at 8:26 pm to
nope
Posted by Displaced
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Posted on 5/13/14 at 8:27 pm to
girls do, guys don't
Posted by fouldeliverer
Lannisport
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Posted on 5/13/14 at 8:27 pm to
Girls can just be friends with guys. I don't think it works the other way around.
Posted by KingRanch
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Posted on 5/13/14 at 8:27 pm to
She's ugly?
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
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Posted on 5/13/14 at 8:27 pm to
It's a trap.
Posted by boosiebadazz
Member since Feb 2008
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Posted on 5/13/14 at 8:27 pm to
Dude, this isn't hard.

Just ask her to suck it.
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
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Posted on 5/13/14 at 8:27 pm to
that's all they ever want with me
Posted by Turkey_Creek_Tiger
Member since Dec 2012
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Posted on 5/13/14 at 8:28 pm to
quote:

girls do, guys don't


this
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32701 posts
Posted on 5/13/14 at 8:28 pm to
so this chick is fat and ugly?
Posted by SDVTiger
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Posted on 5/13/14 at 8:29 pm to
Posted by Paige
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Posted on 5/13/14 at 8:29 pm to
Yes. Slow is like my best friend
Posted by OWLFAN86
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Posted on 5/13/14 at 8:29 pm to
the anti Slow
Posted by SwaggerCopter
H TINE HOL IT DINE
Member since Dec 2012
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Posted on 5/13/14 at 8:29 pm to
quote:

She's ugly?


She's not ugly, but she is a bit out of shape for my liking. I am not remotely attracted to her physically. Like even her mannerisms bother the shite out of me.

The girl is really cool though. We are very alike in a lot of ways, but like friends are. I wouldn't want to date myself with a wig on, you know?
Posted by lsu480
Downtown Scottsdale
Member since Oct 2007
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Posted on 5/13/14 at 8:30 pm to
quote:

Do girls ever want to be just friends?


Not unless its an ex that you KNOW things will never work out with.
Posted by upgrayedd
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Posted on 5/13/14 at 8:30 pm to




Beta alert!
Posted by boosiebadazz
Member since Feb 2008
80121 posts
Posted on 5/13/14 at 8:30 pm to
quote:

She's not ugly, but she is a bit out of shape for my liking. I am not remotely attracted to her physically. Like even her mannerisms bother the shite out of me.

The girl is really cool though. We are very alike in a lot of ways, but like friends are. I wouldn't want to date myself with a wig on, you know?


So her mouth works and she seems eager...

Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32701 posts
Posted on 5/13/14 at 8:31 pm to
so you have her on the hook.

it's the reverse friendzone.
Posted by OWLFAN86
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Posted on 5/13/14 at 8:32 pm to
quote:

I wouldn't want to date myself with a wig on, you know?
frick me


no really,, I would totally do this
Posted by weagle99
Member since Nov 2011
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Posted on 5/13/14 at 8:33 pm to
quote:

she is a bit out of shape for my liking.


So she has big boned genetics?

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