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Breaking up with a SO over moving in together

Posted on 4/25/14 at 1:33 pm
Posted by cattus
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Posted on 4/25/14 at 1:33 pm
Have you ever broken it off with someone or had someone break it off about living together?

Was at a brewery with a bud and he told me his girlfriend of 2 years is moving in his house next week when I know he doesn't want that. Asked him why and he said it will end if he doesn't let her.
His basement is decked out with games and beer, I'm sure she will put the kibosh on that.
Posted by CaptainPanic
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Posted on 4/25/14 at 1:34 pm to
He's probably bullshitting. He wants her to move in
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
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Posted on 4/25/14 at 1:34 pm to
So sad...can't he just find another one?
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
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Posted on 4/25/14 at 1:34 pm to
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Asked him why and he said it will end if he doesn't let her.


I'm guessing you meant SHE will end it if he doesn't let her.

Chick is giving him ultimatums? That always ends well.
Posted by wadewilson
Member since Sep 2009
36494 posts
Posted on 4/25/14 at 1:35 pm to
What a beta.
Posted by Winkface
Member since Jul 2010
34377 posts
Posted on 4/25/14 at 1:36 pm to
She sounds like a mooch and a bitch.
Posted by Larry
Collierville, TN
Member since Jul 2004
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Posted on 4/25/14 at 1:36 pm to
quote:

He's probably bullshitting. He wants her to move in


This is the most likely scenario, but she could just have him wrapped up like that
Posted by Carson123987
Middle Court at the Rec
Member since Jul 2011
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Posted on 4/25/14 at 1:37 pm to
quote:

bullshitting. He wants her to move in
Posted by Green Chili Tiger
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Member since Jul 2009
47557 posts
Posted on 4/25/14 at 1:38 pm to
quote:

girlfriend of 2 years


Either move in with her, marry her, or dump her. What more do you need to know that you haven't found out in 2 years?
Posted by Boomtown
Member since Jan 2014
1986 posts
Posted on 4/25/14 at 1:38 pm to
quote:

when I know he doesn't want that.


Do you peer into his soul? Are you two kindred spirits?
Posted by 9Fiddy
19th Hole
Member since Jan 2007
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Posted on 4/25/14 at 1:41 pm to
quote:

Asked him why and he said it will end if he doesn't let her.

Moving in together needs to be a mutual decision. And if this issue is more important than the relationship as a whole, they don't need to do it in the first place.
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
33793 posts
Posted on 4/25/14 at 1:41 pm to
quote:

This is the most likely scenario, but she could just have him wrapped up like that


I had a good friend that would talk mad shite about how he wasn't going to let his girl do this or that but whenever she was around she pretty much called the shots. So yeah he definitely could be BS-ing just to appear as if he's in control.

The girl in the OP may just be testing him. Seems like a weak reason to call it off with him. Plenty of people don't move in together until they're married.
This post was edited on 4/25/14 at 1:48 pm
Posted by cattus
Member since Jan 2009
13411 posts
Posted on 4/25/14 at 1:44 pm to
quote:


Do you peer into his soul? Are you two kindred spirits?


He said so on many occasions in the past.

Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 4/25/14 at 1:46 pm to
That's sad. No one is moving in with me until I'm completely ready for that.
Posted by Buddy Garrity
Member since Mar 2013
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Posted on 4/25/14 at 1:47 pm to
Heathens
Posted by iliveinabox
in a box
Member since Aug 2011
24115 posts
Posted on 4/25/14 at 1:47 pm to
Yes, being together all of the time since she didn't have any hobbies got old quick. Still dating, just don't live together atm
Posted by CaptainsWafer
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Member since Feb 2006
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Posted on 4/25/14 at 1:52 pm to
So two years is the absolute mark?
Posted by Master of Sinanju
Member since Feb 2012
11308 posts
Posted on 4/25/14 at 1:53 pm to
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What more do you need to know that you haven't found out in 2 years?


That the relationship is much more fun when you don't have to put up with her BS 24/7.
Posted by cattus
Member since Jan 2009
13411 posts
Posted on 4/25/14 at 1:53 pm to
quote:


The girl in the OP may just be testing him


Don't know if it was an ultimatum or not. If it wasn't he pointed that things would get miserable if he didn't let her to where it would end it.

Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128950 posts
Posted on 4/25/14 at 1:56 pm to
Your friend is not very smart in doing this. They should be living together when BOTH want that, not because one of them pressured the other to do it.



Basically...your friend is gonna end up miserable and resent her. If she is doing this in hopes of speeding up the process of him proposing....she is gonna be in for a disappointment.
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